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100%

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So true.

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以后也想有个小屋子

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有时候还真的想做个渣女，

人生为什么会有善恶之分?

亚当夏娃当初为何吃苹果?

为何我的原则观念这么强?

错误往往就在于一念��差，

导致无法挽回的伤情一场，

原来所谓的沉沦就是那么一回事。

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人的慾望是無窮的，古代就有人警告過，人要役物而不是役於物。

要是物質成了人的主人，那也就完了。

有的時候仔細回味一下，真正的有錢人，其實過得都是很簡單很克制的生活。

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Money & Power

Since young, I never really understood why people go crazy over money. I come from an average family where we have slightly more than enough to live through the days, at least blessed enough to be able to travel within the Continent. I always reminded myself I never wanna be one of those adults who are blinded by money, I just wanna be happy.

Growing up, I slowly realise what they meant by that. The nature of human is we're greedy, that's why we always seek for improvement and are asking for more.

Recently, the thought of having more money have been driving me mad, because I know money comes with a long list of side attachments as well:

When you've money, you're in control, hence they call if financial freedom, you've the willpower in deciding the options you'd have without having to scrutinise crazily on your budgeting.

When you've money, you could delegate, you don't have to rely on DIY, you can pass on to someone and transfer that responsibility and liability to someone else while you use your time for something better.

When you've money, things just seem to be a lot simpler as they open doors to a lot of opportunities. It was then social status kicks in and play an important role in determining how fast things could process depending on your rank.

There's just this dark force that's sucking away my purity and innocence away, that I'm no longer seeing the World as they used to be. It's telling me the equation could be very simple, money could bring in a lot of happiness because of the freedom that you're about to achieve.

Ofcourse, everything has a flipside too, with money it comes sacrifice too, but the question is which of this option seems to be more valuable to you? Isit the sacrifice you've made or the rewards that would be coming.

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为什么你不想有个孩子？

以下文章来源于：

https://zhidao.baidu.com/daily/view?id=134480&fr=feed&sourceType=other

因为不想牺牲个人自由和发展前景

“我想买漂亮的衣服，想拥有宽敞的屋子，想买限量版的书籍，想学自己感兴趣的乐器，想做一切我自己想做的事，想活成精致的样子。我在自己身上的投入和产出是成正比的，而孩子只是一个无底洞会耗尽我前半生所有的积蓄与热情，如今的生活成本那么高，如果要养孩子那就意味着我将要放弃我所有的梦想，那真是生不如死。而且孩子的心比成年人更难以控制和把握，我绝不会自己设下未知的障碍来耽误我的未来。”

“大概可以归结为一种有责任心但却不想不责任的心态。以及一种对待万事万物都渴望能随时脱身，不想被先天的羁绊而摞缚的去做一些不得不为之事。”

“不想生孩子。虽然我还很年轻，但是很早就觉得生了孩子后生活的重心都会发生改变，如果有了自己的孩子就一定会对他负责，但那种焦虑的妈妈的形象是非常可怕的。一个人完全可以按照自己的喜好来安排生活，旅行或者单纯满足兴趣的活动，有了孩子则不然。但在中国现在这个环境下，女性要自主自由决定生育与否实在艰难”

“在我眼里，小孩是一种很难搞定的生物，我可能更倾向于把心思花在自己的兴趣爱好上。而且我本身的成长过程就经历了各种坎坷复杂，换位思考的话，我绝对做不到像我妈妈那样无私全身心地投入来照料我们，几乎没有自主生活。可能从小看着妈妈为了我们过着日复一日枯燥的生活，以致于我对结婚生子后的日子不报期望。”

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本人感想：

上面大家所提供的意见对我来说都非常的中肯，完全速说了我本人的感想。

但我不否定，有个孩子在身边，的确是感情中的新阶段，也许会成为你和你的伴侣的催化剂。所以，也许在未来的某一天，当我实现了我的梦想，努力充足的培养了兴趣爱好，

满足了；

看透了；

玩够了；

是时候了；

我会领养个孤儿，但愿我这个举动能够为这名没这么幸运的孩儿带来些许幸福。＃感恩

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人生一世，不过读书、行路、历事、见人。

而从事旅行相关的工作，一下占了三个。

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叔本华曾说过，“只有当一个人独处的时候，他才可以完全成为自己。谁要是不爱独处，那他也就是不热爱自由，因为只有当一个人独处的时候，他才是自由的。”

　　懂得高质量独处的人，选择了真实的人生，和灵魂的自由，又谈何孤独。

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人有悲欢离合，

月有阴晴圆缺，

此事古难全。

但愿人长久，

千里共婵娟

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Commitment issues

I think I've commitment issues, I couldn't seem to commit and focus in one thing for a long period of time.

