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wanted to share this wip here too :)

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another victim of black box dye(it was 3 am and she wasn't thinking straight)

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I just wanted to know if it's okay to use your art as an icon, with credits of course

of course! as long as you credit me i'd be very happy <3

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What other ships do you like in hp and arcane besides wolfstar/jilly and vanco ? Also I looooove your art especially when you draw jilly since they’re not that popular in this fandom 😭

hi ! well- i enjoy a lot of ships in hp gasjha romione, drarry, linny, hinny, marylene, dorlene, fralice, etc etc... in arcane though i really love timebomb! i like season 1 caitvi as well but after the second season my feelings on them kinda changed. also thank you sm !! back when i was in middle school jily used to be a rlly popular marauders era ship, i miss those days😭

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bones and all ♡

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anon was right ur a Jily fan and then a self-proclaimed feminist u can only pick only one

? didnt know being a jily stan was a political stance. are you aware of how stupid you sound ????

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Hiya! In your response to the ask about performative feminism and misogyny, you mentioned looking at the series through a 'radical feminist' lens, and I just wanted to know what you meant by radical feminism? Thanks for your time!

hi! i'm aware that there seems to be some confusion on the topic but by radical feminisim i simply mean, well, radical feminism! to sum it up (and i suggest you read further on it because my short explanation is less than enough imo), it's a perspective in which society is viewed fundamentally as a patriarchy where men oppress women; therefore radical feminism aims to de-code these societal norms and a complete re-ordering of society where male domination is fully eliminated in all fields. it also values intersectionality and recognizes that women's issues are also caused by race, class, sexual orientation and other factors.

basically- i mean exactly what it sounds like! radical feminism. like i said though, i gave a very short explanation and suggest further reading. to clarify, because i know there's a lot of misunderstandings about the term; i am not a terf. i believe trans women are women, and that isn't up for debate. i would, however, totally identify as a tirf! a trans-inclusionary radical feminist

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omg the last ask was so fucking rude, hope you're okay

i'm okay, thank you !! no worries lmao, i don't rlly let this stuff get into me

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The fact that you need to cross-post the ask because no ones sucking ur irrelevant cunt here is so interesting go on performative activist what will be your next skit after disguising yourself as a victim of misogyny in a form of fanfic?

lmfao y'all are actually miserable go find something better to do instead of harassing people on the internet. why does me calling out misogyny bother you so much ??

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Just want to say I love your jily and your response to that anon accusing you of "performative" feminism! Fandom misogyny is still misogyny and everyone is capable of it since that is the world we are born it! Tysm for all that you do!

oh thank you sm !! you're so sweet😭 i don't think i'm doing anything deserving of thanks but it made me really happy, thank you :) <33

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if you want to have real problems you should think about REAL women being victims of misogyny u r just being performative bec ur jily flops. its already misogynistic when u ship lily with james who keeps sa'ing snape behind her back

i live in a country with an insanely high femicide and domestic violence rate. i experience misogyny daily, because all women do. (even fictional ones, am i right? tho you wouldn't agree with that, i guess.)

misogyny isn't as surface level and simple as you think it is. misogyny isn't just femicides, sa, domestic violence or wage gap. it's literally everywhere, in every part of our lives. in fact, all of us are complicit in it! even me, even you. because it's so ancient and so coded into our brains that you don't even understand it, that's why it's important to deconstruct. and that's why it's important to call out every form of it, which is what i'm doing online.

you accuse me of being performative because my ship "flops" apparently. genuinely i couldn't fucking care less if my ship was indeed flopping, i'm not so privileged to have such trivial problems. however while being "performative" i've been protesting against the insanely high femicide rate in my country, the approaching abortion ban, c-sections being banned, domestic violence, sa... pretty much everything you consider "real misogyny". because i experience it. i don't expect any praise for protesting or donating to charities, it's what i should have done. it's what all of us should do in my opinion, but like i said before, these aren't the only manifestations of misogyny we should be calling out.

