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I think it’s cute that thing humans do when they see a boat pass and the people on the boat wave at them and they wave back. For absolutely no reason. They don’t know each other they’re not trying to communicate anything other than “LOOK! I am on a boat!!! Hello!!!!” “I see you!!!! On the boat!!!! Hello!!!!!!!!!!” in a genuine moment of wholesome human connection and excitement.

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you’re allowed to have emotions that aren’t positive!!! you’re allowed to feel angry or jealous or sad or frustrated or annoyed. emotions are normal and healthy, but it’s up to you to decide what to do with them.

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💕I love the outback mamas 💕 The way they carry their babes is a really cute attention to detail.

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💕I love the outback mamas 💕 The way they carry their babes is a really cute attention to detail.

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you know what? im gunna say it

my trauma didnt make me a better or stronger person and i shouldnt have to act like it did to be taken seriously

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Wild strawberry

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there’s not really much discussion of child neglect on here so i guess i have to do it

p l e a s e don’t shame neglect survivors for not knowing “basic” things like how to eat a balanced diet, when to go to the doctor, how to drive, etc. you know these things (usually) because a caring adult taught them to you. we didn’t have that. we often enter adulthood knowing jack shit about how to take care of ourselves. we know we’re missing information, and we feel so fucking lost.

it’s okay to, if you have a friend who’s experienced neglect, try and help them learn how to take care of themselves. saying things like “hey, do you think you could try to eat at least one vegetable per day?” or “that infection looks pretty bad, do you want to go to a doctor?” is genuinely helpful. but belittling us for not already knowing these things is completely unproductive and unnecessarily cruel.

don’t be a dick to survivors.

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adults in fandom spaces. (some of whom have kids of their own): *use their relative power to belittle, bully and abuse the kids they share those spaces with*

those same adults: why do all these whiny little brats hate us so much? didn’t mommy and daddy teach you any manners, you fucking infant?

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by Will Swann

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i thought my mom put a gargoyle on our porch for a minute and then i realized

our cat is just very dedicated to being as creepy as fucking possible

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reblog if AAAAAAAAA

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@Kaydenroo