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The most magical little library I have ever come across ✨🥺

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Clarice Lispector, Near To The Wild Heart

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Had a really good talk w/a friend about how bizarre modern dating culture is, like not even hookup culture because that seems kinda dead but the way a lot of people perceive of actually being in a relationship now seems to be like. Asking to be official too soon without really being slow and intentional and being halfway there because they’re looking for a long-term partner and using therapy speak and the right basic ideas about wanting to build a life with someone but not actually understanding what that entails. It’s kind of like pop psychology buzzwords that sounds good on the surface but people still aren’t willing to do the tough inner work themselves that is required to truly know, respect, and understand someone else fully without playing into codependency and fulfilling their own unmet needs. I really think the root of all of this is the commodification of relationships and love and a misunderstanding influenced by media of what it means to be mentally “well” + cultural obsession w/being perceived as “wholesome” and “good” when you actually have to be ruthless and very focused on whether or not you’re even fit to date to begin with.

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PEANUTS HOTEL “Happiness is a warm puppy” ROOM64 Snoopy (Large)

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live laugh concern yourself with matters of the spirit <3

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It can't always be about improvement; sustainability is important, too. How to last. How to endure. How to keep / steady.

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“I don’t like being here— or anywhere very much, at the moment—”

— Elizabeth Bishop, from a letter to Joseph Summers featured in One Art: Letters (via violentwavesofemotion)

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Tumblr is the only good social media site right now

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"no time for love" by chloe sevigny

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MIKEY MADISON "Anora" Photocall at the 77th Cannes Film Festival (May 22)

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baigner.bene

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Mr. Robot

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i just don’t have the employable spirit