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Imagine your fem f/o sitting in your lap, cradling your face in her hands and taking the sight of you in with a dopey, love-struck smile on her face. Maybe you laugh, maybe you ask her if she likes what she sees and maybe she'd just grin and tell you, "Do I like the love of my life? Hm, maybe, you could say that." and she'd kiss you before nuzzling into your neck, arms around your shoulders as you wrap yours around her waist. The answer is yes, you both know she adores you and you both know she is your entire world—and you wouldn't have it any other way.

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Shoutout to self shippers who has memory issues:

Your f/o(s) have no qualms with repeating questions.

Your f/o(s) won’t berate you for your memory issues, something you cannot control.

Your f/o(s) will make sure no one use your memory issues for their own personal gain.

Your f/o(s) are beyond patient when it comes to you trying to recall something.

Your f/o(s) will comfort you if you forget a word or sentence midway through the conversation.

Your f/o(s) don’t think you’re any less incapable, intelligent or powerful because of your memory issues.

Your f/o(s) have no issue with repeating stories that had happened between you and them.

Your f/o(s) will gently correct you on details that you might’ve missed or might’ve mixed up with something else.

Your f/o(s) will remind you of any important dates or events the week before, the days before with no problem. and if you end up forgetting, they won’t be upset.

Your f/o(s) will never get upset with you because of your memory issues.

proship/darkship/neutral DNI

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Imagine being the one person who makes your f/o smile or laugh more than anyone. Maybe most people can't even get a grin out of them if they tried, or maybe they happen to giggle a lot. Regardless, you seem to bring that pure, warm joy to their lives that goes above and beyond what they're used to experiencing. And they love it.

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Imagine your f/o calling you a cute nickname for the first time! Bonus points if they get shy and blushy afterwards, because they feel just a little awkward using something so affectionate for you for the first time! Or maybe they're nonchalant about it, and don't draw attention to until after you've reacted, the corner their lips quirking up with a smirk as they see you get flustered!

proship/darkship/neutral DNI

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Whenever in some type of pain, imagine your F/O right nearby you and comforting you. If it helps they will pull you closer, allow you to hold them or them holding you. If it is too painful however they will soothe you the best they can. Maybe with soft touches or just their presence.

They will let you rest, knowing that you need it whenever possible. If you wish they will even rest alongside you. All to make sure that you feel comfortable in these moments.

Maybe they are a little clumsy, even when trying to treat you with care, but know that they mean well and are trying their best to help you out, ease the pain. You do the best for them and they will do their best for you!

Proship / Comship do not interact please!

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incredibly endeared by f/os who don't know how to comfort you. they don't know what to do when you come apart in front of them, shaking, starting to sob as the weight of your woes finally bears down on you.

they know what they're meant to do. they're meant to hold you, and kiss you, tell you it's going to be okay and make it real. they're meant to let you sob into their chest or their shoulder, feeling your arms around them as you let their words soothe you until you can smile again.

...but that's not who they are, it's not what they do- do they even know how? do they know where to put their hands when they go to embrace you? do the words come to them naturally or are they floundering for something, anything they heard from a poet or a story that made it sound so easy.

instead they're left standing, hoping desperately you can feel how badly they want to take your pain from you. then following you down when you fall, kneeling besides your shaking form. they reach out slowly, hesitently, rubbing your back or resting their hand comfortingly on your head.

their voice is rough when they speak, almost awkward - it's- it's alright. - scooting closer on their knees, huddling closer to you so even if they're not holding you you can feel them. i'm here.

and they are, and maybe that's enough. 💖

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Imagine your intelligent f/o reassuring you that they think you're smart too. Imagine them smiling to themselves in admiration whenever you're talking about something you have a lot of knowledge about. Imagine them correcting you if you ever say "I'm just not as smart as you", telling you that they think you are just as capable as them, and they love you just as you are.

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Imagine your f/o having a soft spot for you and you specifically. They don't exactly try to hide it around others, because they value you too much to ever hide how much they love you. They can't help but want to show that adoration, even if it's a bit new to them or they get shy when others see them with you.

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Your F/O loves how safe you make them feel. They can be their truest self around you.

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Imagine your f/o opening up to you for the first time. Maybe something mildly irritating got them worked up or it's some sort of lifelong situation weighing heavy on their mind or heart. Regardless, they come to you for comfort, reassurance, and support. They're thankful that they have you to confide in, especially because you're so accepting of who they are. Because of you, they feel more inclined to express themselves without shame.

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Imagine spending a night under the stars with your f/o.

proship/darkship/neutral DNI

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Tough f/os that come to you when they get pissed off because they know only you can calm them down. Serious f/os that only let themselves be embarrassing and soft around you because they trust you. Cocky f/os who let themselves be whiny and needy because they know you won't make fun of them. You're the only one that can soften them

PROSHIP DNI

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If you've got a hard time trusting, your f/o would completely understand. They wouldn't pressure you, make you uncomfortable, or do anything that would stress you out. Instead, they'll sit down and have a respectful and open conversation, at your own pace, expressing that they'll be there all of their love and support whenever you're ready.

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Selfshippers with memory problems !!

Your f/o will never ever ridicule or belittle you for them. If you answer with "I forgot" or "I don't know", they'll never scoff or insult you. They'll understand and will accommodate for you. If you forget to do a task, such as a self-care one, your f/o would patiently remind you to do it without yelling at you. Forgetfulness is never your fault, and your f/o knows that because they love you so much

proship dni

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Imagine your f/o standing up for you, not because they don't think you're capable, but because they care enough to back you up and support you. Their stance is unwavering, protective, and firm, ready to what it takes to help you.

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for self shippers whose love language is physical touch...

your f/o loves it when you reach for them. they don't find it clingy when you want to hold their hand all the time, or latch onto their arm, or when you want to cuddle for a long time. they adore being on the receiving end of your physical touch, even if they aren't the type who usually would enjoy that. they enjoy it because it's you, and they know it's your way of showing affection. they'd never pull away when they know that's how you want to show them that you love them ᯓ★

dividers made for me by kynibyou! ✦ prosh¡p dni.

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btw your f/o would never mind explaining something to u, or giving you in detail instructions for even minor tasks. they wouldn’t care if you need to double check something to make sure you’re doing it right, they’re always happy to help!!

prosh!p + variants dni please!