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Tumblr Inquisition

When did freedom of expression suddenly become an online crime? When did an attack on a specific subset of any group ever work to the benefit of any institution?

In this bloggers humble opinion, Tumblr’s December 17th forced genocide of Adult Content blogs is just another example of how our society is slipping backwards in its level of tolerance towards anything that is different, preferring to have this type of content hidden away, and marked with a scarlet letter of intolerance and shame.

Are there issues revolving around certain types of blogs Yes. Child pornography and other unacceptably content is abhorrent to all. Is Tumblr going after those specific types of blogs? No. Are they setting up a system that blocks minors from accessing adult content blogs? No. They are preferring to follow a simplistic “nuke it all” approach rather than address the overall problem. Taking a M.A.D (mutually assured destruction) approach, can only end in one way, for without adult content, Tumblr will die off.

So my friends and followers(93k amazing individuals), I challenge you to reblog this note, and challenge Tumblr’s decision. Perhaps, if enough of us stand up and protest some good will come of it. Resist, and fight the good, and honourable, fight.

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Migrating to Twitter @dickexhibit (my X-Tube handle as well). See ya there #TeamExhib! 😉

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Tumblr on December 17th...

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Thank U, Next. Follow me on Twitter for exhibitionist content @ dickexhibit 😘

A better, more positive Tumblr

Since its founding in 2007, Tumblr has always been a place for wide open, creative self-expression at the heart of community and culture. To borrow from our founder David Karp, we’re proud to have inspired a generation of artists, writers, creators, curators, and crusaders to redefine our culture and to help empower individuality.

Over the past several months, and inspired by our storied past, we’ve given serious thought to who we want to be to our community moving forward and have been hard at work laying the foundation for a better Tumblr. We’ve realized that in order to continue to fulfill our promise and place in culture, especially as it evolves, we must change. Some of that change began with fostering more constructive dialogue among our community members. Today, we’re taking another step by no longer allowing adult content, including explicit sexual content and nudity (with some exceptions).  

Let’s first be unequivocal about something that should not be confused with today’s policy change: posting anything that is harmful to minors, including child pornography, is abhorrent and has no place in our community. We’ve always had and always will have a zero tolerance policy for this type of content. To this end, we continuously invest in the enforcement of this policy, including industry-standard machine monitoring, a growing team of human moderators, and user tools that make it easy to report abuse. We also closely partner with the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and the Internet Watch Foundation, two invaluable organizations at the forefront of protecting our children from abuse, and through these partnerships we report violations of this policy to law enforcement authorities. We can never prevent all bad actors from attempting to abuse our platform, but we make it our highest priority to keep the community as safe as possible.

So what is changing?

Posts that contain adult content will no longer be allowed on Tumblr, and we’ve updated our Community Guidelines to reflect this policy change. We recognize Tumblr is also a place to speak freely about topics like art, sex positivity, your relationships, your sexuality, and your personal journey. We want to make sure that we continue to foster this type of diversity of expression in the community, so our new policy strives to strike a balance.

Why are we doing this?

It is our continued, humble aspiration that Tumblr be a safe place for creative expression, self-discovery, and a deep sense of community. As Tumblr continues to grow and evolve, and our understanding of our impact on our world becomes clearer, we have a responsibility to consider that impact across different age groups, demographics, cultures, and mindsets. We spent considerable time weighing the pros and cons of expression in the community that includes adult content. In doing so, it became clear that without this content we have the opportunity to create a place where more people feel comfortable expressing themselves.

Bottom line: There are no shortage of sites on the internet that feature adult content. We will leave it to them and focus our efforts on creating the most welcoming environment possible for our community.

So what’s next?

Starting December 17, 2018, we will begin enforcing this new policy. Community members with content that is no longer permitted on Tumblr will get a heads up from us in advance and steps they can take to appeal or preserve their content outside the community if they so choose. All changes won’t happen overnight as something of this complexity takes time.

