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There’s a quote from Bert where he says he‘s “known big bird since he was a little bird” and the thought of it makes my heart cry so here’s that

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✨🧸 Regresses While High flag for regressors who regress when high, get high in order to regress, etc! (please reblog if you save)! 🧸✨

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Agere concept I don’t know what to do with but adore

Caregiver who has two Littles, one being younger in headspace than the other (like one is 4-5 and the other is 0-2) and the ‘older’ of the two is insistent on helping their caregiver take care of the baby

“CAN I FEED ‘EM!? PLEEEASE?!” and then the caregiver sits down with them both, helping the ‘older’ hold the baby in their lap properly before showing them how to properly give the baby their bottle,,,

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Animal Ark Book Series (1994 - 2008)

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when you wake up to your plushie on the floor how long have you been down there D:

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Shout out to regressors with messy rooms

Whether that be just a small mess or you have trash and dirty dishes everywhere

you are no less of a regressor just bc your rooms isn't clean or "aesthetic"

I hope you someday have the energy to clean, but until then don't feel ashamed or any less valid

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Agere community you guys need to draw more regressors or regressed characters regressing in their adult bodies I am. So serious. Sometimes I feel a disconnect having to imagine myself smaller or as a baby and sometimes I feel like I'm not imagining my regressed!f/os at all if I force myself to imagine them in a child's body.

I understand that most regressors draw like this to fully immerse themselves but at some point we gotta ask ourselves if it's also because we're uncomfortable at the thought of an adult regressing or maybe even the thought of an adult who isn't regressed doing childlike things or "acting like a child"?

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this is how it feels when ur in a fandom that's relatively big and has been around for a while but there's barely any agere content

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shout out to all the age regressors who have a very complicated relationship with regression because of childhood trauma and infantilization because of their disabilities. sometimes, being treated like a kid is triggering because it reminds you of the power imbalance between you and your caregiver. shout out to the regressors who don't want their caregivers to be their parents. Shoutout to all the impure regressors who only regress when high or drunk. Shoutout to all the regressors who still do adult things while regressed like watch horror, play adult video games, or swear like sailors. shoutout to all the regressors who don't want a caregiver. it is first and foremost, a coping mechanism for stress and trauma. it does have to look a specific way.

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please remember to be kind to regressors & caregivers who struggle with things you may see as "scary", "wrong", or "rude".

the ones with NPD, the ones with ASPD, the schizo-spec ones, the ones with low or no empathy, the ones who are blind to social cues/societal norms, etc.

as someone who struggles with several of these things, it's easy to feel unwanted & underepresented sometimes, especially in a community where you're kind of expected to be a happy, kind optimist. you have the power to change that!!

don't derail if you dont struggle with this.

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i think in general, it would be nice for the agere community to remember that age regression is primarily associated with abused or traumatized children as both a natural coping mechanism and a reflection of developmental delays

and this is to say that everyone can regress, absolutely, but please have more kindness for regression being difficult for many. for a while now regressors like us have been thrown under terms like impure, vent, trauma, etc. and have been shoved out of tags and sent a message that our regression is secondary to the happy go lucky soft baby regression people want to see

and its fine if thats what you want. just have some compassion in your heart for the kids who are struggling. maybe your inner child is, too. for DID/OSDD littles who only exist because of trauma and often are dealing with a horrific reality.

regression IS difficult, upsetting, traumatizing, dysfunctional. it is also happy, fun, safe, rewarding. all of these things are true of regression and we dont need to separate it semantically. if you dont want to see the kids who are hurting, maybe unpack why that is. and if youre hurting, youre not impure or whatever other term people come up with to section you off with

love yourselves and others in turn, and it'll make for a better community :}

- mama K

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Please interact with this post if you're a trans or gender non-conforming age regressor/age dreamer so that we can all see we're valid members of our community who aren't alone!

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