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You’re not greedy or too much if you need caregiving most of even all of the time. You aren’t greedy or too much if you’re a permanent regressor, or almost always regressed.

You are still absolutely worthy of a caregiver who can meet your needs. You aren’t a burden, and you absolutely do not need to feel guilty for needing that care and support most or all of the time.

There isn’t anything bad or selfish about it. You’re allowed to need that care.

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🍳 sunny side pups!!! 🍳

Now up for adoption on my etsy! 💐

Cooked from scratch (my sewing machine). Full of nutrients (plastic beans). Cage free (they are living in my house and they don't pay rent someone please take them away from me).

Thanks so much for checking them out!!! rbs very appreciated too <3

Bonus: squashing him....

[Video description: my hand holding and squishing a fried egg puppy plush, with the sound of beans shifting around inside.]

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🩵Being your own caregiver🍓

Being your own caregiver is important. It’s not just prepping a time and space to regress. It’s also about treating yourself with kindness, respect, and understanding.

Even if you have a Caregiver, you still need to be able to treat your little self the way they deserve to be treated.

This could look like ~

🩵talking to yourself through big emotions

🍓making sure any little items are clean and ready for you when you’ll need them

🩵redoing your day plan to accommodate your little self and their needs

🍓giving yourself constant reassurance and affirmations

🩵checking in with yourself about your wants, needs, feelings, boundaries and to work with your little self on them

(Plus many many others I haven’t named)

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🧸Baby time!

✨mental health has made doing things that make me happy difficult 😣

🌙but I’m feeling good enough today to be my own caregiver and set up time to regress/ just do childlike activities. I even got a picture book from the library that I’m excited to read!

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I wish I was treated like I was physically little.

I wish I was greeted with a smile and a kind word by adults who didn't know me. I wish my shyness was seen as cute and not 'weird'. I wish my mistakes were corrected gently and forgiven. I wish I was carried to bed as I grew tired and tucked in with a kiss. I wish that when I grew frustrated and cried it was met with "aww, it's OK" and not sneers and laughter and "why are you acting like a baby? Grow up." I wish that when I got overwhelmed it was understood that I needed some quiet rest and I wasn't pushed to keep going.

I know lots of adults didn't give these graces even when I was physically little, but even the little bit that I got made it just that much easier. I'm still so small in such a big world, and it's just gotten rougher as I got bigger.

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🌤 Positiveity to my teenies who regress alone 🍼

🫧 You are brave for being able to regress on your own. It's sometimes tough to be small alone , but you've been pulling through all this time to have fun and cope regardless !

🫧 The way you always find ways to regress / handle regression on your own makes you resourceful !

🫧 You're not any less of a little just because you don't have a cg. All teenies are different in their own way !

🫧 It's okay if you don't want to tell anyone around you about your regression. It's something vulnerable that means a lot to you, and I understand ♡

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Forget clocking in at my actual job it’s time for me to clock in on agere tumblr

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Padded regressors are SFW! Padded regressors should be normalized!

tw for mention of K1nk

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Im sick of people or other regressors believing that diapers are inherently s3xual whenever they see another regressor post about one! I shouldn't have to say this, but padded regressors exist, and they are SFW.

While yes, diapers are used in k1nk communities, they are also used in a sfw fashion by some regressors. It just irks me that diapers have such a bad rep that padded regressors get shunned in their own community for using them. There are discord servers and agere communities out there that ban talk of diapers completely, believing that regressors that use diapers are nothing but into a disgusting k1nk and are not age regressors.

Im not even a padded regressor, but it just strikes a nerve within me that this has become normal. All regressors should be allowed to have their own ways of regressing, even those that use diapers. Padded regression needs to be more normalized.

Age regressors may use diapers for many reasons relating to bladder control issues when regressed, afab regressors on their periods, or even just for comfort.

Padded regressors are valid, amazing and deserve the world.

I hope this small post is informative to some who think diapers are only s3xual. Thank you for reading, and please be mindful.

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