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[koriandrismywife]

i don't know how to make this post without crying and feeling a great deal of shame, but last year my identity was stolen and it didn't impact first year of schooling because i already had the funds. this year however, it affected my ability to accept a credit score based loan for school.

i need to raise the funds to clear the card that was stolen when my identity was stolen as a step in being able to continue my graduate program.

i know there is so much going on right now, too much and too little for people to be able to do to help. but i'm scared. i am trying other avenues to be able to continue my education, but i have gone no contact with much of my family for my own safety.

if you are able to donate even a little bit, i would be so, so grateful.

[koriandrismywife]

i don't know how to make this post without crying and feeling a great deal of shame, but last year my identity was stolen and it didn't impact first year of schooling because i already had the funds. this year however, it affected my ability to accept a credit score based loan for school.

i need to raise the funds to clear the card that was stolen when my identity was stolen as a step in being able to continue my graduate program.

i know there is so much going on right now, too much and too little for people to be able to do to help. but i'm scared. i am trying other avenues to be able to continue my education, but i have gone no contact with much of my family for my own safety.

if you are able to donate even a little bit, i would be so, so grateful.

[koriandrismywife]

And what if I say I'm still not over Dick Grayson's inability to imagine a world — his world — without Koriand'r?

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« How lucky I was. 😍 » - Brenton Thwaites about famous co star Mame-Anna Diop.

He’s a menace to humanity! I was trying to heal you bastard!🥹

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Dick & Kory’s Love Languages

So I did a little mini meta on Twitter about what I think Dick and Kory’s love languages are so why not share it with my folks!

Kory is emotionally intelligent and she can really hit all five languages depending on who she is with but her personal languages are physical touch and acts of service.

In s1 Kory immediately goes into protector mode when she rescues Rachel. She not only uses physical touch to show affection but also her physical power. The duality of her physical whether to heal or to harm is displayed throughout the season.

Although it wasn’t her intention to sleep with Dick that night, he used physical touch as avoidance while she used it in hopes that it would open him up emotionally.

After the physical trauma of being experimented on in the asylum, she turns to the physical touch of someone she trusts to combat the feelings of being violated.

In s2 she used her physical powers to heal Conner and her AOS Language came fully into play when she left her own problems behind to help the titans and Dick.

In s3 She’s now fully comfortable with her new family and uses touch a lot to comfort Gar. She hugs Hank immediately when she sees him. She also uses her physicality to show Conner her frustration. She also heals Dick by stitching up his wounds. (This was the only time they interacted physically 🙃) And steps in front of him to protect him from Gar’s anger.

In s4 her tendency for physical touch is highly utilized. Now she’s completely cemented her position as co-head of the family. She’s comfortable. She’s touching Dick whenever she can. To flirt, to calm him down, to stabilize herself. She’s hugging everyone all the time.

Whereas Dick’s love language is firmly placed in acts of service. It took until s4 for him to even be emotionally available enough to delve into the other placements but that’s fine because one thing you can count on is Dick showing up for you to give or get you what you need.

In s1 he drops everything to protect and help Rachel once she re-enters his life. He tries to find better help for her than him but realizes it’s ultimately best for him and Kory to do it. He uses all of his abilities and connections to do this.

This continues in s2 when he feels like he can’t protect his friends any longer he makes the decision to go to jail. He is the person they need protection from, therefore he will remove himself from the situation no matter how bad it hurts him.

In s3 he tries to do everything in his power, including to continue to sacrifice himself to save Jason, protect his family, and Gotham. Kory and Gar remind him that sacrificing hisself is not the way to go about it and it takes him dying for that to really sink in because he’s crazy. But yes.

In s4 he does everything he can and uses ALL of his resources to help everyone to fight this prophecy and their destiny. His efforts are a bit futile because his lesson was to learn to trust. Trust that Kory knows how to defeat this evil, that Rachel can control her darkness, that Gar has control over his abilities, that Conner will ultimately do good, that Tim can stand on his own. By providing them the tools he was able to help and not just be the tool. He also explored quality time with the road-trip plan in general which is Gar’s love language.

The thing to remember about love languages is to love the other person in theirs and not yours. Dick and Kory learned this overtime together. Kory gives the ultimate act of service in sacrificing her life for Dick everyone. Which is a language he can completely understand.

Dick shows up physically for Kory everywhere. Being her literally shoulder to lean on when she’s feeling weak. Now he could’ve done a bit more with this emotionally but well let him cook for now. And finally once he realizes what he could’ve lost shows her exactly how he feels in that final kiss. He’s no longer using affection to deflect or escape but to express.

So what do we think their languages are? Feel free to add on. I’m going to add the other team members as well!

[koriandrismywife]

Everytime Brenton speaks highly of Anna and their bond and time as scene partners I just lose every bit of sense. I love how much adoration and respect they have for each other over the years. I fear there will never be another like them 😭 and it’s brutally unfair we didn’t get to see more of them! I love them so much 🥹

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TITANS – Titans Forever (S04E12) ››› Mame-Anna Diop as Koriand'r / Starfire ››› Brenton Thwaites as Dick Grayson / Nightwing

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when i see a pretty boy i just need 2 know what he looks like w the shit beaten out of him

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Dick Grayson really went from, 'I can't take care of a kid' to 'road-trip Dad' to '😭my kids are leaving the nest😭' to ' let's make babies' 😂😂😂

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT

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I would’ve obviously loved to have seen more but I loved this ending for dickkory. Happy, young and in love. 💙💜💙💜💙💜

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The show I’ve been totally incapable of being normal about for the past 5 years came to an end today. I know it sounds dramatic, it’s just a show after all, but it really does feel like saying goodbye to a dear friend (a group of them in fact). It was also the end of an era for me, the last superhero show that I can honestly say I was fully invested in. I’m sure others will come along that I’ll enjoy perfectly fine, but not like this. It will never be like this again. I just want to thank everyone involved with this show from the bottom of my heart. It’s been a helluva ride 🥲

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Super Model Kory Anders and Photographer Donna Troy spotted in New York City🛍️

Closeup 📸

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TW!! DEATH + Negligent Officers

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The very best email in the universe is [AO3] Comment on ________

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Co-Chair Michaela Coel at the 2023 Met Gala

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Not Ted & Carol but a cute couple anyway! 💜💙

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Memories, huh? The more painful, the better.