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Jab khwahishein dum torhdein,

Aur Mausamoun ki khabar na ho..

Confess the truth to Allah!

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This

“Hate has caused a lot of problems in this world, but it has not solved one yet.”

— Maya Angelou

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Speechless!

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This!

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Wafadaari ki woh Rasmein..

Nibhhayeinge Hum Tum Qasmain..

Aik bhi Saans Zindagi ki.. Jab tak ho apne Bus main! ♥️

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Heard vs Depp: A Third Person's Point of View

People have picked their sides in the legal dispute going on between Amber Heard and Johnny Depp where Depp has sued Amber Heard in a $50m defamation lawsuit over an article she wrote in The Washington Post in 2018, in which she depicted herself as a 'public figure representing domestic abuse'.

But, the conflict is greater, murkier and more complicated at the centre than what meets the eye. Amber Heard says Johnny Depp abused her but on the opposite side, Depp says Heard abused him. So, what's the truth? Personally, here's what I think of it.

I have seen alot of people accusing Amber heard and calling her a liar in an online upsurge of reactions to her accounts of violent episodes that occurred during their marriage.

People, particularly, ladies, rush to dismiss her accounts of everything for two reasons probably; 1) to break the stereotypes that women always support women in the name of woman's rights above human rights, consequently, to prove to the male counterparts that it's false. 2) Lack of concrete evidence to back up her claims/case with.

First of all, absence of proofs doesn't always imply that the incident didn't take place or the account being submitted isn't truthful or honest.

Living in a constantly intoxicating environment can damage alot. Just in Hollywood, we have numerous examples of celebrity couples and families going to pieces because of people's addictions or substances abuse. The most prominent ones I can recall presently are; Whitney Houston and Bobby Brown, and Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt to give some examples.

In Amber Heard and Johnny Depp's case, tragically, Depp is the addicted one. Not many people will understand that living with somebody who is addicted to intoxicating substances and tends be get high generally daily, is difficult beyond one can imagine. It's like tossing a stone into a still lake: the effects swell out and impact generally that is closest. In case of a partner who uses drugs or drinks to an extreme, the impact is felt for the most part by their kids, family members, friends, and co-workers. However, the greater cost is often borne by the abuser's partner. As it makes profound communicational distance between the partners, removes their possibilities of spending time together as the time then is spend being high or passed out, thus, giving births to fights and a lot of arguments, which at times, can become rough or violent. Particularly because of the fact that the substance can affect and change your brain's ability to think appropriately or rationally. You will more often than not be fomented or irritated easily, therefore, resulting in serious behavioural problems and mood swings, etc. And, without giving your actions any thoughts, you will quite often project all of that on closed or loved ones the most. So, yes, loved ones bear the greater impacts of the aftereffects of your abuses.

The worst thing is, it also affects your memory. You can put people around you through the most awful and crazy crap under the influence of intoxication and later on don't even remember that. Which will automatically make the describer a liar in your eyes if they fail to present any proofs of said incident. In this case too, there's a greater amount of a proof of insane & horrible behaviour on Depp's part that he was putting her through under intoxication. A lot of which he's admitted he didn't remember. For instance, the texts. If they weren't on the record, he could have denied ever sending those terrible and upsetting messages to his friend, regarding his spouse. But, since it's proven, now he can't.

Showing up intoxicated on Amber's birthday, calling her all sorts of names etc doesn't really paint a clean and sensible picture of him from any angle.

Concerning the children part, he's the dad, he got the greatest and mandatory obligations towards his children, for example, providing a perfect and loving environment for them at home. And, Amber alone can't achieve that without his essential role in it. Sure, she probably had been yelling and screaming at him during the arguments, however, dealing with that when level-headed and clean might have been more useful and fruitful than while fighting impaired, which clearly made fights to escalate faster and on a greater scale than under normal conditions.

I don't imply that Amber Heard is an Angel & Johnny Depp is the evil monster alone. But, one must be purely blind to not analyze the evidences submitted in court on day 17-18 onwards, from an unbiased viewpoint.

Johnny Depp has a problem of intoxicating substances addiction, which is absolutely dangerous and main driver of alot issues in any relationship or a setting. Basically, what I'm emphasising on is that depp also was at fault, infact, all the more so on the grounds that he'd do drugs and drink constantly because of which he was unable to be himself and was definitely upset both, mentally and and physically, healthwise which reflected in his interactions with her. He's much older than her, he should be more responsible and mature than her. Particularly when he had his kids around.

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“Sometimes the smallest things take the most room in your heart.”

— Winnie the Pooh

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Kindly understand that love/marriage isn't about huge things and having somebody to take care of your sexual requests when you're horny. It's bigger than these things. You can love and make one another feel special without doing sex too.

Everything's about how you love and care for one another. It's displayed in the littlest of the signals. Get that!!!

Be human. Love respect and care for one another through arguments and both good and bad days. Build up life with one another. Don't be animals!!!!

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This!! Recognise what you did wrong and correct yourself. Only then you would be able to grow!!!!

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Rea that again.

“When a person tells you that you hurt them, you don’t get to decide that you didn’t.”

— Louis C.K.

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https://iglovequotes.net/

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Would that be excruciating as well? or the pieces could become alright this time?

Sometimes I wonder would a world crack open for me when you'd kiss me?

Or would it be one more round of shuddering fears,

whenever the excruciating thought of you contacting me would strike my mind?

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I'm sick of misreading my own fate's message scrolls. This time with you,

I want to be correct like lost me tracking down her rightful home!!!

I want to be confident of loving you and being welcomed by you.. Exalted and at home like two soul mates nobody else but who could be eachothers life!!!

Blooming one another into lively blossoms always,

moving and wafting their delightful fragrances all across,

reviving the remainder of the garden,

like Lord and Queen of the kingdom.

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>_< 🙈

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This!!!!!