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[lenaromanov]

[lenaromanov]

my sp success story + how i’m maintaining our relationship.

a little bit about myself pre-sp.

before meeting my current sp, i went through a rough breakup and let’s just say— that individual was extremely abusive. i think i manifested the breakup because it was so sudden and it didn’t make “any sense.” it was extremely random and out of that person’s “character” and honestly, i know i could’ve manifested a completely new relationship with them but i didn’t want to. i felt way more free after the breakup and it’s actually the reason why i became a better manifestor and manifested my current sp.

i was stuck in the same cycle. always in toxic relationships. always surrounded by individuals who weren’t my type at all. always in shitty situations until the breakup. i DECIDED that i don’t want to be stuck in the same cycle anymore. and looking back at my previous relationships, i really did not stick to my standards at all which made me a bit resentful towards my partners. i think i lowkey wanted to put myself in painful situations because that’s what i was used to. (ego feeling safe in toxic dynamics) i knew i was worth more, way more, but i chose to always belittle myself and settle for less and what was “normal.” i chose continuously to experience the worst version of people too. i always chose to be with the worst person i can possibly see and think of in any room. i always chose to continue being with people who were inconsistent and overall just horrible. this even led to me experiencing signs of cheating or disloyalty over and over. it was a form of self sabotage until it ruined my life. it ruined my mental health. my “image.” my self worth. my confidence. it even ruined the way i view relationships and how i experience love. i thought that i was done for at some point. that i’ll never be able to experience love because my brain was “too fried” atp and mentally drained to ever genuinely feel or experience it. i never knew what true and pure love was. and if you’re anything like i was, i promise you, that can all completely change once you decide that enough is enough.

after the breakup.

i remember that i was so mad and felt a lot of anger towards that person and honestly, that anger helped me A LOT. it was the part of me that wanted better for myself. that’s why i don’t believe that anger is always a bad thing. i let myself feel my emotions. and to be completely honest, i was way too emotionally exhausted by that person that it was so easy to let go of them. i felt nothing towards them afterwards (i’m pretty sure i never did, it was just the attachment to a certain idea) and i completely let go of the idea of being in a relationship at that time. i became so detached from my 3d.

the moment everything shifted.

i remember lying in my bed and imagining my ideal relationship. i thought about marriage and the person i’ll spend the rest of my life with. i imagined everything about that person. their personality, appearance, age, education, voice, background, where they live, etc. literally everything. i had that knowing/feeling that they’re mine already. that one day i’ll meet them. i was satisfied enough with the thought of them. it “almost felt like” i was already experiencing this relationship and truly felt the love and every other emotion i wanted to experience and slept. at that time, i didn’t know that what i did was SATS. since then, i’ve always sworn by it because it completely transformed my life even until this moment. (you can manifest however you want, i’m just saying that this is what worked for me) i told myself that i’ll no longer settle for less. this person is already mine and they’re the only person i’ll accept.

a few days after the breakup, my friends kept telling me that i should reinstall IG and i usually refuse or not care that much but i felt inclined to do so. it felt so natural to me and i didn’t think much about it. (which can be considered inspired action) i started to work on my self concept, my mental health, and only focused on myself and my well being. i received so many dms from so many different people and i rejected all of them. i stuck to my end, to the person i wanted and this time, i did not settle for anything less. i also completely detached from the idea of being in a relationship. i was open to it, but i didn’t NEED it. i already knew that my next relationship would be exactly how i wanted with my exact ideal person so i didn’t care when it happened. i received so many friend requests and i was like “why not accept?” and accepted them. my ex came back too, begging me to be with them but i still stuck to my end. i was unfazed by everything in the 3d. i just did whatever i felt like at that moment.

how my sp and i met and how did it work out between us.

while accepting the friend requests, my sp caught my attention because usually people who follow me, we have a lot of mutuals in common. my sp and i only had one mutual and that mutual was someone who followed me by accident and thought i was another person. i accepted them and didn’t think much about it. my sp then started replying to my notes and let me tell you— i did not like that mf at all. i ignored them a lot. i didn’t really want to talk to them. i was even talking to other people. despite having some negative assumptions about my sp, i developed a strong self concept regarding relationships and people in general. i fully knew that any person who is interested in me will do anything to be with me, even if they have to change themselves to the better. one of the traits i am really attracted to in people is determination, which my sp FULLY embodied. that mf was so determined to be with me despite me being a complete ass to them. they even messaged me exactly what i visualized before going to sleep such as whether i’m interested in marriage or not. i was completely and authentically myself and i didn’t care whether anyone liked me or not. (i was raised to become a people pleaser, which i always tried my best to reject) and when i tell you they handled me so well, they really did, and that’s when i became attracted to them.

