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Yeah those Trump era safety regulations cuts are really working out for all of us.

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Do you want a packer?

Do you have not the faintest idea where to start?

Check out the Every FTM Packer Ever database that I made!

Currently there are over 300 prosthetics in the database. I have listed the Type, Creator, Item Name, Level of realism, Color Options, Size Options, if it's cut or uncut, Stroker style (when applicable), STP style (when applicable), Material, Density, Special Features, Average price (in USD), Creator official site (linked), Other Vendors, Originating Location, Shipping to, and any special Notes. I only included companies and prosthetics which are still available (so no FreeToM and no older models like Peecock Gen2)

You can use filters to organize, refine, and sort by your preferred search criteria.

Please take a look and let me know if I missed anything or if you have any suggestions to improve it

I hope it helps someone!

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i hate to be that guy, but the idea that gender, sex, and sexuality are ontologically pure concepts that can be rigidly defined if we simply police our language enough (our english language, because of course) is—i cannot stress this enough—a total waste of time. you may as well spend your afternoons teaching a brick how to swim

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arguments that r no longer allowed in the “cAn TrAnS mEn Be LeSbIaNs” debate:

- but what about cis men (if a cis man feels a connection to lesbianism he’s probably not a cis man)

- they’re invalidating themselves (do u think trans men are stupid)

- lesbian is nonmen loving nonmen (literally a tumblr definition from like 2014)

- trans MASCS can but not trans MEN (there is no objective line between man and masc)

- trans men are just trying to invade lesbian spaces!!!!!!!!! (terf)

- why can’t they just identify as straight (relationship dynamic is different with straight women than it is with queer women)

anyway, shut up!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I started a new remote job last week, and I'm the only genderqueer person at the company (and the first person who uses neo pronouns that anyone on my team has ever met, apparently).

So far:

Manager carefully wrote down spelling and pronunciation of my pronouns and told everyone on the team to respect them.

Coworker apologized privately for misgendering me (I hadn't told her yet) and said she will practice.

Guy on another team valiantly tried to use my pronouns and ended up saying something like zirzs-zhizz (I DM'd him and thanked him for trying and linked him to a practice site).

Teammate told me he has written out my pronouns and how to use them in a sentence and literally taped it to his monitor so he can practice.

Teammate also referred to me as compañere after I linked to a comic about gender-neutral endings in Spanish (whole team except me + 1 other person speaks Spanish as first language and they held all meetings in Spanish before the two of us started).

I am so stoked that people are actually trying. 💜🤍💚

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"It was just a joke!"

Sure. It also wasn't very funny and it bombed. And now you have to deal with that.

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the trolley problem vs. systemic oppression: a comic.

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Transgender Day of Remembrance: 25th Anniversary

Since 1999, the 20th of November has been observed as the Transgender Day of Remembrance, on which we remember those lives that were lost along the way—almost all of them murdered by transphobes; and sometimes, suicide as an escape from a hateful environment.

Here's a list of our trans siblings whose lives were cut short this year.

Of course, it will be underreported, and there will be many more not known.

But, to every last one of them, known or unknown, I say: You Were Known To Us, in our hearts.

The truth is, they can never kill us all. They can try, but if every trans person on Earth died today, another one would be born almost immediately. We've always been here, and we always will.

And yet, as individuals, we must do our part. We must survive, and when possible, we must thrive, and live this precious, beautiful, transgender life of possibility and flowering hope.

We owe it to those who went before, and we owe it to those who will come after us.

Take my hand—we'll get there.

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Do you know is practicing belly breathing would also help? To avoid shallow breaths associated with panic attacks.

Also I do enjoy your tag, so if it helps others, considering dotting a scent inside of your mask closer to your ears. In this case, mint essential oil to counter the warm sensation.

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super rough sketches for a personal project about transphobia and sports

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Remember, you never have to use a word to describe your experience that you don’t want to and that with ________ rape,abuse- the ________ is simply extra information. You are never required to disclose that information or to use that term over the more general rape/abuse.

The note about incest usually involving role/proximity deals with things like a parent taking on a partner but never marrying them/ the survivor never being adopted by that person and either the partner or the partner’s children being sexually abusive. 

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This is perhaps a cruel feeling to have but I am made almost angry by people who “doubt their faith” just because a bad thing happened to them.

You always knew it happened! You are an adult! You know horrific accidents happen, innocent people are hurt, fawns die in the woods without witnesses! But as soon as it’s not “somebody” and it’s you, you stop believing in a loving God?

If you say “I can’t reconcile all the bad things that happen on Earth with a God who is good” I get it.

If you say “I can reconcile all the bad things that happen on Earth with a God who is good” I get it.

If you say “I can reconcile all the bad things that happen on Earth, but I can’t reconcile all the bad things that happen to me with a God who is good,” I dont understand. I’m uncomprehending.

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i think a lot of liberals need to confront the fact that they don’t actually believe everyone should have basic human rights. a homeless person could call me every slur under the sun and i would still want them to have housing, food, etc. the belief that everyone is entitled to basic human rights should not hinge on whether you “like” someone or not. at that point the entire ideology crumbles.

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I’ve shared this bit of advice before, but it’s worth sharing again.

I am almost 8 years on HRT and before I even started taking estrogen, spiro, or progesterone, my doctor looked me in the eyes and asked a very important question…

She asked: “Do you want big boobs?”

I said yes, I wanted something that matched my frame.

She immediately told me: “Then do not go on a diet, maintain your fat, because your body will be using that and whatever you’re eating to build up your breasts and other features.”

And bless her because I’m rocking an H Cup these days.

So my trans girlies who are just starting out, I offer that bit of advice to you as well.