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What does the arab in your carrd mean? Is it like afab and amab?

.. i’m palestinian

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Top 10 Non-Romantic K-Dramas

No one asked for this, but if you want to experience Korean dramas without dealing with unnecessary melodrama/romance (not that there’s anything wrong with that!), here are some great ones. There’s a pretty heavy lean towards investigative/procedural shows, which feels inevitable, but each drama provides a fairly unique approach to a certain genre. Almost all of these shows are considered “well-made” dramas domestically, but don’t receive as much hype abroad, although most Korean drama watchers know some of them or have at least heard of them. 

1.) Forest of Secrets/Stranger (S1, S2) — Crime, Thriller: Season One of this show was one of the best experiences of my life. It looks like a standard investigative show dealing with prosecutors and corruption, but the hype is real (if you don’t believe me, believe the New York Times, even though I really disagree with the condescending tone of their blurb, yikes). One of the best written dramas out there, and the acting and production came together to create an incredible product. I think this show is best when started blind, so just watch it. Trust me. 

2.) Misaeng — Slice of life, Drama, “Healing”: Before Stranger came along, this drama was my gold standard. Again, on the surface, there’s nothing super flashy to hook you in. But the show lives and dies in its empathy, in its layered and humanistic portrayal of its characters and how every seemingly mundane moment in an average workplace is packed with every worker’s history, relationships, and emotions. It’s incredibly poignant and written with razor-sharp specificity, so it’s a great look at office culture in Korea as well. It really brings home the fact that every organization is made up of people, that institutions cannot exist without the people who exist at its core. I laughed and cried because it felt like someone out there knew intimately how these simple, ordinary moments build up our lives, how they are inseparable from who we are. The interactions between the main cast (Chief Oh!!!) are gold, and the main character has an underdog arc that is impossible not to root for. 

3.) My Ahjussi/My Mister — Drama, “Healing,” Minor Suspense: Let’s make 2020 the year we normalize platonic soulmate relationships. I don’t think IU will ever beat this performance as a cynical, hurting, broken down 20 year old, and Lee Seon-kyun is so naturally in his element as a weary, rundown middle-aged office worker who proliferates decency from every pore in his body. They get drawn together as unlikely allies who connect on a human level, finding healing and strength in the support of the other. In a way, the show is a meditation on decency, on kindness, on generosity, and how we can change someone’s life and be changed in return, even for a brief, finite moment.

4.) The Guest — Crime, Horror, Fantasy: Hoo boy, I’m not great with horror but this drama took me for a ride. It starts like a joke: there’s a detective, a priest, and a psychic…and all three of them become comrades against an unspeakable evil. The show sometimes raises more questions than it answers, and the “Who the fuck is the demon” question got a bit dragged out by the latter half of the show, but who are we kidding, we watch for the platonic soulmate dynamics. Kim Dong-wook nicely balances extreme (EXTREME) trauma with a surprisingly cavalier disposition, while Kim Jae-wook is extremely pretty, extremely uptight, and extremely tortured as a young priest. Jung Eun-chae’s acting was a little green for the first few episodes, but I think she really came into her own by the end and she got to play a protector role that’s rare to see among female actors. The dynamic between the trio and the inevitable trauma-bonding that occurs between them is the core of the show, and you can equally see them all living together in domestic bliss while also appreciating the in-canon friendship.

5.) Signal — Crime, Time-Travel, Procedural: This one took Korea by storm, and was fairly popular abroad as well, and for good reason. The cases are tightly plotted and enthralling, and the larger, series long mystery of the time-traveling walkie-talkie is gripping from beginning to end. Jo Jin-woong is wonderful in this, showing the soft marshmellow core packaged in an iron will and a hardened sense of justice, and he has great chemistry with both Lee Je-hoon and Kim Hye-soo. If you must watch a procedural, start with this one. 

6.) White Christmas — Mystery, Psychological Thriller: This is an older drama, but it’s a short one (only 8 episodes), and served as a launch pad for some great working actors today (Kim Woo-bin, Esom, Lee El, Lee Soo-hyuk, Kim Young-kwang, etc.). Despite being older, it has some beautiful camera work, and although the acting can be very green, the writing provides enough room for it to slide. There are some poetic moments asking questions on nature vs. nurture, how monsters are made or created, and if what kind of evil lurks within all of us, which are not necessarily questions one expects from a Korean drama, but this show asks them anyways. It’s up to the audience to find an answer.

7.) Prison Playbook — Slice of life, Drama, Humor: I personally think the writer/director duo behind the Answer Me series/Hospital Playlist are at their strongest when focusing on non-romantic dynamics, which this show really highlights due to its incredibly minimized romance angle. The show zeroes in on the idea of unlikely friendships, which the writer pursues in her other dramas (ex: the moms in Answer Me 1988) but never to this much focus. Despite the rather grim setting of a men’s prison, the show finds humor in how surreal and ridiculous its environment can get, and in how very human all of its characters are. My one gripe was how abrupt some of the exits for these characters were, but I think they were trying to go for some realism, and when the dramatic beats hit, they really hit. 