i viewed their profile and it really caught my attention. they didn’t seem to use IG at all and they admitted so. they told me that they’re barely on IG and don’t really use social media that much which is something i liked a lot. they barely followed anyone too. barely posted. it didn’t even feel suspicious, it felt normal. usually i’d be like nah, that’s dangerous but with them, it felt different and i even manifested constant proof that they’re harmless. we started talking a lot and they pissed me off a lot too but they didn’t give up and really respected my feelings. they’d always apologize and never repeat the same mistake again. when we got closer, i realized that they are exactly the person i visualized down to the tee. personality, appearance, voice, interests, lifestyle, beliefs about relationships, age, where they live, their family members, their university, etc. etc. even their first initial ! literally everything. i started to panic a bit and i self sabotaged and pushed them away. then i was like no, they are exactly the person i visualized, let me give them a chance and i manifested them messaging me again after mutually deciding to not talk. (p.s i was a complete mess and i still manifested that so your emotions really don’t matter and your self concept doesn’t have to be perfect 24/7. you’ll have your moments and it’s okay. you’ll eventually get there. you just have to persist in your desire, however you want) we then got way closer and there are so many things about that person that completely changed too. i manifested them becoming better and better everyday. from accepting everything about me to doing everything i wanted. then we met irl and since then, i’ve been in the best relationship ever.

how am i maintaining the relationship ?

i’ve developed a better self concept but sometimes traumas and fears can arise and i’ve been learning to deal with them. i did self sabotage a lot even after getting together. i’ve manifested them hurting me multiple times too and that’s when i started to really get into loa. i’ve always known about loa and even beyond the surface level, but i really wanted to have a healthy relationship and i was determined to do so.

my current sp made me realize that my beliefs about myself and relationships matter more than anything as well as my assumptions about certain people. but even if i assume the worst about someone, it still all comes down to my self concept because it’s the reason why i’m assuming the worst in the first place. it all starts with self and that’s true. so i did a little experiment. whenever i thought negatively about love, assumed the worst, and put my full awareness on negative things, they’d manifest in my relationship. whenever i thought positively about love and my sp, assumed the best, and put my full awareness on positive things, they’d also manifest in my relationship. i didn’t do anything in either. i just observed my sp. i even visualized and affirmed them doing and saying specific things to me, whether good or bad, and they both happened. it reached to the point where any song i’d listen to, even the most random ones, would literally be on their phone and they’d randomly play them when we’re together or mention them while texting. i let go of resentment. i let go of trying. i let go of all that and just decided. i asked myself do i really want this person and relationship ? and decided that i do. i decided that i’ll only focus on the version i want them to be, the love i want to experience, and who i am choosing to be. the more i focus on myself and what i deserve, the more they reflect that back to me so i’d be insane to still choose to experience negative things when i can simply experience the positive. and to help myself even more, i assume that even if i’m overthinking or feeling negative emotions, they always prove to me that they’re false and that everything is okay. every day i see how they’re my type and ideal for me more and more.

i know i rambled a lot but i wanted this to be proof that manifesting your ideal person is not out of reach and is completely possible. i am a perfect example of that because i manifested my sp although i am barely close to anyone irl, don’t really meet a lot of people, was completely isolated, went through horrible breakups, had the shittiest self concept when it came to love, was going through a lot mentally, and so much more. i barely even talked about all the “crazy” things i’ve manifested with them and trust me, the way we met and everything we’ve been through together until this second proves that imagination is the actual reality and the decider of how your 3d unfolds. everything i’ve been through previously in life was also “proof” that i couldn’t experience what i wanted but i refused to accept that. i was told that i’ll never find someone like them and i didn’t accept that. now i have someone, who i’ve manifested out of thin air, literally worship the ground i walk on and we’ve been together for a long time now.

your 3d is not evidence for anything. it doesn’t prove anything. if you want something, you can have it no matter what anyone tells you and no matter what you see. if you want it, it’s yours. if you can imagine it, it’s yours. you deserve to experience love and be with someone who fits you perfectly, treats you well, and gives you everything you want. yes, EVERYTHING. it all comes down to you.

