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A HOME THAT'S TRULY ONE WITH NATURE🍃HOW AMAZING IS THIS?

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Which is the most freuquent way you have to punish her, and which is the most freuqent reason for punishment currently?

December 30, 2019

I’ve been getting a lot of questions lately about her punishments, and I’m sorry to keep disappointing people by relaying the fact that she is a good girl who doesn’t get punished. Two years into our dynamic she knows what is expected and she lives up to those expectations. She does not break or bend rules in our contract without coming to me to discuss things first. She gets maintenance impact when I think she needs it or when she tells me she does, but she doesn’t do things to earn punishment. 

Just a reminder that submissives shouldn’t need a lot of punishment if they have clear expectations and the desire to not fuck up. Punishments should be a very rare thing in a healthy dynamic. 

Funishment is another thing entirely. 

JD 

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Please be happy for other people. Your time will come.

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I took our skeleton out for glamour shots a couple days back. This is the first of the series.  Placed in a ring of dried bracken ferns and found bones. 

Excited to share more of this series! 

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Not A Dom.

If you only pay attention to your sub when it is convenient for you, you are not a Dom.

If you tire of a submissive, and ghost her, rather than having an honest conversation with her, you are not a Dom.

If you view boundaries, limits, and the word “no” as impediments to your will to push past and degrade, you are not a Dom.

If you make a sub doubt and question themselves to produce an outcome that’s favorable for you, you are not a Dom.

If you think Dominance is all about having a relationship that revolves around you and serving your needs, you are not a Dom.

If you refer to subs as “broken”, or view them as a hassle because they have mental, physical, or emotional challenges, you are not a Dom. 

If you think that your way of being a Dom is the only right way to be a Dom, you are not a Dom. 

If you are having multiple relationships with submissive girls without them all knowing about each other, you are not a Dom. 

If you degrade your partner’s relationships to isolate them so that they don’t get opinions other than yours, you are not a Dom.

If you play or prey on girls who are under the age of 18, you are not a Dom.

JD

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@askasublue // @askasublue

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An Elegant Solution To A Pesky Plague

In 1771, Moscow experienced a Bubonic Plague outbreak under the rule of Catherine the Great. It took a long time for doctors to recognize that a plague was occurring, but people knew something was happening because those they knew kept dying. The result? Without governmental guidance, people began self-isolating at home, and avoiding hospitals where they might catch the disease. There was also a riot after the governor of the city fled to his coutnry estate, and the police chief did the same.

Something had to be done, so Catherine the Great appointed her sometimes-lover Grigory Orlov to handle the plague and resulting unrest. He arrived at a city where doctors were not trusted, and no one wanted to go to hospitals, but the plague was still spreading. He needed a way to check the entire population, to separate the sick and the healthy, and do so without causing riots.

Orlov’s solution was elegant in its simplicity. He announced that when people left hospitals and quarantine homes, verified by doctors to be cured, they would receive a set of new clothes and a cash benefit. Married people would get 10 rubles and single people 5 rubles. People suddenly flooded hospitals, wanting to be checked by doctors so they could get the benefits. It is estimated that Orlov spent 30,000 rubles of his own money on the benefits. The plan worked, there was no unrest, and there was no need to use force.

Particularly helpfully, people kept going back to doctors to get re-evaluated. This helped determine the incubation period of the plague by calculating when individuals first were evaluated to when they started showing symptoms.

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The Long Relationship Between Apples And Animals

Apple trees reproduce poorly when apples that fall from the tree are left to rot where they fell. Even when those do grow up, the second-generation trees grow poorly when too close to their parents. Apple trees in the wild therefore rely on animals – such as humans – to disperse their apples and so disperse their offspring. The fossil record suggests that apple trees developed across Europe and Asia as early as 11.6 million years ago. Animals (and eventually hominins) have been using apples for their easy source of nutrients ever since.

The earliest evidence of hominins eating apples comes from a Neolithic site in Switzerland dating to 3160 BCE. And the first evidence of apple seeds around hominins, suggesting active domestication, comes from the first millenium BCE at a village site in Kazakhstan.

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Submissive-Seeking's Traffic Light Safeword System

GREEN is “I’m good with this activity, intensity, speed, etc. In fact, I’m ready to go, go, GO!!!”

YELLOW is “I’m concerned this might be the limit with this particular activity, intensity, speed, etc. In fact, please pay extra attention and take heed that things may need to change if I’m to be able to keep going…”

RED is “STOP THIS THING RIGHT FUCKING NOW AND TALK TO ME!!! I need to reassess if I am able to continue with this activity.”

SAFEWORD (or whatever easy to remember and not used in a scene otherwise word you two agree on) is “WE ARE FUCKING DONE, BEGIN AFTERCARE IMMEDIATELY!!!!”

Whatever else being the Dominant partner may be, psychic ain’t it! Expecting him to just “know” is akin to crossing your fingers and running into traffic without looking expecting to be safe. In other words, it’s just plain foolish as well as dangerous.

There needs to be a way to always communicate these basic states of being no matter what words or gestures you guys choose.

Taken from this post

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Just to reiterate: you should not be having sex if you can’t have a conversation about boundaries, safety, and likes and dislikes. No one should be having sex if they can’t have a discussion about how to make it safe and enjoyable for all parties. Period. Can’t talk the talk? You can’t fuck. It’s a rule.

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If you do not own being an adult on your blog

I will assume you are a minor

I will not interact with you

I will not follow you

You will not follow me

I may block you

This is an adult blog

It is important to me that you are an adult.

JD

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The–great-catsby, self tied

Captured by Sara Swaty

LA, October 2017