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Anyone care to lend a helping hand?

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Would like to be in a snuggle puddle that slowly transforms into over and under clothes groping then quickly evolves to soft yet increasingly passionate mutual masturbation before descending into a wild orgy of multiple shifting kinky dynamics and combinations which ends with everyone spent and smiling in a new entangled snuggle puddle just now without any clothes. And chocolate.

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One thing I don't think the Spoon metaphor has helped able-bodied people understand is that you can overdraw.

Generally, for most conditions, running out of spoons doesn't mean you collapse, doesn't produce an effect they can actually see. What it means is that you run on life support, quite possibly unsafely, until you get to a safe place and can stop. But you'll owe those spoons back, with interest. You'll have hurt yourself to do it.

Sometimes I hang out with a friend and they'll be like, wow, I'm really glad you had a good day. And I have to decide whether to make them feel bad by explaining that in fact they did not catch me on a good day, and tomorrow will probably be bad. I just made choices.

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short funny lil personal story but after 10 years of cnc and free use he still gets nervous sometimes and last night for a whole hour was rubbing against my slit with his hard cock while I was sleeping and when I finally woke up obviously we fugged bc yes pls

but the next day he was so soft n gentle n so apologetic about taking advantage of me while I was fully asleep and I spent most of the day reassuring him it’s everything I want and he has full permission but just moral of the story doms still need reassurances too! they still need to be told it’s okay, it feels good, it’s consensual!

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fountain in italy

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the front seat of the car is a type of confessional

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You ever wanna fuck the living shit out of somebody but also cook for them and make sure they’re mentally stable?

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something else I’ve learned about sex the older you get, especially with a long term partner, is that you don’t have to be sexy, feel sexy, or look sexy to enjoy one another. sex isn’t about how you look, it’s about that deep, intimate, and personal connection you get to share with that other person. its soul fornication

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Kinda want rough nasty sex

Kinda want messy slow fucking

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more people would exercise if this culture didn't make it absolute hell

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The best kink experiences I’ve had with people are the ones that are very fluid. Where you can flow easily between being silly/awkward and sexy/serious. I used to get so worried about “ruining the mood”, but all that did was put unnecessary pressure on everything. It’s so much better when you just get to be your whole self with people, and you feel comfortable to do so. When there isn’t the expectation to perform. Where you can just be a human being having a human experience. That’s the kind of sex I want to have.

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I’m pro carbs and anti pants

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calling someone pretty is the best because it always gets such a reaction. pretty toy, pretty thing, pretty girl, pretty boy, i will call you pretty until you are whining and squirming from how good it feels just to hear it

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Oh yeah? Could a pillow princess do this? *Tries to ride you before getting tired and just whining into ur neck*

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