[lenaromanov]

your favorite "fictional" characters aren't just pixels on a screen, they're so much more than that, and are very much real 🩷

this string of comments made me realize you cannot feel emotions for something that isn't real. the characters we see here may be present only in pixels, but that shouldn't disregard the fact that they are real in many other places. "they are what keeps you living, they are art, they embody reality too, they are human beings too." is so true, because, they are real; somewhere out there, they exist. there's a reason why we feel so connected to them, it's not a coincidence, it's fate. this is real, and your favorite video game/movie/book/show characters exist in many realities across the multiverse, so go be with them.

[lenaromanov]

♡ LIVING LEGACY: BEAUTY, WEALTH, AND POWER. ♡ NEPOTISM MANIFESTATION PACK

This is for the lovely people who want to manifest stuff about themselves, this pack is a nepo baby theme ⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡ enjoy!

𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐜𝐲 𝐋𝐮𝐱 ✧ 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝑅𝒶𝓇𝑒𝒻𝒾𝑒𝒹 𝐴𝒾𝓇 𝒴𝑜𝓊 𝐵𝓇𝑒𝒶𝓉𝒽𝑒 You were born into stardust, a legacy gilded in gold. Your presence isn’t just admired—it’s expected. You step into the room like you own it, because you do. The world is your inheritance, and yet, they still wonder how you make it look so effortless.

𝐒𝐨𝐟𝐭 𝐒𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐥 ✧ 𝒜 𝒩𝒶𝓂𝑒 𝒲𝒽𝒾𝓈𝓅𝑒𝓇𝑒𝒹 𝒾𝓃 𝐸𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑒 𝒞𝒾𝓇𝒸𝓁𝑒𝓈 Your name is spoken in hushed tones—some with envy, some with desire. They roll their eyes, yet they can’t look away. You don’t chase fame, you are fame. A last name that opens doors, a first name that lingers like expensive perfume.

𝐆𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 ✧ 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝐼𝓃𝒽𝑒𝓇𝒾𝓉𝑎𝓃𝒸𝑒 𝒪𝒻 𝐵𝑒𝒶𝓊𝓉𝓎 You don’t just have good genes—you have generational perfection. Your beauty is a masterpiece painted across decades, each feature sculpted by a lineage of icons. It’s the kind of face they swear they’ve seen before, in old film reels and glossy magazine covers.

𝐑𝐨𝐲𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐥𝐨𝐭𝐡 ✧ 𝒲𝒽𝑦 𝒲𝑜𝓇𝓀 𝒲𝒽𝑒𝓃 𝒴𝑜𝓊𝓇 𝐿𝒶𝓈𝓉 𝒩𝒶𝓂𝑒 𝒟𝑜𝑒𝓈 𝐼𝓉 𝐹𝑜𝓇 𝒴𝑜𝓊? They hustle, you inherit. They strive, you arrive. While they’re networking, you’re at a private island retreat, sipping something chilled. A yacht party here, a front-row fashion show there—you make it look like destiny, not privilege.

𝐂𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐂𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝 ✧ 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝐸𝓃𝓉𝒾𝓉𝓎 𝒯𝒽𝑒𝓎 𝐵𝑒𝓁𝒾𝑒𝓋𝑒 𝐼𝓃 You are not just a person; you are a presence. Ethereal, unattainable, the heiress of an era. People swear you were born under the right stars, placed on earth as proof that beauty and legacy can intertwine.

𝐒𝐢𝐥𝐤 & 𝐂𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐥𝐬 ✧ 𝒜 𝒞𝑒𝓇𝓉𝒾𝒻𝒾𝑒𝒹 𝐸𝓃𝓉𝒾𝓉𝓎 Boarding schools with ivy-covered walls, summer houses in Saint-Tropez, a family name engraved on donation plaques—you weren’t just raised, you were curated. The world has already decided you belong to the upper echelon.

