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Id kill to have one of these oh my gosh 😭😭😭😭

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I love giving a sub an impossible situation; a command they can’t fulfill, a chance they can’t take. Telling them not to cum as you force them to, letting them ask for what they want while they can’t talk, tempting them with a kiss while their mouth is full of a gag. Watching them squirm and whimper and struggle to be so good for you, so obedient, before ultimately failing while you laugh.

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really just want to be invited to a small house-party where everyone coming has already decided and planned that I’m going to be used that night. 

I want to arrive and feel everyone’s eyes on me but not think too much of it. all throughout the night, everyone would be offering me drinks and being overly sweet to me til I’m a little too tipsy and feel completely at ease. only then would everyone gather round for a game of some sort, and whoever is sat nearest to me would sneak a hand onto my thigh and as the game continues, more and more hands would find their way to me and at some point, I’d end up in someone’s lap and snap out of my giggly, drunken state for a moment to realise that absolutely everyone’s attention is on me and there are far too many hands on my body and my skirt has risen up to reveal my panties. 

but it’s too late at that point. I’m already being held down and the next thing I know, my shirt is being torn off and thrown away and I’m being passed around and fucked over and over again by people I thought were my friends <33 

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1000000% FACTS

reassurance will take my mood from a 0 to 100. i love being reminded that i’m loved and appreciated.

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don’t ever fault yourself for loving too hard. that’s how you’re suppose to love, unconditionally and wholeheartedly. It isn’t a flaw ma.

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25% is better than 0%. trying a little is better than not trying at all. eating a protein bar is better than nothing. using dry shampoo is better than not showering. cleaning one section of your room or house is better than not cleaning any of it. writing a paragraph of your essay is better than not starting it. whatever you can manage today is okay. you can try again tomorrow. little steps are to be proud of.

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in this household, we love and support trans folk and make sure they always feel welcome and safe

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I feel like I am not enough and too much at the same time

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Second attemp of doing a .gif Artwork © LifTilraun SHED  Updated since i notice some problems <:

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just to reiterate, if you are a paedophile, support paedophiles, interact with minors in a sexual manner, think it's fine that minors follow 18+ blogs, think minors should be allowed in kink, MAP or whatever you disgusting people call yourself now, unfollow me. block me. I don't want you interacting with my blog.

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Long Distance Tips from a submissive

See each other, and talk, as often as possible Hearing, and seeing each other, as often as possible is the number one way to feel connected to one another long distance.Try to find little times to connect, even if it’s not a time when you can give your full attention. Talk while you are driving or grocery shopping. For my Dom and I our time differences, and schedules, make finding time to give each other 100% attention hard for us. My Daddy sometimes turns on ‘Daddy TV’ for me, allowing me to watch him on cam while he is working. We mute the sound and chat via text, but being able to see him is a very calming experience for me, and it certainly helps this needy sub feel connected.

Text when you can’t talk Having your camera on, or headphones in, isn’t always practical, but communicating through text chat is often a more manageable way to keep in contact throughout the day. Don’t underestimate the power of a message that says “Just wanted you to know I’m thinking of you’’.

Have a cam ’date’ Order the same takeout (Chinese food, pizza, etc.), and pop on the same Netflix show/movie while you cam together.

Keep a panty catalog Both my Dom and I love when he chooses my panties. I, like most women I know, own more panties than he is able to keep track of without help. What I did was create an album for him, a picture of me in each pair, and a corresponding number, so that all he needs to do is glance at the album and leave me a number to let me know which he chose for the day. This works great with lingerie too.

Send Voice Messages There is a great service on Vocaroo.com that requires no sign up. You can record voice messages for each other so that you have something to listen to at time you will not be able to communicate via voice/cam.

Send pictures and videos as often as possible A silly morning selfie, or a video recording, can go a long way toward making you feel connected. Google drive is a great way to organize these and control who can view/download the videos and images. (However these methods are not hack-proof and you should always be discreet and completely trust and vet anyone you share sexy/revealing content with.)

Don’t make every communication about sex Things don’t need to be sexy all the time. Have a cam session where you just talk. Ask about your partner’s day. Time on voice/cam is often limited in LDRs but that doesn’t mean every opportunity needs to be used for something sexy. Those sexy times will feel so much more special when you’ve fostered a real connection.

Share a to-do list Google keep is a great app that lets you share a to-do list, so you can check tasks/chores off, and your Dom can see what has been completed at any given moment. It also allows either party to add or remove tasks at any time.

Share your playlists The days of mixed tapes are over, but listening to the same song (preferably at the same time) is a great way to feel connected to another person. Shared experiences have a way of uniting us that is very powerful, and music has a draw all it’s own.

Don’t hide your bad days LDRs are, after all, just relationships. Don’t impose on yourself the need to always come off as happy and put together. I’ve had calls where I’ve done little more than cry while my Dom listens and attempts to just be there for me. When another person can’t read your body language you need to make a greater effort to communicate what your feeling. Tell them if you feel sad, or frustrated, or angry. If you know that you’ll have trouble with this I’ve heard some people establish emojis or code-words ahead of time that they can use to communicate a mood when they can’t find the words.

Send a good-morning and goodnight message This is an important practice, especially for people in different time zones. Let them know you are thinking of them when you wake. Tuck-in is a very reassuring ritual for submissives (especially littles) and these simple messages can go a long way toward reassuring both Dom and sub that they are thought of, and missed.

Have a comfort object It’s my intention to write something more extensive about aftercare in a LDR later on, but a great place to start is with a comfort object. It can be a stuffy, a blanket, or a sweatshirt that smells like your partner; anything that reminds you of them. Create good associations by keeping the item close by while you are talking and enjoying yourselves, this will make the object more comforting when you’re feeling down.

Cut yourself some slack Some days will be difficult. You’ll miss connecting because of busy schedules or bad luck. It’s easy to feel neglected and unimportant, but try to keep perspective. Remember and appreciate the effort that your partner puts into your relationship and try to cut them, and yourself, some slack.

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I think this should be known

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Decide how much is enough for me. Don't mind my whimpering and wriggling, I just need to be broken in properly. You tell me when it's over, you decide when I'm allowed to close my legs. Put me in my place: beneath you, or between your legs.