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keep your relationship private but don't hide the fact you're in one

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افتح فمك فقط إن كان ما ستقوله أجمل من الصمت Open your mouth only if what you are going to say is more beautiful than silence.

Arabic Proverb  (via bl-ossomed)

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i like to pretend i don’t give a fuck but honestly i don’t think i’ve ever not given a fuck in my whole life

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Mood

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fool me once, shame on u; fool me twice, shame on u again for taking advantage of my compassionate & forgiving nature!!!!!! how dare u

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you have a lovely smile (:

Dawww shucks ☺️ thanks :)

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I didn’t want to fall in love or need someone. I really didn’t want anything. But then, you appeared and I started wanting everything.

http://adrenaline.tumblr.com/ (via adrenaline) @wakeupwhore basically ką aš turiu omenyje, kai pasakai “bet kai tada sėdėjom ir tu sakei, kad nenori blah blah blah” (via unimpressed-af)

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1. push yourself to get up before the rest of the world - start with 7am, then 6am, then 5:30am. go to the nearest hill with a big coat and a scarf and watch the sun rise. 2. push yourself to fall asleep earlier - start with 11pm, then 10pm, then 9pm. wake up in the morning feeling re-energized and comfortable. 3. get into the habit of cooking yourself a beautiful breakfast. fry tomatoes and mushrooms in real butter and garlic, fry an egg, slice up a fresh avocado and squirt way too much lemon on it. sit and eat it and do nothing else. 4. stretch. start by reaching for the sky as hard as you can, then trying to touch your toes. roll your head. stretch your fingers. stretch everything. 5. buy a 1L water bottle. start with pushing yourself to drink the whole thing in a day, then try drinking it twice. 6. buy a beautiful diary and a beautiful black pen. write down everything you do, including dinner dates, appointments, assignments, coffees, what you need to do that day. no detail is too small. 7. strip your bed of your sheets and empty your underwear draw into the washing machine. put a massive scoop of scented fabric softener in there and wash. make your bed in full. 8. organise your room. fold all your clothes (and bag what you don’t want), clean your mirror, your laptop, vacuum the floor. light a beautiful candle. 9. have a luxurious shower with your favourite music playing. wash your hair, scrub your body, brush your teeth. lather your whole body in moisturiser, get familiar with the part between your toes, your inner thighs, the back of your neck. 10. push yourself to go for a walk. take your headphones, go to the beach and walk. smile at strangers walking the other way and be surprised how many smile back. bring your dog and observe the dog’s behaviour. realise you can learn from your dog. 11. message old friends with personal jokes. reminisce. suggest a catch up soon, even if you don’t follow through. push yourself to follow through. 13. think long and hard about what interests you. crime? sex? boarding school? long-forgotten romance etiquette? find a book about it and read it. there is a book about literally everything. 14. become the person you would ideally fall in love with. let cars merge into your lane when driving. pay double for parking tickets and leave a second one in the machine. stick your tongue out at babies. compliment people on their cute clothes. challenge yourself to not ridicule anyone for a whole day. then two. then a week. walk with a straight posture. look people in the eye. ask people about their story. talk to acquaintances so they become friends. 15. lie in the sunshine. daydream about the life you would lead if failure wasn’t a thing. open your eyes. take small steps to make it happen for you.

A self care list. I’ve been working on this. I promise it’s worth it.  (via alunit)

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when the uber is lit

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The Signs - Wants & Needs

♈ ARIES:

Wants: To win. Excitement and adventure. To receive praise. To achieve greatness. To always have fun in life.

Needs: A varied routine. To accept defeat gracefully. To think before they act. To understand their weaknesses.

♉ TAURUS:

Wants: Peace and quiet. To be useful to others. To get away for a while. To do things in their own time.

Needs: A space for themselves. To vent anger in a healthy way. To notice when being taken advantage of.

♊ GEMINI:

Wants: To express all their thoughts. To release their inner child. To make new friends. To feel only happiness.

Needs: To slow down. A soul mate. A shoulder to cry on. Emotional intimacy. To be truly understood.

♋ CANCER:

Wants: Material comforts. To hide away. To rant about their troubles. A long lie-in. Less responsibilities.

Needs: To let things go. To remove their guilt. A good laugh. Frugality. Someone who will sit and listen.

♌ LEO:

Wants: Devotion. To be remembered. To be pampered and spoiled. To make people laugh. To be complimented.

Needs: Kindness. To learn to love themselves without other people's flattery. Loyal friends who won't flake out.

♍ VIRGO:

Wants: To prove their intelligence. A peaceful lifestyle. An organised plan. To be classy. To have a snappy comeback.

Needs: To admit when they need help from others. To understand nobody's perfect. To be spontaneous sometimes.

♎ LIBRA:

Wants: Everybody to get along. To be told what to do. To avoid negativity and conflict. To procrastinate.

Needs: To take charge and make decisions. To do things now. To cut toxic relationships. To trust their own abilities.

♏ SCORPIO:

Wants: To give a good impression. Intimacy. To be in control. To keep secrets. To be mature and respected.

Needs: To stop stifling themselves. Body acceptance. A physical outlet. To admit they are wrong sometimes.

♐ SAGITTARIUS:

Wants: To prove themselves. Good stories to share. To be admired and praised. To never miss an opportunity.

Needs: To relax/meditate. A long hug. To find a balance between work and relations. To vent their frustrations.

♑ CAPRICORN:

Wants: To inspire. To share their wisdom. To play it safe. To be wealthy. To keep neutral opinions.

Needs: To take risks sometimes. To trust in others. To unlock their emotions. Someone/something to care for.

♒ AQUARIUS:

Wants: To be unique. To be independent. To have many different talents. To make good connections.

Needs: A helping hand. To shoulder less burdens. To take their ambitions steadily. A strong support system.

♓ PISCES:

Wants: Emotional support. A knight in shining armour. To escape. To daydream. To cry it all out.

Needs: Independence. To accept the truth. To voice their concerns. To focus. To build a stronger backbone.

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I think about (fucking) you a lot

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This is basically how my coming out went

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does anyone else just feel the strong desire to change, to travel, to meet new people, to just start over somewhere you’ve never been before

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