𝐏𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐝 𝐏𝐨𝐢𝐬𝐞 ✧ 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝒜𝓇𝓉 𝒪𝒻 𝒟𝑜𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝒩𝑜𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝒴𝑒𝓉 𝐵𝑒𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝐸𝓋𝑒𝓇𝓎𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃𝑔 You never try too hard because you never had to. The world moves around you, bends to your whims. While others chase the spotlight, you simply exist in its glow, as if it was made for you.

𝐆𝐥𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐈𝐧 𝐆𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐬 ✧ 𝒴𝑜𝓊 𝒲𝑒𝓇𝑒 𝐵𝑜𝓇𝓃 𝐹𝒶𝓂𝑜𝓊𝓈 Before you could even spell your name, it was already written in headlines. Before you could walk, your first steps were documented in tabloids. Beauty, elegance, allure—it’s not something you had to earn. It’s in your DNA.

𝐋𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐍𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐜𝐲 ✧ 𝒴𝑜𝓊 𝒟𝑜𝓃’𝓉 𝐸𝓃𝓉𝑒𝓇 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝑅𝑜𝑜𝓂, 𝒴𝑜𝓊 𝒜𝓇𝑒 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝑅𝑜𝑜𝓂 A surname that carries weight, a presence that commands attention. You don’t need to introduce yourself—they already know who you are. You are not just a part of the industry, you are the industry.

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐅𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐀 𝐓𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐍𝐞𝐩𝐨 𝐁𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐞𝐬 ✧ 𝒴𝑜𝓊 𝒜𝓇𝑒 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝐸𝓅𝒾𝓉𝑜𝓂𝑒 They call it nepotism; you see it as destiny. Others build their way up—you simply exist, and that is enough. You are the face, the name, the icon they love to envy but secretly want to be.

𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐜𝐲 𝐁𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞 ✧ 𝒜 𝒩𝒶𝓂𝑒 𝒯𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝒫𝓇𝑒𝒸𝑒𝒹𝑒𝓈 𝒴𝑜𝓊 Before you enter, they already know who you are. Your name echoes through halls lined with portraits of those who came before you—legends in their own right. You are not just someone; you are the someone. A whispered last name, a gilded birthright.

𝐆𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐀𝐮𝐫𝐚 ✧ 𝒜 𝐿𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝐵𝑜𝓊𝓃𝒹 𝒷𝓎 𝒟𝑒𝓈𝓉𝒾𝓃𝓎 You don’t chase the spotlight; you are the spotlight. Born into its glow, bathed in its warmth, you move as if the world was molded to accommodate your presence. There is no effort, no struggle—only the quiet assurance of someone who has always belonged.

𝐈𝐧𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐆𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞 ✧ 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝒮𝓉𝒶𝓇 𝐵𝑜𝓇𝓃, 𝒩𝑒𝓋𝑒𝓇 𝑀𝒶𝒹𝑒 You walk like a goddess stepping down from Olympus, not striving for greatness but carrying it in your bones. The world may envy, but they cannot deny—you were crafted in privilege, sculpted by history, perfected by legacy.

𝐆𝐨𝐝𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐬-𝐂𝐚𝐫𝐯𝐞𝐝 ✧ 𝒜 𝐵𝑒𝒶𝓊𝓉𝓎 𝒯𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝐻𝑒𝓁𝒹 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝒲𝑜𝓇𝓁𝒹 𝒞𝒶𝓅𝓉𝒾𝓋𝑒 You were sculpted, not born. There is a symmetry to your face that whispers of divine hands, an elegance that does not fade with time but lingers, everlasting. You are the kind of beauty that artists dream of, that poets ruin themselves trying to capture in words.

𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞 𝐈𝐧𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐞 ✧ 𝒜 𝐿𝑜𝑜𝓀 𝒯𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝐿𝑒𝒻𝓉 𝑀𝑒𝓃 𝐵𝓇𝑜𝓀𝑒𝓃 They do not just admire you; they ache for you. A single glance could unravel kingdoms, a soft smile could start wars. It is not simply about how you look—it is about how you exist. An untouchable allure, an intoxicating presence, a beauty that is both a dream and a nightmare.

𝐆𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐆𝐥𝐨𝐰 ✧ 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝐿𝑒𝓃𝑔𝑒𝓃𝒹 𝒪𝒻 𝒴𝑜𝓊 Soft sunlight kissing dewy skin, eyes that hold the warmth of dawn. You move like honey dripped in slow motion, effortlessly radiant, eternally enchanting. They wonder if you were born under a rare star, if the universe paused to admire its own masterpiece the moment you were created.

