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Synastry Aspects: Sun/Pluto

Conjunction: If someones Pluto hits your sun you can expect this person to transform you, there is no getting out of it, this contact is a MASSIVE energy… And one typically less common as Pluto is a generational planet! Sun will bring to surface where Pluto feels hidden and misunderstood… The deeper levels of Plutos psyche that they either keep hidden, don’t want to face, or feel misunderstood about will be laid out and illuminated through the Sun persons identity. The Sun is our conscious self and Pluto is our unconscious self so these two meeting naturally will bring up a lot of processing between psyches. The bond will run deep, the lessons will be real and hard hitting, and the ability to transform and develop into higher states of being through exploring the Yin and Yang of this polarity is going to be such a huge theme in this relationship. Again this is a MAJOR aspect and found in synastry so this is going to be one of the biggest players into the relationship. This conjunction is one of ups and downs, having someones Sun on your unconscious hidden self and having someones reserves of Pluto sexual, controlling, power energy right on the sensitive spot of your identity… its constant, its the kind of energy you can’t get a break from because you are always forced to look at yourself in a deeper light, and that can become tense. This is also a very sexual aspect as Plutos hidden sexual depth and taboo is brought to surface by the Suns identity. Sun is attracted to Plutos intensity and power and Pluto feels the sun satisfies a part of them nobody ever has before. Power struggles could become a real theme for this couple cause Pluto may want to feel in control of the Sun and Sun will through and through always be seeing through Plutos shit. The transformation comes through the power struggle because Suns surrender to Pluto makes them transform and Pluto being forced to see themselves for their raw and bare truth makes them transform as well. A strong attachment to one another is easily formed because the type of connection this specific conjunction creates is so passionate and intense. You either want ALL of them, ache for them, bleed for them, or you HATE them, resist them, NEVER want to see them again. You will both fill a void of passionate connection for one another you may both have never felt before. Extremes are a theme in this relationship as it adds such a heated depth to a synastry chart. You meet someone with their Pluto on your sun or vise versa and you can expect quite a real journey of transformation ahead of you.

Trine: This is a very strong and supportive aspect in synastry that manifests a deep bond between two individuals. This generates a lot of magnetism and sexual passion towards each other. It will be hard to resist one another as the sexual attraction runs very high with this aspect. But in addition to that sexual energy, you can really feel safe to trust one another with this trine because there is a space for both of you to be your true selves and be seen and accepted for that. This trine creates an inherent authenticity to the relationship that translates into a passionate emotional bond. You are sensitive and receptive to one another because you can really see the other person for their ‘real’ selves in a positive harmonious way. A lot of growth will come from the depth of connection you are able to experience being with one another. Its a safe space to work out old fears and residual negative patterns because you have this strong and durable structure created between you both to work on deeper parts of your psyches. If there are a lot of squares going on in a synastry chart this aspect would deepen the potential of being able to work through challenges because on a soul level, in a way that is vulnerable, raw, and honest.. You get each other and you want the best for each other. Pluto supports Sun in their conscious self and Sun supports Pluto in their unconscious self. This is a stabilizing aspect because that kind of realness adds a lot to a relationship. The opportunity for transformation is illuminated and harmonized through this aspect.

Sextile: The sextile here is an aspect that supports both people diving into deeper levels of themselves, it adds a supportive highlight and theme of exploring the deeper waters of experience through your connection! Like the trine you will have a platform to explore your deepest desires, fears, motivations, truths through your connection with this person and that will test you both. You are very sensitive to each other because their a natural intuitive and fluid understanding of one another and that flows through the waves of the relationship. Sexuality has space to flow in a deep way that is transformative. Your strength in this aspect as a couple lies in your ability for both of you work together with your individual strengths and weaknesses to further spiritual evolution. There is a strong emotional bond here as your passionate and deep impact on each other can play a supportive role in furthering each others goals and evolution, Sun helping Pluto develop and understand their inner world better, and Pluto helping sun find their strength and identity better to aid them in their relationship to the world. As always, sextiles are not stabilizing aspects on their own, but if this aspect is supported by the rest of the chart enough you can expect a lot of passion, sexual expression, emotional bonding, and realization of goals to be generated between the couple.

Square: This square is hot and heavy. Themes of obsession, control, and power struggles easily and directly see the light of say when Sun and Pluto are squaring each other. There is an extremely strong sexual attraction and attachment here, the energy it brings up is real, sexy, transformative, and volitile. You will get under each others skin with what is brought up between you both but the emotions and lessons that result from that will be like nothing else you’ve ever experienced. This connection is passionate from a place that is emotionally chaotic rather than harmonious like the trine. Emotional ups and downs hit the extremes and you will challenge each other in ways you have never felt before. Thats what makes this aspect so potent and passionate. This one isn’t a deal breaker as the attraction and transformation that is generated from the tension can evolve both people greatly but there WILL be themes of love and hate, emotional chaos. Pluto will want to control the sun persons identity and expression out of their own unconscious fears and insecurities. Sun might feel pushed to their absolute limits by Pluto as their are trying to gain their power and footing in the relationship and Pluto cuts in for control at every turn. The likelyhood for keeping secrets from one another runs high with this aspect. To make this aspect work you have to use those wild and painful ups and downs you stimulate together for your growth and empowerment as a couple, you’ll have to face the challenge presented to one another and choose to evolve from it. This aspect will stimulate a lot of growth and lessons no matter what happens, the bond is real and you both know it for better or worse.