Another thing, filtering this type of content versus say, a political protest with nudity or the statue of David, is not simple at scale. We’re relying on automated tools to identify adult content and humans to help train and keep our systems in check. We know there will be mistakes, but we’ve done our best to create and enforce a policy that acknowledges the breadth of expression we see in the community.

Most importantly, we’re going to be as transparent as possible with you about the decisions we’re making and resources available to you, including more detailed information, product enhancements, and more content moderators to interface directly with the community and content.

Like you, we love Tumblr and what it’s come to mean for millions of people around the world. Our actions are out of love and hope for our community. We won’t always get this right, especially in the beginning, but we are determined to make your experience a positive one.

Jeff D’Onofrio CEO

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The Gaysian Survival Guide

A story of surviving the Gay World as an Asian American LGBTQ in the 2010′s decade. A guideline for those Closeted, Hiding or Freshly Coming Out.

Welcome to Gay World

In Gay World, a lot of people can be manipulative, fake and catty. Beware of liars, cheaters and trust no one, not even yourself.

Rule #1 This is real life, and we have to learn to know a point of what is funny and what isn’t. Cyber bullying is a real issue in the Gaysian Community that needs to be addressed publicly.

Gay World can be a materialistic world of having a nice body, face, hair, of lucrative things like having a popular underwear brand, brand name clothes, wearing specific style of clothing, hair colors, etc. etc. Before you even know get to know other Gays or make friends with them, there is a possibility that they are already going to know a whole story about you that you don’t even know, with all these assumptions, rumors and gossips about you, even before you’ve even stepped into a Gay Club.

Rule #2 Don’t fall in love with the first thing you see. There are boys everywhere. LOVE YOURSELF FIRST! 

It’s like jumping into a new high school, and you have to find out where you fit into the social cliques quickly. The labels we are forced to live by, like Twinks, Jocks, Bears, Ravers, Gaymers, etc. etc. Beware of gays who preys on “Fresh Meat”, on people who are still closeted or freshly out, and prey on their innocence and vulnerability that you’re willing to share your body. Just because you met the first gay person in your life, does not mean that they want you too.

Beware the Fuck Boys

In Gay World, it is an atrocious sinister place, full of sex, lust and desire. We call it the “Hookup Culture”. You’re going to fall in love with the first guy you meet, and it’s going to just feel so perfect, just so right, that this was something that you’ve been waiting for all along. However, just because he’s your first, doesn’t mean you’re his first.

Rule #3 Don’t send nudes to anyone. It will circulate around the whole world in 1-2 business days.

Sex is sex, and it’s everywhere. Sex DOES NOT equate to love. When I hear about a Gaysian’s first ‘contact’ with a guy, it’s usually quite sad and sorrowful, because they get preyed upon by these gross perverts who uses them up to satisfy their sexual needs and when all their virginity is taken and used up, they get tossed out like a used coat, and those gay predators go off to find to prey on another innocent victim.

Beware of people who just fetishizes you for your race. They don’t even care who you are, what you look like, or your ethnicity. They just want a “young hairless smooth Asian boy” to fuck with. Those men are dangerous.

Rule #4 People will fetishize you being Asian. Not on who you actually are.

Dating Boys

Fall in love because it feels right. Be in a relationship because you choose to. Make mistakes, argue, learn and grow from it. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship at all. No you are not going to find Prince Charming who is a part time model, Homecoming King, who is a graduate student onto his doctorate degree, with his own house and car at the age of 25, and then you guys end up dating for 5 years before he ask you for your hand in marriage and have a fairy tale wedding.

Rule #5 Respect Yourself First. No One Is Perfect. You are Beautiful as a Person already.

No Prince Charming is going to be that guy that you’re going to fall in love out of no where. He’s going to be the one who probably has sweaty palms that he is insecure about, but you don’t mind. He is your Mister Right and is going to be the guy who just does everything right. But you ALSO need to be Mister Perfect for him too. A relationship is not one-sided. You both have to work together as a team and be equally as admirable for each other.

Rule #6 Don’t date each other if it’s just for sex or because you guys look good together on social media.

