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Homemaking is not oppression

This world devalues children, marriage and men, while telling us to use our skills and abilities as women only to benefit ourselves.

But as for me, I will choose to love on the same cabinets, cupboards and laundry baskets again and again. I will choose to love on growing children who need patience and grace, and then more patience and more grace. I will choose to serve a diligent man who consistently needs a resting place.

Taking part of God's structure and dedicating our lives to follow his divine order is not oppressive, it's liberating.

@ thelittlecountrygal

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The routine of a virtuous woman to inspire your own

She wakes up earlier than all others at home - (Proverbs 31:15)

Dedicates her first moments in the morning to God (Proverbs 31:30)

Prepares the family meal with calm and organize her daily tasks (Proverbs 31:15)

Takes care of her appearance - not be complimented by people outside, but by her own family (Proverbs 31:25)

Takes care of her family needs and do the daily maintenance of her home (Proverbs 31:27)

Works with effort and dedication. Wherever she goes she’s a testimony of her family’s good reputation (Proverbs 31:13)

Tries to be creative and bring new investments and opportunities to her family (Proverbs 31:16)

Even at night she’ll save some energy and liveliness to use with her husband (Proverbs 31:18)

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I know in my heart all I want in life is a family I want to be a wife and mother I was to cook and clean and take care of my children I want to spend my days at home making my house look pretty, sewing new clothes for the kids , baking and cooking but as a young teenage girl in today's society I don't feel like I can I'm scared to give my heart like that to the wrong person , scared of disappointing my parents for now choosing to get a high paying job and career, scared of failing at being a wife and a mother just so scared.

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Warsan Shire, from "For Women Who Are Difficult to Love"

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holistic womb healing tip:

aim to keep your womb warm by avoiding or limiting the amount of cold you put into your body and replacing it with warm foods + liquids. this increases blood flow to the uterus and aids in fertility! even if you're not trying to get pregnant, on a spiritual level, having a fertile womb allows you to naturally magnetize the things that you want in life with ease.

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Hi. I have a question for you and I hope I'm not making you uncomfortable or anything, but I really need to ask this. 💗. Do you think that being a ‘housewife' or ‘wife'/‘mother' is only for pretty girls who fit the stereotype: white, with blonde hair and green, blue or lighter colored eyes? It's just that I feel very insecure about that, since I'm a short girl (5'1). I have jet black hair and my skin is brown. I come from a third world country (Mexico). And I have been bullied since I was in kindergarten. (Even from my family.) (My brother tells me that I will never get married because of my appearance, I'm not very pretty, let's say. (I have suffered a lot because of that.) I am very afraid of giving up my dream of being a housewife, mother and wife. It's so scary how men nowadays prefer girls like that: American, European or Asian. That scares me so much. 🥲💔. Sorry if I went too far off topic, sorry.

I do not fit the stereotype of a beautiful girl

I am average height but well above average weight, I have bad skin and frizzy hair, I had braces for years and have worn classes since I was about 5 years old. I have been bullied for my appearance for many years and even now I get negative comments regarding how I look.

But my husband loves me. He thinks I am beautiful, and he always says he hopes our kids look just like me. We are from different countries, and I do not fit the beauty standard in his home country at all lol.

Love is not defined by beauty standards, and you can be a housewife no matter your appearance.

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Tradwives:

You know the guys that are screaming "Your body, my choice?" The rape slogan? Those are the men who you are trying to become wholly dependent on.

"Oh no not me. I'm going to marry a Special Boy." Yeah, but, do you want to take that risk?

Or...

You can learn about something your passionate in, network, socialize, be able to build your own life, have a community of people you can trust, who love you for you, for your ability. Who won't care if you're no longer pretty or can't pump out babies. You don't have to do 4b. You can still flirt (or more.) When things get weird, you start to feel a little suspicious, you can go back to your experience, you'll have a complete support network that can care for you if/when you can cut ties with him.

Or you can stay in his house with your entire life revolving around him until you die.

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