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Enmu: Ooh, I haven’t been to the theatre in years!

Muzan: And you’re not going to anytime soon. We don’t want a repeat of the Starlight Express incident.

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Someone just unfriended me on tt cause I drew 𝓕𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓴𝔂 stuff (it was all legal)

I guess that's just their preference, even though it seems ridiculous

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I love this fictional man more than some people love their actual partners

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This is the second time I've seen a post about Polish ads here WHAT'S GOING ON?

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♡~F/O Ask Game~♡

💗F/O talkin' about S/I💗

Made by @jenny-in-space

🌺 What's something you do you do to show affection towards S/I? (Can be answered multiple times)

🎤 Can S/I sing? How good is it?

🌠 what's a promise you made to S/I that you intend to keep? (Can be answered more than once)

🪄 Does S/I have any talents you find impressive? What are they?

🍽 Does S/I like your cooking?

🌡 How do you help S/I when they're sick? Do they let you help?

💌 Something sweet S/I has said to you. (Can be answered more than once)

🎡 Is S/I afraid of heights? If so, did they tell you or did you figure it out yourself.

🏖 where is an ideal vacation spot you want to take S/I to?

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I have a broken sense of humor, I know it

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Koku in the back being typical Koku

Muzan has been working too much, he falls asleep while standing...

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WARNING!!!!

People, please be careful. There are also people tracking children and people and putting bids on them based on their profile pictures on whatsapp, tracking and kidnapping them. Especially young children, so please be cautious, especially parents who have their children as their profile pictures.

Please pass this on to everyone so that they are aware of the danger. I don’t how it is all around the world but I know it can’t just be here so please please spread the word. Thank you.

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This sounds like fun!

F/O takeover game!

If you don’t know what a takeover is, it’s basically you ‘takeover’ your own blog as a character/person/etc!

romantic | platonic | familial

🌅How did you two meet?

🎟Who confessed? What was it like?

🤟Who said “I love you” first? What was it like?

💋Who initiated the first kiss? What was it like?

🎢What was the first date like?

💝Does S/I have experience dating?

💬You have any pet names for S/I?

🗯Is S/I expressive with their feelings?

🏠Have you met the parents?

👋Are you close with S/I friends?

🏢Do you two live together?

🛌Do you share a room/bed?

🌃Who’s the heavier sleeper if either of you are?

💤Does S/I have a hard time sleeping? How do you help them out?

💞How cuddly is S/I? What cuddling position you two like the most?

🖤Is S/I more affectionate in public or private?

❗️Is S/I shy about affection? (kisses, hugs, etc)

🥄Does S/I like being taken care of?

���Do you like teasing each other?

💢If you could describe S/I with a dere type, which one(s) would it be?

🥰What is S/I’s love language?

📢Does S/I have any quirks to them? If so, how do you feel about it?

🐶Do you two have a pet? Do you want one?

🔆What’s your favorite hobby to do together?

👕Does S/I like taking/wearing your clothes?

🎂It’s S/I’s birthday! What gift do you get them?

🎶Do you two have a theme song aka a song that describes your relationship?

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Dating Tsukasa Aesthetic

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Some of Rion's best moments (HnY Manga)

Eating Takechiyo

Glaring while clinging to Riku

Eating Takechiyo's ear again

Actually, they had her try to eat Takechiyo several times (at least she's going for the tail to spice it up)

Laughing at Riku

This moment (even though I feel sorry for Kirinmaru, having this comment made about him)

This comment

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I don't mean any drama by reblogging this, but by saying "you cannot reblog my post and also include other ace's experiences" is also being exclusive. Before jumping at a further reply, please read the rest of what I have to say. In my own personal experiences being asexual, I have had the opposite happen to me -- as in that because I was not repulsed by the topic of sex or imaginative sexual fantasies that I was not asexual. My irl experiences and lack of attraction towards people irl have been invalidated by multiple people just because in the scheme of some fictional characters or "celebrity crushes" that I have engaged in sexual thoughts. I have been told so many times for over a decade now that if I think sexually of anyone that I am not asexual and that I just have to "lower my standards" or to "learn to love a man for his personality and then he'll be attractive physically". I do apologise that because your experiences were not the same that my reblog made your or any sex-repulsed ace feel invalidated or demeaned. I don't know what you experienced, and likewise, even if you might view where I sit on the ace spectrum as the "accepted way to be ace", you don't know my experiences either. When you post something online, everyone has the right to share and communicate with the post. By saying "you can't do this"/"you can't say this" because it feels conflicting to you on what you wrote, you're inherintely limiting conversation, limiting speech, and even outing other members of the queer community.