living in a place where misogyny runs rampant, my accounts(this blog and my twitter) are places of escapism for me. so naturally, when i come online, only to see and face more misogyny, i can't just shut up about it? female characters being erased from narratives to accomodate male characters, female characters being used as surrogates for a gay ship, female characters being called "bitch" over literally anything, male characters who literally don't have single line being considered more important to the story than female characters, etc etc... marauders fandom has a serious misogyny problem. and it doesn’t just go away when you act like it doesn’t exist. i've been called a "bitch" multiple times over fictional characters, i've had a person literally laugh at a thread where me and a friend were discussing femicide and sexual assault. what i'm trying to say is that these attitudes against fictional characters start affecting real women too, because they're misogynistic. very much so.

and they should be called out to make fandom a safe space for everyone. it's not "performative" to call out online misogynistic behaviour, because it's also harmful even if you don't believe it to be.

i find it interesting that a fandom which claims to be so progressive is a literal hellhole from a radical feminist (not only that, but leftist too) lens. i also find it important to have these conversations, because like i said before, these kinds of attitudes are harmful. and no, fiction is never "just fiction". it carries traces of us and it influences us, especially in an environment where so many young people are present. therefore i find feminist readings of media and fandoms very important, to curate safe spaces for people online and to make place for female narratives, which are constantly getting erased.

so as a REAL(like you said) woman who has and is experiencing misogyny, i suggest next time before you leave anonymous asks on a sa victim's askbox accusing me of being "performative"; read up on feminist literature and free yourself from your surface-level, shallow views and feminism :) it is never that simple.

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now i wanna touch like we never could before

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always, forever

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UK charities offering support, advice and information for trans and non-binary people

The Beaumont Society – help and support from the trans community.

The Clare Project – Trans support and social group based in Brighton and Hove but open to anyone wishing to explore issues around gender identity.

Gendered Intelligence – Trans-led charity that aims to improve the lives of trans and non-binary people in the UK, specialises in supporting young people.

GIRES – Gender identity research & education.

LGBT Foundation – National charity based in Manchester with trans services and resources.

Mermaids – UK charity supporting trans and gender-diverse children, young people and their families.

Mindline trans + – Emotional and mental health support helpline for anyone identifying as trans, non-binary, gender variant, and their families, friends, colleagues and carers. Their phone line is open Mondays and Fridays, 8pm to midnight. Ring 0300 330 5468.

Spectra – Peer-led trans services accessible to all trans and gender-diverse people, including 1-2-1 health advocacy support, and counselling, peer mentoring, referral and signposting to relevant partners, talks and workshops and monthly online and in-person social groups. 

Stonewall – UK charity campaigning for LGBT equality.

Switchboard – LGBT+ helpline.

THT Direct – our phone and email service for questions about sexual health or living with HIV.

Transbucket –Health care and surgery resource for the online trans community.

WPATH – Non-profit organisation devoted to trans health.

Support for hate crime, domestic abuse or sexual violence

GALOP – LGBT+ anti-violence charity supporting all LGBT+ people who've experienced hate crime, domestic abuse or sexual violence. Their helpline can be reached on 0800 999 5428.

Housing and support

Stonewall Housing have an online referral service. Their advice line is open from 10am to 1pm, Monday to Friday, on 020 7359 5767.

The Outside Project – LGBTQI+ community shelter and centre in London. Referrals are through Stonewall Housing. Also runs online socials and events in their virtual community space.

Albert Kennedy Trust supports LGBTQ+ young people aged 16-25 in the UK who are experiencing homelessness or living in a hostile or abusive environment.

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I love your recent zaundad family art….but maybe next time you could squeeze a baby Isha in there 🫣. Please don’t get mad! I just think she deserved so much better like the rest of them 😭.

hajzha omg no im not mad at all! that's a great idea actually!! maybe next time in a piece where the kids are older i can squeeze her in too🤭 thank you! <33

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family 💤

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y u draw like everybody's a product of inbreeding including lily?

bro just say "you have same face syndrome" and go like that's still false but at least not weird lmao