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“Live the life you’d be envious of if you saw someone else living it. This is my personal mantra. Whenever I’m going through a difficult time, like a breakup, and I’m wishing to be the person who could get over it and move on, I tell myself to be that person. Instead of waiting to be inspired by someone else and being jealous that they’re living a life I wish I had, I tell myself not to wait for that moment and to start being the person I want to be. If you wish you were the woman who went for that big promotion, learned a second language, dumped that guy who cheated on you, then just be that person. Think, if I have the energy to wish for it, I have the energy to do it.”

— Olivia Munn

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Reblog if it's okay to befriend you, ask questions, ask for advice, rant, vent, let something off your chest, or just have a nice chat.

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An Abandoned Swingset

Oh, mother, I don't want to grow up

Am too fragile to fight the regrets

Am too small to face myself

The world outside

Is just in vain

It is helpless, crippled and dismayed

It is not a good place to live in

But we still fight ourselves to fit in

The innocence in us is lost

Destroyed by the greed of wanting all

The playful child that wanted no harm

Is now willing to kill for the all he wants

We are drowning in our sins

the murderous smiles have us fooling

The demons in us are more afraid

The good in us is fading away

Turning us into something none ever wanted

Yet; we can't help it

No, I don't want to grow up

I want to be a harmless kid

Whom no one hates

I can't be those creatures

Who has done nothing but just spread the bad

and died,

Even hating themselves

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“You don’t ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life. It doesn’t matter whether someone is a relative, romantic interest, employer, childhood friend, or a new acquaintance - you don’t have to make room for people who cause you pain or make you feel small. It’s one thing if a person owns up to their behaviour and makes an effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings, ignores your boundaries, and “continues” to treat you in a harmful way, they need to go.”

— Daniell Koepke

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Shout out to subs:

- that need a lil extra hip support when they’re getting fucked.

- that press their inhaler into their dom’s hand before they swallow them down.

- that have aftercare plans including getting their blood glucose levels checked.

- who live with chronic pain but still beg to be slapped around.

- who wear headphones not for the deprevation but to prevent sensory overstimulation.

- who can’t be penetrated but still are a perfect toy.

Shout out to the subs who have altered care plans, modified scenes and who tell a punk ass dom to fuck off if they don’t wanna pay attention to their needs.

[DETRANS AND OTHER BIOESSENTIALISM KINKS DO NOT TOUCH MY POST]

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Sadly, my person tuned into a different station...

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#resolutions

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And the stockings were hung, by the chimney with care..

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