It has taken years for asexuals to even feel a bit of acceptance in the queer community as a whole, and for all of us, regardless of how we experience our sexual orientation, we have been invalidated and cast out by many. Because we weren't "queer enough" and are just "traumatised", "scared", "immature", etc. This still happens today, and is why there needs to be solidarity in the ace community. Now, you may say that such a thing is why you made the post, because you were told "you aren't asexual" by people who experience this orientation differently. But, how is further segregation of who can/who cannot reblog/comment/discuss/share your post going to lead to greater solidarity, understanding, and acceptance in both the ace and queer communities? By reblogging your post and sharing my own impressions that came, I did not say that your post was wrong. I did not say that you couldn't have the experiences you did. I did not mock your experiences. Instead, reblogs that are civil and promoting sharing are intented to validate everyone's experience and to form community. As much as I don't think that division and silence is the answer, if you don't want me, as someone who does not experience asexuality in the same way as you do to interact, comment, and converse with your posts, please block me, because even if I don't follow you, I might see your content again on my feed.

In honour of ace week, and because I don't hear it enough:

REPULSED ASEXUALS EXISTS AND ARE AS VALID AS OTHERS

IT'S OK TO BE DISGUSTED BY SEX

IT'S OK TO NEVER WANTING TO DO IT

VIRGIN ISNT AN INSULT

YOU DON'T NEED AN EXCUSE TO NOT LIKING OR WANTING IT

SEX ISN'T WHAT MAKES US HUMAN

IT ISN'T VITAL

IT'S NOT SHAMEFUL TO NEVER DO IT

YOU DON'T NEED TO "TRY IT" TO KNOW THAT YOU HATE IT

IT'S NOT CHILDISH TO BE GROSSED OUT BY IT

IT'S FINE IF YOU'RE UNCOMFORTABLE WHEN PEOPLE TALK ABOUT IT

IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT AND PEOPLE SHOULD RESPECT YOUR BOUNDARIES

YOU ARE NOT BROKEN EVEN IF PEOPLE INSIST THAT YOU ARE

FUCK APHOBES AND FUCK PEOPLE WHO MAKE FUN OF PEOPLE WHO HATE SEX

YOU AREN'T ANY LESS VALID

WHEN SOMEONE IS BEING APHOBIC, INSTEAD OF SAYING "BUT SOME ACES DO ENJOY SEX", SAY "IT ISN'T AN ISSUE NOT WANTING IT"

YOU ARE SO VALID IF YOU ARE A REPULSED ACE PLEASE NEVER FORGET THAT!!!!

PEOPLE ARE JUST BEING CREEPS IF THEY INSIST THAT YOU MUST DO IT

IT'S OK IF YOU'RE NOT THE STEREOTYPICAL "ASEXUAL WHO WRITES SMUT AND MAKES SEX JOKES"

IT'S OK SKIPPING UNCOMFORTABLE SCENES IN MOVIES AND SHOWS

IT'S OK TO NEVER DO IT IN YOUR LIFE

THE WHOLE "OLD PERSON WITH CATS" ISNT EVEN AN INSULT CUZ IT SOUNDS DOPE AF NGL

ALSO IT'S OK TO BE MAD WHEN YOU HEAR PEOPLE CLAIMING HOW GOOD SEX IS AND ALL THE "IT'S HEALTHY" BULLSHIT BECAUSE NO YOU'RE NOT GOING TO DIE EARLIER BECAUSE YOU DON'T DO IT

ALSO ITS NOT A SHAMEFUL THING TO NOT DO ANYTHING YOURSELF EITHER

AND ITS ALSO OK IF YOU EVEN STRUGGLE TO SPELL SOME WORDS OUT BECAUSE OF YOUR REPULSION

IF YOU'RE AN ADULT YOU'RE VALID AND YOU DON'T NEED TO DO IT IN ORDER TO BE VALID AS AN ADULT

YOU'RE NOT MISSING OUT ON ANYTHING

YOU ARE QUEER ENOUGH !! YOU DESERVE A PLACE IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY, AND YOUR VOICE DESERVES TO BE HEARD!!

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+ engaging in fictional/hypothetical sexual topics like sex jokes, smut, sex as a fantasy doesn't mean that you aren't ace when it cones to real life physical interactions.

You aren't "in denial" or "not really asexual" just because you enjoy the concept of sex in a non-real environment.

In honour of ace week, and because I don't hear it enough:

REPULSED ASEXUALS EXISTS AND ARE AS VALID AS OTHERS

IT'S OK TO BE DISGUSTED BY SEX

IT'S OK TO NEVER WANTING TO DO IT

VIRGIN ISNT AN INSULT

YOU DON'T NEED AN EXCUSE TO NOT LIKING OR WANTING IT

SEX ISN'T WHAT MAKES US HUMAN

IT ISN'T VITAL

IT'S NOT SHAMEFUL TO NEVER DO IT

YOU DON'T NEED TO "TRY IT" TO KNOW THAT YOU HATE IT

IT'S NOT CHILDISH TO BE GROSSED OUT BY IT

IT'S FINE IF YOU'RE UNCOMFORTABLE WHEN PEOPLE TALK ABOUT IT

IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT AND PEOPLE SHOULD RESPECT YOUR BOUNDARIES

YOU ARE NOT BROKEN EVEN IF PEOPLE INSIST THAT YOU ARE

FUCK APHOBES AND FUCK PEOPLE WHO MAKE FUN OF PEOPLE WHO HATE SEX

YOU AREN'T ANY LESS VALID

WHEN SOMEONE IS BEING APHOBIC, INSTEAD OF SAYING "BUT SOME ACES DO ENJOY SEX", SAY "IT ISN'T AN ISSUE NOT WANTING IT"

YOU ARE SO VALID IF YOU ARE A REPULSED ACE PLEASE NEVER FORGET THAT!!!!