𝐏𝐨𝐫𝐜𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐏𝐨𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐧 ✧ 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝒟𝒶𝓃𝑔𝑒𝓇 𝒪𝒻 𝒟𝑒𝓁𝒾𝒸𝒶𝒸𝓎 They call you delicate, fragile, a rose made of glass. But there is something dangerous about your beauty—something that makes them hesitate before reaching out. You are not just soft; you are sharp. A siren’s call wrapped in silk, a venom laced with sugar.

𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐢𝐭 𝐌𝐚𝐠𝐧𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐦 ✧ 𝒜 𝐿𝑜𝑜𝓀 𝒯𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝐻𝒶𝓊𝓃𝓉𝓈 You were made for the night, for dimly lit rooms and stolen glances. There is something haunting about you, something that lingers long after you have left. Perhaps it is the way your eyes hold secrets, or how your lips seem to whisper of forgotten lovers and midnight rendezvous.

𝐑𝐨𝐲𝐚𝐥 𝐁𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐲 ✧ 𝒜 𝐹𝒶𝒸𝑒 𝒲𝑜𝓇𝓉𝒽𝓎 𝒪𝒻 𝒞𝓇𝑜𝓌𝓃𝓈 Some beauties fade, but you belong to history. The kind of face that should be painted in oils, framed in gold, studied for centuries. You do not chase attention—it bends toward you, as if drawn by something beyond logic. You were meant to be adored, to be remembered.

𝐋𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐒𝐢𝐥𝐤 ✧ 𝒜 𝐹𝑒𝒶𝓈𝓉 𝐹𝑜𝓇 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝐸𝓎𝑒𝓈 Your beauty does not whisper—it strikes. It is electric, a force of nature, something that demands to be seen and felt. They do not just look at you; they experience you. The tilt of your chin, the way light dances on your skin—every detail is a masterpiece in motion.

𝐕𝐞𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐭 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐲 ✧ 𝒜 𝐿𝑜𝑜𝓀 𝒯𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝐵𝑒𝓉𝓇𝒶𝓎𝓈 𝒞𝑜𝓃𝓉𝓇𝑜𝓁 You are the moment they lost themselves, the distraction they never recovered from. There is something unfair about your beauty—something that makes them reckless, desperate. You are not just admired; you are worshipped. And you have always known it.

𝐄𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐄𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬 ✧ 𝒜 𝐿𝑜𝑜𝓀 𝒯𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝐷𝑜𝑒𝓈 𝒩𝑜𝓉 𝐵𝑒𝓁𝑜𝓃𝑔 𝒯��� 𝒯𝒽𝒾𝓈 𝒲𝑜𝓇𝓁𝒹 There is an otherworldly air to you, something untouchable, something that belongs to myths and fairy tales. They wonder if you are real or if they imagined you—a glimpse of divinity in a world too dull to deserve it. You are not just a beauty; you are a legend in the making.

✗⚬ﾒ𝟶

[lenaromanov]

"I assumed and nothing happened"..

⊹ ࣪ ˖ baby...sit, let me try to help.

WHAT THIS POST COVERS:

why you "assumed" and it "didn't work"

how you actually assume

what if your brain is overactive and "forcing you to check the 3d"? how to "fix" it

1. The Frustration of “I Assumed, But It’s Still Not Happening”

There it is. The frustration. The doubt creeping in, the whispered thought: But I did everything right. I assumed. I believed. And yet… nothing has changed.

You check the mirror—same face. You check your messages—no new texts from them. You check your reality—still the same, still ordinary, still not what you asked for.

And now, you’re wondering: Did I do something wrong? Did I mess it up? Is this all just fake, some elaborate trick I convinced myself of?

No, darling. You didn’t mess it up. But you are making one critical mistake:

You Never Actually Assumed. You Just Wished.

Let’s be honest with ourselves for a second. Did you assume… or did you hope? Did you decide it was yours… or did you wait to see proof before believing? Did you step into the mindset of someone who already has it… or did you just try to convince yourself for a few days and then panic when nothing changed?

Because here’s the thing—real assumption doesn’t waver.