Opposition: So… This is also a pretty intense aspect you can find with someone in synastry. Similar to the conjunction there is this theme of surfacing hidden aspects of self… However it comes in a way that is less direct than the conjunction because here Plutos subconscious energy expresses itself opposite than the Sun persons conscious ego identity and they can see and touch that part of each other. That being said, this theme of surfacing shadows and deeper levels of self for transformation comes in a way that isn’t as clear because we are dealing with opposites so the likelihood for tension in this process is much stronger. Here, you challenge each other to grow through your polarity.. You bring up all of each others shit coming from opposite archetypes of the zodiac and to make it work you have to find the understanding, compromise, and receptivity in the midway of that polarity. This is thought of to be a karmic aspect because these types of bonds are extremely strong and fated, you will experience transformation, but its often going to happen through the way you trigger one another. Another theme here is obsession, all Pluto aspects have a theme of obsession, in the harmonious aspects its more of a passionate intense interest.. and in the more tense aspects it manifests directly as obsession. There is this magnetism to one another, you want to know all of each others secrets and won’t stop till you get them, and a strong sexual attraction generated from this space. Pluto is likely to want to possess and control the Sun person, they are quite taken and obsessed with Suns identity and they want to take that and keep it for themselves and know every aspect of the Sun persons being. Sun person is magnetically attracted to Plutos strength and depth, they are taken by Plutos mysterious energy and feel compelled to journey with it. This relationship can have pushing and pulling as Suns surrender to Pluto is something they may easily resist, they may try to run away from it, either because that feeling of being controlled and possessed by Pluto becomes too much or because that deep surrender ego death Pluto is calling in for the Sun is something that naturally brings up resistance. Pluto could have a hard time dealing with the shadows and subconscious triggers brought up by the sun and that may make them want to run. Yet, this bond is not easily broken and its one that could keep a couple together (past a healthy point sometimes) because this polarity is so strong and sexual and magnetic. Think karmic, think ego death, this isn’t an easy opposition but its one that adds a lot of depth and fortitude to a bond.

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Hi, what do you think of sun conjunct Pluto in synastry? Thank you 💕

Sun Conjunct Pluto in Synastry

Is Intense. Tread carefully with this one because these are two powerful planets. Of course, it’s a conjunction which usually means the energies are fusing but do not forget that a conjunction is still a hard aspect.What you’ll often see with this particular interaspect is compulsive interactions, sexual tensions, and possibly jealousy and possessiveness. The Sun is drawn by Pluto’s depth and this kind of relationship often has a powerful and psychological impact on both people involved. These two planets will draw out each-others deepest feelings and ambitions. The Pluto person is addicted and drawn in/attracted to and sometimes possessive of the Sun’s light and personality. The Pluto person’s attentiveness and even obsession with the Sun will no doubt seductively lure the Sun person. The Sun [i.e. center of our universe] person’s confidence as a result of the Pluto person’s attention can be problematic. I’ve seen the Sun person try to test the Pluto person or play any emotional games to test the Pluto person’s love/adoration and willingness to do anything and everything for them. Think Jocelyn and William from a Knight’s tale but on steroids.In the case of Sun conjunct Pluto, this is such a bad idea dude.It’s imperative to understand that game playing is an absolute NO-NO. Things can get really ugly. On the flip, the sun person will find the Pluto person fascinating, mesmerizing, enigmatic, and highly sexually attractive. This is because Pluto is all 8th house energy infused in one person. The Pluto person often has an ineffable effect on the Sun and despite mutual fascination, and as usual [Pluto will also tend to have the upper hand.] The relationship provides a deep psychic and spiritual connection that may even feel otherworldly, ethereal or fated.  Very very hard to let go of the relationship and each other with this inter-aspect.

The Sex?

Deep and penetrating. Period. The sexual intensity and a desire to know one another at the deepest level can feel all-consuming. You two may get downright addicted to each other. Obsession. Explosive moments in bed. Might even be on the rougher side. The Pluto person will need more and more of the Sun person to the point where they don’t care how, when, or even where they get it. Just so long as they do. The sun person will tend to have withdrawals from the Pluto person and even act out plutonic traits because of the spell Pluto puts them under. The sun is not used to such intensity and darkness but it just can let go. There’ll be feelings of wanting to be together all the time. Fears and paranoia can run amok when you’re apart. Fear of loss/abandonment, infidelity, and betrayal can characterize this bond when you’re without each other, so try to find some light. This is typically an all-consuming attraction that is likely to make both people feel highly adored and possessed by one another. You will no doubt draw out powerful emotions from one another. Constantly.  The feelings run so deep with this aspect that a great amount of maturity needs to be present with both parties.Over-all? If intensity and all-consuming soul-bonds that possess your thoughts are your thing, then this is the aspect for you. Great times with this one but again, balance is definitely required.

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