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Me towards platonic intimicy

Yes, let me run my fingers through your messy hair, let me hold your hand while we walk and give you hugs whenever we meet.

Touch is my love language.

Me towards sexual intimacy

Eww don't touch me.

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And honestly, same. 

[credit to @warpbud]

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THE GREEN KNIGHT 2021 | dir. David Lowery

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“studio ghibli romances be like “what if we didn’t kiss, but instead both spiritually matured as people because we met each other.”

“I’ve become skeptical of the unwritten rule that just because a boy and a girl appear in the same feature, a romance must insue. Rather, I want to portray a slightly different relationship, one where the two mentally inspire eachother to live-if I am able to, then perhaps I’ll be closer to portraying a true expression of love.” -hayao miyazaki

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You got me here

Nah but really

I would just like to point out that the Lion King 2 is one of the most underrated Disney movies ever.

Did we all just forget that happened? Do you remember the good - ass plotline? Do you remember the good-ass songs? Do you remember being weirdly attracted to Kovu or was that just me?

I’m just saying it’s one of my favs and ppl always say sequels suck.

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Aces: my sexual orientation is no

Grey-aces: my sexual orientation is ✨Limited Edition✨

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this is the best

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yall: <3

me, an intellectual: <3000

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Léa Seydoux in Inglourious Basterds (2009) dir. Quentin Tarantino

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Things I’ve learned about love

1. Love never means the same thing to two people and it’s best to try not to force them into one definition. For you being in love may make you want to skip around and tell everyone how happy and in love you are. But for him being in love may mean not letting anyone know because he doesn’t want anyone to taint it.

2. Love poems and love songs are not to be followed as the bible for love. Actions are. Follow his actions only then will you know how true his love is.

3. It’s the easiest thing to confuse heartbreak for love. It’s the mistake millions makes every single day. They may look similar like salt and sugar but they taste worlds apart.

4. Love will not like 100% things about you but love will never ask you to change any of it ever. You shouldn’t either.

5. There is so much out there on love. Everyone has so much to say and teach you and warn you about. So many movies and books that will give you unrealistic expectations. So many friends who will try to project their past when you ask for advice. You have to navigate it through it on your own with the one you love.

6. You have to form your own meaning for this four letter word. And god you have to resist comparing your love with anyone else’s because there is no standard measure and there is no guide book.

7. Someone who truly loves you will never ask you to stop doing something you love - a particular job, being friends with a certain someone, spending time with your family - they will never ask you to choose.

8. Trust your fucking intuition. Trust it over anyone else’s words - lies and promises.

9. Love doesn’t equate to 100% codependency. You don’t have to do everything together. You don’t have to know every little thing about each other. It’s great if that comes naturally but it shouldn’t be forced. It’s not a prerequisite for love.

10. Love will not shame you. Not in bed, not about your lack of a college degree or your family or about how cheesy you can get. Love will not make you feel ashamed for who you are.

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“and I would choose you time and time again”

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Why is it that the thing that attracts you to a person always end up being the thing that just drives you crazy?

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Ornella Muti in The Taming of the Scoundrel (1980).