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(Venus Cancer anon) Thanks again for your answer. Finding something on my own it is, then! I do yoga once in a while. I wish you all the best for the future.

Persistance is the key like with everyhing in life. Yoga may not be tour cup of tea, but whatever you choose, once in a while won’t make much difference. Work, continuosly and take your time. People constantly ask for shortcuts in life but in healing (and success) there are none. Good luck 🍀

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Venus H8 anon here. Thanks for your reply! I never wanted to settle for less, which is part of the problem (insane standards...). I did try to open up to some chosen people, and was disappointed a 100% of the time. They either try (and fail) to take advantage of it, or stop acknowledging my strengths once they saw me vulnerable, like I was some glass doll hiding behind a tough facade, which is beyond infuriating. How do you deal with it (if you don't mind me asking of course)?

I don’t mind. I go to therapy and have been in therapy and yoga for 12 years now. I see no other way. I keep trying, fail, get up, try, fail, etc. I will succeed once and that’s literally all it takes - once you get there, you’re there.

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My Venus (Cancer H8) oppose both Pluto (Scorpio H1) and Saturn (Aquarius H3), and I am at a loss on how to deal with it. I am slightly misanthropic but lonely, learnt how to be on friendly terms with others on a daily basis but I never met anyone worth all the efforts I made, emotionally speaking. I feel like the "us" part of the equation in my relationship with the rest of mankind was always broken beyond repair. I don't know why, and even less what to do with it. Do you have any good advice?

Venus in Cancer here, in 12th (retro) so I feel you. Opposition with Pluto doesn’t help much. It will get better once you decide to open up and show your vulnerable side and not be afraid to ask for your emotional needs to be fullfilled and not compromise on that. First step is identifying your emotional needs, accepting them and not feel the need to tone them down. Majority of people will not be able to meet them but there will still be plenty of those who will. Just don’t settle for less or you’ll be feeling very lonely (opposition with Saturn)

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Sorry if this question trigger you or anyone... but what are placements/transit indicate father pass away at young age?

-From an 8th/12th dominant-

Please bear in mind that AT LEAST THREE OF THESE, JUST LIKE WITH EVERYTHING ELSE, must occur at the same time and even then, it wastly depends on the rest of the chart.

Sun represents father figure in a person’s birth chart, so aspected (squared, conjunct) by Saturn and Mars, in day charts, can indicate early death of a father.

Sun in the 10th with Saturn or Mars means that the child’s father might not be present for long (it can mean estranged/unknown father as well) This also can mean loss of a family fortune/growing up poor, but if Saturn is conj MC it can bring prominent position for a native in the future, due to their struggles early in life.

Saturn in conjunction with or square to Mars can cause the same effect ^^ Malefics in the 4th,8th,9th and 10th, if lord of the ascendant is weak/affected, can mean early death of the father.

According to vedic astrology, one of the indicators of an early loss of the father is Mars and Saturn in the 5th or the 9th from Venus and unaspected by Jupiter.

But then again, what is ‘young age’? It also depends on the emotional maturity of a person.

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So I have my Saturn Return and I kinda never want it to end. I feel high all the time, keep getting crazy opportunities handed to me on a silver platter, there are things that should definitely feel like trials to me but are absurdly easy to deal with and it is starting to weird me out. I do have a lot of difficult placements in my chart so I guess this could be retribution for my efforts until now, but I am still concerned about overlooking something important. Any tips for that?

Saturn return doesn’t have to be terrible, if you learned his lessons earlier in life. As you said yourself, you have many difficult placements that you probably dealt with earlier, so you don’t have to during Saturn return. Saturn is all about life lessons, most of them are hard because learning, studying is hard. But some people are simply better students.

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Some people ask for your advice and ignore it, because they want an audience more than they want guidance.

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If it helps, I started dealing with courts (and inheritance) the moment transiting Saturn entered my 8th. Transiting Saturn thru my 7th house brought dealing with legal issues as well

Hi!

Could you tell me what transits or houses represent court cases? And is there any way to see when one would end? Like I have been involved in one for about two years now and I would love to know when it finally ends?

Technically litigation is assigned to both the 6th and 7th houses. The two major astrology branches see it in different and they both make sense. On one hand western says 7th because it deals with courts and lawsuits. Vedic points to 6th because litigations can be seen as conflict brought on by an enemy. The 6th is also 12th from the 7th so it can be viewed as loss of contract, negotiation which could lead to legal troubles.