It doesn’t wake up every morning checking for evidence like a nervous stock investor. It doesn’t crumble the second the 3D doesn’t instantly reflect back its desires. It doesn’t treat the unseen like it isn’t real.

If you planted a seed today, would you dig it up tomorrow to check if it’s growing? No. If you booked a flight for next week, would you panic every day, thinking, "What if the plane doesn’t exist?" No.

So why, when it comes to manifesting, do you refuse to trust?

2. What Real Assumption Actually Is

You don’t assume to “make” something happen. You assume because it’s already a fact.

Assumption is not:

A technique.

A method.

A way to “convince” reality to change.

Assumption is reality.

You aren’t trying to “believe” in something far away. You are stepping into what is already yours.

3. Step-by-Step Breakdown of How to Assume Properly

Step 1: Stop Trying to Control the 3D. The biggest mistake? You are still a slave to your senses.

You look for movement. You check your phone. You stare at your bank account. You analyze every little thing for signs that your manifestation is “working.”

And the second you don’t see proof? Doubt. Panic. Desperation.

Let me tell you something: The 3D is old news. What you see right now? It’s a reflection of your old thoughts, not your current assumptions.

Think of it like this: When you order something online, do you sit there anxiously refreshing the tracking page every five seconds? Do you assume it got lost in the mail just because it hasn’t arrived in an hour? No. You trust it’s coming.

Your manifestation works the same way.

You assume, and then you let go of the need to check.

Step 2: Become the Version of You That Already Has It. This is where most people mess up.

They say “I am rich,” but still panic when they check their bank balance. They say “I have shifted,” but still search for reality checks to confirm it. They say “I am loved,” but still stalk their SP’s social media, waiting for a sign.

So let me ask you: If you really had your desire right now, how would you act?

Would you be stressed about shifting if you had already shifted 100 times? Would you doubt your SP’s love if you were already together? Would you panic over money if you were already wealthy?

No. You would be calm. Certain. Done.

So do that now. Be that person now.

Stop acting like the version of you that doesn’t have it. Stop reacting to the 3D as if it holds any power over you. Stop feeding the version of you that still doubts.

Step 3: Make Your Assumption So Normal That You Forget You Even Wanted It. This is the part nobody talks about: Detachment is not forcing yourself to “let go.” Detachment is when you assume so deeply that you forget it was even something you desired in the first place.

Think about it:

Do you wake up every morning manifesting air to breathe? No, because you assume it’s always there. Do you worry about whether the sun will rise? No, because it’s just a fact of reality.

When you truly assume something, it becomes boring. You stop thinking about it constantly. You stop obsessing over when it will happen. You stop treating it like some miraculous event.

It just is. And when you reach that point? It manifests instantly.

4. Addressing the Persistent Doubters

Now, let’s talk about the people who are still unsure. Who feel stuck, who are thinking: "But what if it’s not working?"

Here’s the truth: If you’re still checking the 3D, you’re not fully assuming.

But Leonora I’m anxious! I can’t stop checking, it’s driving me mad! You’re not alone, and it’s okay. Let’s break it down, because we’re going to handle that right now.

Redirect Your Anxious Thoughts

Some of you can’t just stop overthinking. You try to suppress the thoughts, and they come back louder. So what do you do? You redirect them. Accept that anxiety is just an old habit.

Your brain has spent years, maybe even your whole life, doubting things. Expecting disappointment. Looking for evidence that things won’t work. Of course, it’s going to feel unnatural to just “assume.” You are rewiring years of conditioning. Your mind isn’t trying to sabotage you—it’s just clinging to what it knows. So when the thoughts come? Don’t panic. Don’t fight them. Just recognize them for what they are: old programming.

Say to yourself: “Ha, there it is. My brain trying to protect me with doubt again. That’s cute. But we’re doing things differently now.” Then move on. Don’t engage. Don’t spiral.

Use the “Lullaby” Technique

A super powerful trick for anxious minds:

Right before you fall asleep, affirm gently in your mind, like a lullaby. No intensity. No desperation. Just soft, sleepy, matter-of-fact affirmations. Example: “I already have it. It’s already mine. It’s happening so easily.”

Why does this work? Because your brain is most suggestible in that drowsy state. It absorbs things without resistance. If you do this consistently? Your subconscious will start to believe it on autopilot.