PEOPLE ARE JUST BEING CREEPS IF THEY INSIST THAT YOU MUST DO IT

IT'S OK IF YOU'RE NOT THE STEREOTYPICAL "ASEXUAL WHO WRITES SMUT AND MAKES SEX JOKES"

IT'S OK SKIPPING UNCOMFORTABLE SCENES IN MOVIES AND SHOWS

IT'S OK TO NEVER DO IT IN YOUR LIFE

THE WHOLE "OLD PERSON WITH CATS" ISNT EVEN AN INSULT CUZ IT SOUNDS DOPE AF NGL

ALSO IT'S OK TO BE MAD WHEN YOU HEAR PEOPLE CLAIMING HOW GOOD SEX IS AND ALL THE "IT'S HEALTHY" BULLSHIT BECAUSE NO YOU'RE NOT GOING TO DIE EARLIER BECAUSE YOU DON'T DO IT

ALSO ITS NOT A SHAMEFUL THING TO NOT DO ANYTHING YOURSELF EITHER

AND ITS ALSO OK IF YOU EVEN STRUGGLE TO SPELL SOME WORDS OUT BECAUSE OF YOUR REPULSION

IF YOU'RE AN ADULT YOU'RE VALID AND YOU DON'T NEED TO DO IT IN ORDER TO BE VALID AS AN ADULT

YOU'RE NOT MISSING OUT ON ANYTHING

YOU ARE QUEER ENOUGH !! YOU DESERVE A PLACE IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY, AND YOUR VOICE DESERVES TO BE HEARD!!

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Scarlate, how your words resonate with me and this is why I am so glad whenever I see others on the ace spectrum speak about their experiences. We deserve just as much respect as anyone else on this planet. We shouldn't have to lower our standards or move into a relationship just because someone wants us to, or because of societal pressure. As an agender person myself, I can understand too how romantic relationships with most often hint towards a very uncomfortable power dynamic, a game that I do not want to play and that I do not feel respected playing. It's important for those who are not on the ace spectrum to know that our sexual orientation is not one of trauma or fear. We just don't feel sexual attraction, or in the cases of some of us (grey asexuals) we feel it very sparingly. It's not because of trauma and fear that I'm not attracted to Person A or Person B or Person C, it's my own self's natural feelings. To say that I should be attracted to at least one of these people is to say that heterosexual men should be attracted to all women, as an example. But you wouldn't say it in that case, because those who experience the socially-accepted levels of desire are free to not experience it. Attraction can't be forced, and when people try to force it, it leads to nothing but pain and unfairness. People who identify in the asexual spectrum are not "broken", we are not "missing out", we are not "prudes" or any of the other lables society likes to paint us with. We are following our bodies and our instincts in this regard the same as everyone else.

Coming out as asexual

Coming out as Asexual

Hi, my name is Scarlate Altitude, and I'm 54 years old. I don't use Tumblr often, but I want to share something with you. I came out as an asexual person a long time ago and discovered my identity. If I hadn't discovered it as a child, I would probably have been asexual since then. That's why I don't have many friends or followers on this blog. Here, I'll share all my experiences as an asexual and other things. I know it's difficult; I'm not frequently on these sites. This isn't the first or last time I'll use this blog. People pressure me to be in relationships with people who probably won't respect me. I won't comply or convince them that I've stopped being asexual. On this Tumblr site, I see an asexual community, but I'm also aromantic and don't have romantic relationships. If I were in a relationship, it wouldn't last more than five days. I'm not sad; I don't care if this blog doesn't have likes or subscriptions. I'm a person whose sexual desire has been taken away by asexuality, but it doesn't matter. I'm proud to have an ideal paradise for myself where I'm respected - a safe place called the Asexual Paradise. I've come out as asexual and feel proud. People tell me to stop being asexual, but I don't want physical contact with anyone. I see people, but obviously, I say no. It's not that I'm afraid of love; I just don't feel sexual or romantic attraction. As an agénero, asexual, and aromantic person, people should respect my identity.

I've come out as asexual, agénero, and aromantic and feel proud. People tell me to stop being asexual, but I don't want physical contact with anyone. I see people, but obviously, I say no. It's not that I'm afraid of love; I just don't feel sexual or romantic attraction. As an agénero, asexual, and aromantic person, I deserve respect, understanding, and acceptance.

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Imagine you and your f/o resting your foreheads against one another's, gazing into each other's loving eyes, maybe cupping each others cheeks, just enjoying a peaceful moment together.

proship/comship/neutral DNI

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Mine wouldn't 💀all he does is sleep

your f/o lies awake at night thinking about you

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He could probably make some really efficient cleaners with all of his chemistry knowledge, and the same goes for food (but please don't poison it, Muzan!) because cooking is kind of just flavour chemistry.

Need to wife up Muzan SOOO bad

Like housewife this man, he stays home and he cooks and cleans 😼😼😼😼😼