When I took an interest on a hobby, it never prolong. I seem to forget about them after half a year?

When I'm interested in someone, the interest usually never last anything longer than 3 months.

Still young to comment about my career, but I've a feeling Millennials (including myself) are not able to commit to 1 job/organization for a long period of time.

With friends, I may not be able to commit to hanging out with them to keep up with the friendship.

I seek for freedom;

Thrive for variance;

Anticipate for adventure; and

Never settle easily.

Sometimes I wish life could really be no strings attached, that you could just let go of your friends, belongings and just go to a new place where you start over again to meet new people and own new stuff.

If only life could be as simple as such, as though there is a sleep/hibernate button, where I could snooze off for a long period of time.

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这是我大爱的一位小说家。 我看了几本他说写的小说，外加被翻拍为电视剧的几部戏。其中包括： 《他来了，请闭眼》犯罪推理言情 《美人为馅》刑警推理爱情 不得不说，这2套戏都无法完好的表达丁墨在小说里所述写的每一个细节，每一个人物微小的神情，思绪以及观察。而这些细节都是牵动着读者情绪关至重要的部分。 而戏剧也有可能是考虑的集数，所以某些部分的小说情节也没有透露在戏中，特别是小说里有那么10个犯罪案子，剧中也就出现了6个，还真是有些遗憾。 只看了小说，没看喜剧的： 《他来了请闭眼之暗粼 》 《如果蜗牛有爱情》犯罪悬疑言情 《他和我的倾城时光》商战职场言情 现在正在阅读： 《莫负寒夏》商战职场言情 丁墨在小说里的陈述写法只会让我越读越上瘾，因为不管犯罪案子也好，商战里的开展，都是越来越复杂，也越来越刺激，每回我都得挨个通宵告诉我自己，这个案情好了之后，就要休息了，可有时候嘛，也真还有听不下手的时候。

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14 Nov 2017 - Left Malaysia to Japan for a 6 months contract in Majestic Princess Cruise Ship

I had Thai food before I left Malaysia for a while as that’s really one of cuisine I love best.

14 May 2018 - Came back to Msia after the end of contract

Rushed to Thai food cause I honestly missed it

10 Jun 2018 - Went to Finland for Volunteer Travel

Had some Thai food before I left

28 Jul 2018 - Came back to Msia from Finland

Had some Thai food cause its really the looove of my life.

14 Aug 2018 - Leaving to Kuantan to Club Med Cherating for 2 weeks

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“Why don’t you ever consider getting a boyfriend?” “I don’t even have enough time to take care of myself how am I supposed to take care of others?”

“Do you like dogs?” “I like playing with them, but I won’t ever take them as pet.” “What about cat?” “No, I just don’t want any pet in general.” “Why?” “I can’t even take good care of myself like basic cooking, how can I care for a pet?”

Come to think of it, if I do end up alone by the age of 35, I’d consider getting a Siberian Husky puppy as my best friend to cure my loneliness.

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So dejected, depressed and desperate. So annoyed, aggrieved and anxious. So lost, lonely and lack of energy. So unhappy, unfair and unreasonable. 两头不到岸 How do I move on with life now?

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When it comes to choosing a career, more choice isn’t always a good thing. We’re constantly told that doing what we love is the secret to a thriving career—but what happens when love comes in multiples? Source: https://pin.it/wq5zzni3nqz5vh You can do anything, but not everything - David Allen If you're anything like me, picking ONE thing to work on is nearly impossible. I'm passionate about a lot of things- writing, DIY some crafts, starting my own business, decorating my room, reading online article, watching Chinese drama, dancing to Just Dance Now- and while all of these things are great, I often find myself trying to do everything at once and subsequently giving into a Netflix induced coma of anti-productivity.  

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"The most common fear that is experienced by people who fear commitment is the fear of being trapped and therefore loosing freedom. If you fear commitment, your fear has caused you to develop an addiction to the sweet security of escape. Decisions are the ultimate fear if you fear commitment. You especially fear making decisions because you feel that by doing so you will lose options. You fear making the wrong decision and being trapped with the potential consequences (especially losses) of that choice. And this is your personal, subconscious definition of failure." Perfectly explains what I'm feeling now.