Be together because you guys actually like each other. Stop being in relationships when both of you are both unhappy. Forget what anyone thinks and move on if it is not working out. If you are unhappy in a relationship leave. Emotional, Physical and Mental Abuse happens in relationships.

Relationships are probably the most difficult thing that the LGBTQ world is facing. There’s a lot of guys/girls out there, it’s just the fact that it’s pretty hard to find the right one. You’re going to have a lot of crushes, a lot of lustful moments, a lot of dating and falling for guys for 2 night and 2 days to a maximum of 3 months, etc. etc. The best and honest opinion is to really know yourself, what you want and know who you are as a person and how much you can handle in a relationship.

The grass is always going to be greener on the other side. Of course you are going to find someone better than they person you are with, of course they can find someone better than you, but what matters the most is that you have each other, and that is what is important. Confidence, trust and communication is key in relationship, No communication, no relationship.

Gay Best Friend & Squads

Beware of having toxic people in your life or associating yourself with toxic groups of people. There are these types of people who all they do is judge, people who are fake with themselves and others, people who are all about themselves, people who spread rumors and gossips, people who shit talks about everyone, groups of people who thinks they’re better than everyone else, or people who just party everyday and really have nothing going on in their life. Careful, you might even be that person too.

Rule #7 Gay World is not a Popularity Contest! 

You don’t necessarily need to have a “squad” or a “clique” in order to feel accepted and wanted. You are enough, and no one has the power to put you down, except yourself.

Cut off negative, fakes and bullies out of your life. Just don’t even talk to them. Be careful of backlashes cutting off toxic and hateful people, because they will come after you if they find out that you blocked them off Social Media because of some dumb toxic egoistic pride they have.

Just find the right friends who are going to support you, encourage you to do good things to be a better person, and not judge you for your mistakes

Reach out to people, make new friends, and don’t be afraid to ask questions. Because it’s better to know beforehand how the Gay World works and operates, before you realize that you’re a bleeding fish in a tank full of sharks.

Beware the Tabloids

It doesn’t matter if you’re a virgin, with straight A’s, don’t drink alcohol, stay home and pray. Somewhere and somehow, there’s going to be people who are going to label you as a Slut Hoe Bomb who parties all time, dates on this kind of race and thinks you’re better than everyone else who does tons of drugs.

Random people you’ve never met before are going to make up a life about you. They’re going to somehow know who you’re dating, who you’re seeing, and what you ate last week. You have to have a pretty thick skin in the Gay World that is full of body and slut shaming, and spreading tabloid rumors about you.

Just laugh off the rumors and gossips, and live your life. Those who talk about you are not relevant. Those who matter, matters, those who don’t, don’t matter.

But Do Love Yourself

Because what is the most important thing you must learn about yourself in the harsh and cruel Gay World, is learning to love yourself. In a world where you have to have a sexy ass body, look tall and handsome in order to feel good about yourself, your body, to feel like you’re wanted, you just have to learn to love yourself and be happy with yourself. How can you love another, if you don’t know how to love yourself?

Be yourself. If you want to wear make up, do it because it makes you happy. If you want to eat Macaroni & Cheese, eat it because it taste good. Don’t EVER EVER let other people tell you how to live your amazing life.

There is no one who is going to love, care and respect you, more than yourself! You are as equally as important as everyone else, and you as a person is valid. I promise. It gets better.

The Gay World can be a beautiful, amazing and supportive place, but it can also be a very scandalous, jealous and lonely place. It all depends really on who you’re associated with and who you are as a person. It’s still a new world, a new social culture and place for us to discover, build and create ourselves. All that matters is don’t fall prey with the wrong guy, watch who you associate yourself with, and be and love yourself the most.

Rule Number #8 You are important, you are loved, and you are valuable.

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Pants down, stroking my cock and I hooked up with a guy…

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I’m on Twitter @ dickexhibit!

Anyone has recommendations of accounts to follow for some public fun? 😏😉

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Leo Parraguez

P.S: if you want to watch the video click on the first pic of this post or just click here.

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El futbolista argentino Leo parraguez muestra la verga y menciona a Maluma.