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12 Things Happy People do Differently

Happy people value and choose:

1. Love over Fear: People, who are truly happy, are less fearful and more loving. They perceive every moment, every challenge, and every person as an opportunity to learn more about themselves and the world.

2. Acceptance over Resistance: Happy people know you can’t really change things by denying and resisting them. So when bad things happen, they don’t get angry and complain. Instead, they ask themselves questions like: What can I learn from this? How can I do to make this better?

3. Forgiveness over Unforgiveness: Truly happy individuals understand that it’s destructive to hold on to feelings of anger. Instead, they choose to forgive and let go, understanding that (in the end) forgiveness is a gift they give themselves.

4. Trust over Mistrust: They trust themselves … and they have learned to figure out who is trustworthy – and also those they should avoid.

5. Meaning over Ambition: Happy people do the things they do because it adds meaning and purpose to their lives. They’re not driven by the need to gain acceptance, praise and approval from others.

6. Challenges over Obstacles: Happy people see problems as challenges, and as opportunities to explore new ways of seeing and doing things. That is, challenges are something that help them grow.

7. Selflessness over Selfishness: Happy people seek out ways ways to give to others - of themselves, their time, their gifts, and their money. That is, they’re not self-focused and self-absorbed.

8. Kindness over Harshness: Happy people are gentle and kind with themselves and others. They know the importance and power of self-love, self-forgiveness and self-acceptance - and they freely love, forgive and accept other people.

9. Gratitude over Ingratitude: No matter where they are, or who they are with, happy people have the capacity to see beauty where others would only see ugliness – and they’re quick to express their gratitude.

10. Being Present over Being Disengaged: Happy people know how to live in the moment, appreciating what they have and who they are with. They are not constantly being dragged down by the past, or distracted by what could go wrong in the future.

11. Positivity over Negativity: Regardless of the circumstances of life, happy people are able to adopt and maintain a positive attitude.

12. Taking Responsibility over Blaming: Happy people assume full ownership for their lives. They assume responsibility for their choices, decisions, actions, reactions, beliefs and attitudes.

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Just keep pushing on

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I want to work this out with you. I want my future to be filled with ours. I want my years to be yours.

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“I’m slowly learning that even if I react, it won’t change anything, it won’t make people suddenly love and respect me, it won’t magically change their minds. Sometimes it’s better to just let things be, let people go, don’t fight for closure, don’t ask for explanations, don’t chase answers and don’t expect people to understand where you’re coming from. I’m slowly learning that life is better lived when you don’t center it on what’s happening around you and center it on what’s happening inside you instead. Work on yourself and your inner peace.”

— TheMindsJournal

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WAVES

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When is not enough?

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Indeed.

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Don't worry about anything, but in all your prayers ask God for what you need, always asking him with a thankful heart.

Phil. 4:6

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When everytime I looked into your phone...

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And yet, you can't sleep 🙄

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It's amazing, im in this maze with you..

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If I blocked you, it means I prioritize my peace and I no longer permit you to access my personal space.

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When someone is loving you

But you can't loved them back..

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Have you been begged for love?

And it ends with nothing?

And now it feels so afraid to love?

The pain really matters. A deep cut to your heart

And its not healing.

You forgive, but you cannot forget, its haunting.

Depression. Anxiety. Kills you.

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Doon ka sa taong hindi confused sa nararamdaman niya sa'yo. At kung mag stay ka man sa mga taong hot and cold ang treatment sa'yo, it's your fault already kasi in the first place meron ka namang choice, bakit hindi mo pinili? Pagmamahal lang ba talaga ang kailangan natin sa relationship? What about self respect and self love, babaliwalain na lang natin yun just because we love someone? Choose the person who chooses you every single day.

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““I’d like to walk around in your mind someday.” - Vashti Bunyan ”

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