Give Your Mind a “Toy” to Play With

Your anxious brain is like a restless toddler. If you don’t give it something productive to focus on, it will cause chaos. So distract it. Give it a job. Instead of letting it spiral into doubt, tell it to focus on something that supports your assumption.

Daydream in extreme detail about having your desire. Write down your perfect reality like it’s already happened. Imagine a scene over and over until it feels realer than reality.

Your brain wants something to chew on. Feed it the right things.

Yes, your mind is loud. Yes, your doubts feel overwhelming. Yes, it’s hard to stop checking the 3D.

Change the Meaning of Checking the 3D

Some of you will check anyway. And that’s fine. But make it work for you.

If you look in the mirror and don’t see a change, say: “Well, that’s nice. That means the shift is happening behind the scenes.”

If you check your phone and don’t see a text, say: “Perfect. That means the next message will be exactly what I want.”

If you check your bank account and it’s not at 7 figures yet, say: “Obviously. The money is still finding its way to me in the best possible way.”

You get to assign meaning. So make it work in your favor.

Flood Your Brain with Certainty

Every time doubt comes up, respond with: “Oh, that’s funny. I literally already have it, though.” Say it with amusement. Laugh at how ridiculous the doubt is. Make assuming feel more normal than doubting.

5. The Final Truth: You Already Have It. Now Act Like It.

You’re still waiting for proof. That’s the problem. You wake up each morning and search for signs, watching the world like a detective looking for clues. You second-guess. You overthink. You try to “catch” reality shifting in your favor like it’s some slippery thing that might escape you.

But what if I told you that you already have it? No, not “on its way.” Not “manifesting in divine timing.” Now. Already. Yours.

Because the second you assume something is yours, it is. Your reality is shaped by your assumptions. You’re already living the life you assumed. The second you realize that, it will click.

And Here’s Your Final Reminder:

Stop waiting for proof. Stop doubting. Stop acting like your desires are fragile or out of reach.

You already have it. Now act like it.

Your mind, your doubts, your anxiety—none of it can stop you unless you let it. The second you stop chasing? That’s when everything shifts.

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how to make text in captions gradient or multicolored

I was asked by the lovely @an-idiot-in-a-trenchcoat​​ about how I got the gradient caption to this edit, so I decided to make a mini tutorial! This is my first time doing something like this so if there’s anything that’s confusing, feel free to send me an ask and I will do my best to clarify!

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Hi 👋🏼

So,I wanted to win a prize and I assumed I would win. 3d is showing me I didn't but I'm just saying "nope,i just won the prize,I can see my name on the poll".

Is that it? I guess this is what people call revision right?

I could be upset but fuck it,i want that prize so it's mine,idc.

Yup, that’s exactly it...you’re doing revision. Just keep sticking to your assumption, like, "Nope, I won, my name’s right there." Don’t let the 3D mess with you...cause it’s just catching up. Yk you’re in charge here, and if you’re saying you won, then you won. That "idc, it’s mine" energy is exactly what you need. Stay in that vibe and watch it shift. Screw what the 3D says right now...it’s yours. End of story. PERIODT...

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I am the one I desired and declare to be. I am all there is and there are no other gods,nothing outside of me greater than me. There's no outside power giving me things,I am giving myself the things I desired. I am reality. If there are infinity realities and I am in every single one of them than I can choose,like in a buffet,the ones I desired to experience, and keep choosing them until the they become my main reality.

No matter what the outside is showing. I'm the one in control. I am all there is.

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Another pic from my folder✨✨

By @keanotte

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The only video I saved before the ban.

Shifters, out of everyone, we will be fine.

Persist because your success is inevitable!

