kuiperselfshipper

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Self shippers.

We need to relearn the balance between not wanting to share your f/o and accepting that there will be other people out there who also ship with your f/o. I've been around a long time and I'm seeing people slipping back into this mindset of hating "doubles" (tbh I don't even like the use of that word for people who share an f/o) and not only that, but getting upset at others who may support that ship as well. You may not want to hear this, but it is selfish to expect a friend to cut ties with one of their other friends only because that other friend of theirs has the same f/o as you. Self ship "doubles" are not out to take away your f/o or be more popular than you, they just want to enjoy themselves as much as you do.

Block and move on, put tags and urls on your filtered content, write out your angry thoughts in a word doc or to a close friend. But please try to be a bit kinder. This is a community based on love. Remember that.

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selfshippers who parallel play with their f/o !!!

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happy holidays to all the polyam selfshippers, to those who celebrate and those who doesn't, whether it's a spacial day or just another normal day for you

i hope yall are having a wonderful time with your FOs <3

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do you have an f/o who you have fankids with?

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Was just diagnosed with “need to bite you” disorder. Yeah sorry it’s terminal. The only cure is biting you. C’mere.

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now i raise you: selfshipper who wants their f/o so bad it makes them look stupid

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i saw this post on twitter and i was just like Yeah this definitely applies to me

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Shout out to everyone who is celebrating Christmas for the first time with your F/O's! I'm sure it will be great!

P.roship blogs DNI

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That new thing you just bought? Your f/o actually bought it for you. They took the time to make sure it was something you'd really like! No matter the price, they don't mind spending money on you.

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Tag your selfship

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So I was wondering...

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This is my mind when I look at them

Found this on pinterest btw

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btw ur allowed to take ur selfship as seriously or as unseriously as u like. as long as it’s good for u and it makes u happy, u can do whatever u want. it’s not “too much” <3

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My fankids..... my children... must draw must post...

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LET SELF SHIPPING IGNITE YOUR EXCITEMENT TO LEARN AND CREATE! I NOW KNOW WAAAAY TOO MUCH ABOUT BEARS AND BEGAN MAKING ART AND STORIES SERIOUSLY AGAIN AND GETTING INTO ZINE MAKING AND EXCITED TO GO OUT AND EXPLORE AND LEARN ABOUT NATURE BECAUSE OF MY F/O. LET SELF SHIPPING HAVE A HEALTHY GRASP ON YOUR SOUL

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i love new selfshippers and i love that selfship is getting more normalized. welcome everybody. we're all character kissers here. let's have fun!

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i think selfshippers should really take advantage of actor aus like there's so much untapped potential. your f/o was just acting whatever their story was and after a long day of shooting they come home to you. maybe you're also an actor, you're playing your s/i. doing an interview with your partner about your characters. maybe you met on set. just... so much fun ideas with actor au and your f/o never has to actually get hurt.