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1. Allows her to her decide who will drive, whether on the road, or in the bedroom.

2. A clean home and good personal hygiene are high priorities for him.

3. Is very respectful towards all women, but only worships his Domme, putting her above all others.

4. Doesn’t expect his Domme to be a fetish dispenser for his kinks.

5. Can cook delicious, healthy meals and is always willing to try new recipes.

6. Tries to remain electronically available to his Domme at all times and physically available, job permitting.

7. Fiercely defends his Domme’s honor if someone talks about her behind her back.

8. Makes her feel worshipped, loved, and wanted the most when she is at her worst.

9. Allows her to make the rules for their relationship and fully accepts the consequences for breaking them.

10. Expresses his desire for her but never expects her to have sex with him.

11. Would rather lay around and fantasize about his Domme than ever watch porn.

12. Is eager to learn how to pleasure his Domme better instead of assuming his technique is good enough.

13. He keeps no secrets from her, informing her of his thoughts, his actions, and his feelings regularly.

14. Knows that his Domme will need aftercare too, and ensures she gets it.

15. Isn’t too proud to beg and grovel, and will do so if he knows that she enjoys it.

16. Understands his own need to submit and is comfortable remaining in a submissive role.

17. Is content being entirely sexually dependant on her while accepting her right to sexual independance.

18. Appreciates her dressing sexy for him but never expects it. His submission to her doesn’t change with her clothing choices.

19. Understands the male ego can be a detriment to her authority and accepts whatever steps she takes to diminish it in a harmless way(loving humiliation).

20. Informs her once of his kinks and desires then lets her decide if these should be included in their relationship. He never pushes them on her.

21. He is service oriented and one of his main goals in life is to make his Domme’s life easier. He allows her to decide the division of labor in the household.

22. Reassures his Domme often that her authority is accepted, respected, and wanted.

23. He helps her build and strengthen her dominance. He knows that acting bratty too often can make his Domme question her authority over him which detracts from their female-led relationship.

24. Allows her to speak for the couple and lead their conversations in public. He never contradicts her, projecting to all others a strong, united front on any subject. If he disagrees about something, it will be discussed later in private.

25. Remains sober at parties to be the designated driver so that his Domme may indulge herself.

26. Once absolute trust is established between them, he accepts her physical restraints or confinements without question or hesitation.

27. Gives her his complete, undivided attention with eyes on her whenever she speaks, unless it is unsafe to do so (while driving).

28. Knows his worth and doesn’t need constant reassurance to feel secure in the relationship.

29.  Accepts her discipline amiably when she decides he needs it and thanks her afterwards for teaching him to be a better sub.  

30. Knows how to use his safe-words and safe-gestures confidently so that his Domme doesn’t have to worry constantly about pushing him too far. He knows and expresses his hard-limits.

31. He isn’t ashamed to cry or show emotion while alone with her.  

32. Accepts her teasing and humiliations genially as long as it isn’t harmful to his long term self image.

33. Does chores the way his Domme wants them done, even if it isn’t the best or most efficient way.    

34. Never uses sarcasm when he speaks to anyone, ever.

35. He knows that his Domme is human too, and will make mistakes while leading their relationship. He will respectfully accept her apologies and never hold them against her, assuming she learned from her mistakes.

36. If something in the relationship is really bothering him, he will ask for a meeting on equal terms and discuss the issue with his Domme in a calm, respectful manner, instead of keeping it to himself and secretly resenting her for it.

37. Knows that masturbation is bad for their relationship as it diminishes his desire for her and tries to curb it himself. He accepts any measures she takes to ensure it can’t happen (chastity).

38. Would happily forgo penetrative sex so that she wouldn’t have to remain on birth control if that is what’s best for her.

39. Always puts his Domme’s wants and needs first, but graciously   accepts when she decides the opposite.

40. Respects his Domme’s privacy and what goes on between them, stays between them.

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