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SUCCESS STORY!!🤎🧸

tw//mental problems, abusive family, bullying, suicide attempt, manifest/void obsession

first of all i want to thank lotus because it helped me even when i was thinking about suicide❤️‍🩹

it's been years since I learned loa and I was having problems with the manifest. althought I have known loa for 2-3 years, i constantly reacted to 3D and for such reasons I could not manifest anything for 2-3 years. and when i first learned loa i was obsessed with void. I was hurting myself to enter void. like if you don't enter void today I will kill you. i was crazy because of void. at the same time, I was staying in the family environment that dragged me to death, and I was bullied at school . i was hated by people even though i did nothing. i tried to commit suicide many times, my family wouldn't let me go to the therapist. also, no one said anything to the bullying I saw. thats why I bullied myself for years in the same way. if I told anyone I was being bullied and asked for help, they would say it was probably my problem to my face💀💀 and towards the end of 2022, i seriously couldn't stand it anymore. i was constantly reading blogs [i think there is no blog i haven't read, lmao] and the last time i couldn't stand it, i tried suicide again, but i failed. later i wrote to lotus and she gave me a lot of advice (baby ily😩❤️) and i cried more than i have ever cried that night. the problem is that while people were already ruining me, the real problem was that i was ruining myself too. after that day, in the first week, i had so many problems in my manifest journey. but until 2023, i said to myself, "i don't want to live like this anymore. i deserve the life I want.” i made a promise. and every time I felt like quitting, i remembered my promise to myself. and now i have revised my whole life, i live in dubai🤭. if you're going to ask how i did this, i started to listen to my inner voice, i almost stopped entering tumblr. i stopped affirming and wrote down the things that i was gonna revise one by one, and added them to the notes app on my phone. i made a note at the bottom that I already have these in my life. when “what if I can't manifest the life I want?” if such thoughts came to my mind, i told myself that the creation was already finished. in this process, i focused only on myself and was developing my self concept. before I went to bed at night, i was constantly imagining the life I wanted and I was staying in that state and saying I already had the life I wanted, I didn't affirm anything extra. and even those who made life difficult for me started to apologize to me. (i manifested their karma life lol) anyway I don't want to talk more about those bitches but I want to mention this. please take a break. relax. stay away from things like void, loa for a few days. I noticed that some of you are obsessed with void on this blog. but i must say void is just a method. if i manifested the life i wanted when i was only 12-13 years old, you can do it too. take a break and do what feels good to you. love yourself. loa blogs can help you up to a point. they can't spare all their days for you. start taking responsibility. find manifest methods that work well for you. love yourself. meditate. i’ve talked a lot but I would like to add that, if someone tells you that you are the cause of the circumstances you are experiencing right now, that you created the conditions in which you live, please tell them to shut their fucking mouths. no such thing. i was blaming myself again, thinking what a disgusting monster i am just because this “you create ur reality” thingy. but the truth is that creation is already over. good luck!

MY FAV SUCCESS STORY TO EXIST!!!! 😭

I literally cried when this girl texted me saying she is living her dream life, I was so pround, I am pround 💗

Backstory, she first texted me 12/15/2022

She told me everything about her circumstances, they were really bad ones, and she was 12 at time and this made my heart so broken (she revised her age) since her parents were really toxic and disgusting ( I am not going to say much about her old story).

So I told her all about the toxic home I lived and how I manifested it away too (my success, my failures).

So, time passed and 01/feb I got this text!

I literally cried because I was so happy for herrrr 💗😭😭

"How she did it?"

She focused in her inner Self being the only reality and ignored all circumstances!

"and i would love to you to add those youtubers and blogs" insta: - kriston jackson youtube: - lana blakely tumblr: - @becomingthatgirl111 — other sources abt loa: - joe dispenza, edward art"

I literally cried so much and I am so happy for you my angel, look how you did it! You were 12 and revised your whole life! 💗💗💗

And that are people out there who don't believe that it is possible to manifest things. Look at this girl 💓

You did it amazing love, I am so pround of you. You are deserving of all the best things in the world. I wish you all the fun in life. Thank you sm for sending me this, I feel so appreciated that I had helped you, but who did all of this was YOU! 💗💗💗

✉️You all, everything is possible!

[lenaromanov]

Vale of Tears Alice: Madness Returns (2011) dev. Spicy Horse

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🧘🏽‍♀️

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End of the world vibes. What a year to be alive.

California, 2025

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Sims 3

Chance To Learn Teen Hangout Mod

● Did you know that there's a mechanic in the game with which your teen Sim can learn the current teen hangout in town from another teen? Probably not, because silly EA set the chance to learn this to 0. This tiny tuning mod will enable this function in your game.

● Additional information can be found on the download pages.

DOWNLOAD: MODTHESIMS | SIMBLR.CC

[lenaromanov]

I hope Nael knows their poem made me cry