As for how long something like this lasts...that’s tough. I was involved in a 5 year lawsuit before myself. The legal system is slow...kind of sitting that Saturn exalts in Libra. Either way I guess if you had an exact birth chart of when the lawsuit began you could chart it and start looking at progress factors. Perhaps like 6th or 7th lord going to the 12th might indicate loss of the suit for example. Or it dissipates kind of thing.

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WHY DID YOU START LEARNING ASTROLOGY?

For me, it was because I wanted to learn about cosmic patterns, synchronicity and archetypes, I wanted to ‘fix’myself, to discover whatever creates obstacles in my life and work on that, I wanted to see the Universe translated on an individual, cosmos printed on a sheet of blank paper when a baby is born. I learned that synchronicity does not equal causality, that patterns can overlap and create brand ‘new’ patterns and that everything in the history of Time has happened already and is happening at the same time.

Yet, all I get on the internet is ‘His Venus is aspecting my X, does he love me?’ type of nonsense.

I’m gonna take a break from this place for some time.

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hi, could you explain more about the 3rd house as "the house of lovers"? and why does the 9th house also represent marriage? they also say Jupiter represents the husband in a woman's chart, so what is the difference between venus/7th house and 5th house in comparison to these two?

I’ve never heard od 3rd house being associated with lovers, nor 9th. Same for Jupiter

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True.

libra people make me feel lonely.... it's like they are here for you, saying words of compassion and support, but it never feels genuine and personal. they leave me with the impression that they show care for others because they like the aesthetic of it, not because they feel the need to.

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Hi ! I’m kinda new to astrology but I truly love it and would love to learn more about all of it. Do you have any resources to recommend for that? Also do you have any specific tag to find all you post out of the questions? Thank you so much by advance!

All my posts are tagged on my blog, under their respective topic.

I don’t remember what I read when I started learning astrology 15 years or so ago, I have some books but they are neither for beginners nor in English. I remember that two years ago I read ‘Saturn’ and ‘Astrology for lovers’ (it’s about Sun signs) from Liz Greene and thought those would be good for someone who just started learning.

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when it comes to the axis in synastry, does it make any difference on the overlay? say, venus or moon conjunct ascendant falling into 12th/1st, sun conjunct ic in 3rd/4th, so on so forth... is the aspect stronger than the overlay, do you count both houses or?

Depends what house system you’re using, just like with birth charts. If we’re talking about Placidus, then any planet 5’ from next house would be considered to be in the said house (eg. Saturn in 3rd 3 degrees from 4th house would be considered as Saturn in 4th)

If you’re using whole signs or equal houses system, that rule doesn’t apply.

In my experience, whichever house system you end up using, you eventually end up with accurate description of your placement(s) if you start from chart ruler and take the whole chart into consideration.

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Hii! What year should I put in my solar return to see my chart for 2021? I am born in december and my next birthday is in a week but if I put 2020 will it give me solar return for the past year instead of next year? To explain it better, do the sr chart start from the year or ends at the year you put in there?

You always put in your date of birth and select the year you want a forecast for. Usually you have an option. You should choose, for example, 23.December 2020-23. December 2021. Your solar year starts on the date you were born and lasts until your next birthday

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hi, would you mind offering insight on this case I have? so I checked the synastry between a friend and her admirer and they have nodal connections, although I'm still not good at interpreting nodes in synastry I understand the concept of it in case of natal. however, in my friend's case I always stress about it because it does not manifest as it "should". f.i, her nn is in libra in the 7th, so she's supposed to learn about relationship themes during this lifetime and duo/teamwork, right? +

In a very short and digested version, yes

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Hello, can you tell me about mars conj mars and venus conj venus in synastry? I also have venus uranus and neptune conj all of his personal planets (sun, moon, mercury, venus)

Neptune conj personal planets (and Neptune in 7th house overlay) brings a lot of delusion and wishfilul thinking. Fogs the idea of someone and sometimes can create an ‘imaginary’ relationship, where one person thinks they are in a relationship and the other person has no idea the first person exists. It can also bring obsession with celebrity figures, especially movie stars/singers/musicians.

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What does NN squares in synastry mean? I mean my NN squares his sun, moon, mercury, venus, mars, uranus and neptune while his NN conj my pluto it's crazy

NN aspecting outer planets (Saturn, Neptune, Uranus, Pluto) is generational and means that it affects literal whole generation of people (every 2.5, 7, 10, 12, 15 years)

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When you say pluto/venus aspects in synastry make a person manipulative do you mean the pluto or the venus person? Also mars/moon, who would have the lust for the other?

Outer Planets are always stronger.