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I love current Wendy and her development, but there's a special place in my heart for early Wendy. The calls Stan "dude" Wendy. The Launches a teacher into the sun out of jealousy Wendy. The smooches Cartman during a speech Wendy. The sings a cussing song for a boyband tryout Wendy. The "fuck Gregory, fuck him right in the ear!" Wendy. She was so fun

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What were your thoughts and opinions on the episode “Raisins”? You know, the dreaded “Stan/Wendy Breakup” episode? It’s one of my favorites despite it being kinda sad to watch…

It's actually my favorite episode from season 7!

Yeah, the whole Stendy breakup plotline is sad to watch and heart-wrenching as well, but it is also an episode that beautifully depicts one's journey of going through a breakup and eventually moving on.

For me, it was really easy to relate to Stan in that episode. 😊

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While there is a discussion to be had about how Stan doesn't seem to care for or treat Wendy the way he used to, and this can be largely attributed to his depression, addiction and cynicism, it is important to remember that he was a boyfriend who believed in her. I think the episode that shows this in a very subtle way is actually Breast Cancer Show Ever!

When Stan first hears about the fight that is scheduled to take place after school between Wendy and Cartman, he's shocked, replying to Butters with a "What?" There does seem to be a little worry in his expression but he doesn't question her or go up to her to try and stop her.

The goth kids actually call him out on this, suggesting Stan is going to "just let that guy... beat up on your woman? Doesn't that, like, go against your jockey man code or something?" and "Yeah, I don't ever remember AC/DC singing about letting dudes beat up on their girlfriends."

Because Stan fits the stereotype of being a "jockey" man and therefore, he should exhibit all the traits that come with that, especially towards his girlfriend. The goth kids even bring up other "typical man" archetypes such as AC/DC in order to make Stan feel bad and push him towards putting an end to this fight (despite the fact they also want to witness it).

In this moment, Stan had the potential to fall into masculine traits that are very toxic; overly protective, dominate over his girlfriend, controlling, having secondhand embarrassment because of her. But he doesn't do anything of the sort, instead he looks at them and asks the genuine question "What am I supposed to do about it?"

And later, when he is corned by a terrified Cartman, who is calling on his responsibility as a boyfriend to "do something" because Wendy is supposedly "stuck" in this situation and she really doesn't want to fight, Stan still insists that he "can't do anything; she really wants to fight you" and "Dude, there's nothing I can do about it." In his attempt at manipulation, Cartman is also calling on Stan to express his masculinity unhealthily and telling him "to be a fuckin' man and forbid her from fighting" and when he refuses he is called a "pussy" but Stan doesn't take the bait, he refuses to budge.

This isn't because Stan doesn't care about Wendy, it's because he knows her. He knows she's stubborn, he knows she's smart and he knows that she can hold her own. He has no place to tell her what to do, and if he does, he knows to expect backlash from her. On top of this, he knows his overly manipulative friend with no backbone and therefore he is confident in Wendy and her decision to take him on. When Wendy and Cartman finally throw down, you can see that Stan is shocked it is actually happening at first, but soon he is seen smiling at his girlfriend standing ten toes down in what she said she would do.

This isn't to say that this is all he can do, respecting his girlfriends wishes and not getting involved is the bare minimum, but when he could have easily been manipulated and pushed into being a toxic man, he trusted his girlfriend. He knew if it was really an issue she would come to him and he stayed out of her decision making.

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'if she says yes' by james tw is such a stendy s1 coded song

you CAN'T fight me on that one

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i love wendy testaburger so much. i get when people complain about her jealous and hot-headed ways, but for me, she manages to communicate insecurities so well that it's impossible for me not to see myself in her.

although it often appears in a joking tone, her flaws are something so honest too; she has this hunger to feel seen, to be taken seriously, but she is just a little girl trying to navigate a world that is far from fair. and hey, at least, throughout the series, we see her trying to better control her emotions as well. she's far from being perfect, and that's good to me, these flaws of hers that make me love her so much

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A spark that only lit up with moon above them. Nothing like fireworks nor stars can defeat the smile of yours, knowing it's only mine to own.

The reference:

I'm having fun making this

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not me logging into Wattpad for the first time in a while and seeing this!! 🥹🥹🥹

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tweek and wendy not being best friends in canon is a crime against me

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Stop Imm at the part of tfbw where u get callgirl and stendys dialogue is so cute what!!!!!! "You'd never do that to me right callgirl? ☹️" "Hit toolshed again and you'll answer to me" WHAT. I love them oh myvof..

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Wendy Testaburger illustration that I made for a school project 💜

(Based on S9 E12)

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Creek and pet names…

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oh how I love South Park and things like these aging like the finest wine 🍷

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When you ship a guy and a girl: "Eww. Why can't a guy and a girl be friends? They are besties, they are are like siblings."

When you ship a two dudes/chicks that have a close friendship and are like siblings or hate each other: "Yassss! The gays!"

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he’s finally dead

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I haven't posted anything in Stendy tag for what feels like forever lmao😭😭