8.) Dear My Friends — Drama, “Healing”: Not for the faint of heart, but worth it all the same. There’s some stunning talent among veteran actors in the Korean television industry, and this show utilizes some of the best including Go Du-shim, Na Moon-hee, and Kim Hye-ja, along with Go Hyun-jung and Jo In-sung in a minor romance plot line of their own. But the show’s real focus are the three elderly women, who ask how it might be possible to age gracefully while still dealing with the inevitable burdens of being human. No Hee-kyung’s dramas can be hit-or-miss for me, but when she’s good, she’s very, very good. She writes dramas that are generous to its characters and truly seek to understand who they are, why they are that way, and where they want to go next. No one is under utilized, everyone is given depth and understandable motivations, and the relationships, which can go from tender to fraught in a heartbeat, are so real and so wonderful and so heartbreaking. 

9.) Evasive Inquiry Agency — Humor, Mystery: This is an older show from 2007, where you can find an Lee Min-ki just starting out in his career and a truly excellent Ye Ji-won, but the somewhat reduced production values are covered up by a unique script and some really wonderful performances. The premise is ridiculous, but the story has moments of unexpected poignancy and the actors really make it all work with their chemistry together. It’s a story of found family, with four unlikely idiots (truly, they share a single brain cell) solving a season-long mystery and establishing platonic bonds that are stronger than any romance that could have conceived between the leads. 

10.) Joseon X-Files — Science Fiction, Procedural, Historical: I fucking love this show and I really wish it did so much better than it did, because this could have gone on for ten seasons and I would have loved every minute of it. I want to advocate for a reboot in 2020, since this is apparently the year of multi-season Korean dramas (not a new thing, but a lot more prime time shows are trying out multi-season arcs more seriously with added production values, i.e. Stranger, Hospital Playlist). The show is exactly as the title says: it’s set in Joseon, and it’s the X-Files. It could have been as wacky and dumb as it wanted to be, but it really went in the other direction and made the show take its premise seriously. It got so many things right, from Kim Gab-soo as the Pipe Smoking Man (!!!!) to adjusting the cases to parallel with real-life examples from the Annals (the Joseon history archive). My one gripe is they didn’t have as strong of a Mully/Sculder dynamic, and the male lead ends up being the rational, realistic one. But anyways, if you like Korean dramas and the X-Files, please please watch.

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the ‘we tried to make a girl-power focused show but accidentally just made all our characters wlws’ starter pack

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Riven: If she breathes, she a thot!

Sky: All women are queens!

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Snake, Dragon, Unicorn and Fox Figurines, by Evgeny Hontor on Etsy

See our ‘figurines’ tag

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deans not homophobic hes just nevada speed at processing emotions

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I dont want to hear, “Not all Trump supporters are Racist or bad people” You are supporting a man who’s a racist, against gay rights, a misogynist, a narcissist, a known pedophile (cases on public record), and who’s against public assistance & universal health care (which is the most basic human needs). Yet yall focused on Joe Biden’s son’s laptop when Trump is buddies with Putin & dictators. “Joe Biden has dementia!”. Not medically proven & y’all would rather a narcissist that doesn’t care about you unless you make over $100,00 a year, and even then to him you’re still nothing but a prop. “Joe Biden will raise taxes!” You only have to worry about this if you make over $400,000 a year also OKAY! If you make more, Pay More! No way a CEO should be paying less taxes then a secretary. You want to hold on to a false sense of privilege then just say that! If your values, that only serves you, mean more then basic human rights, then just say that! If you’re a racist, JUST SAY THAT! But don’t try to fool me or act superior. You know what you’re supporting.

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The boulder feels conflicted about fighting a blind, young girl

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Things I’ve actually said

Like in a real life conversation

“Disrespect me like that again and I’ll punt your son”

“Did they really just sexualize a razor??”

“Stay #hydrated” (yes I said hashtag)

“I know you hate me with a passion but you should tolerate me because I brought you eclairs”

“Gasp”

“Okay okay serious question guys… When you brush your teeth which row and which side do you start on?”

“Looking at pictures of the eclipse can make you blind I read it in a NASA article so fight me”

“Ok ok but hear me out. Bears don’t do shit but shit so don’t tell me I can’t prosper just because I sleep all day. Bitch”

“What did I say about talking while I’m interrupting?”

“I’ll call you later I’m bathrooming.”

“You literally just snatched my shoulder”

“Keep talking and imma beat your ass. Nothing special. No pistol whipping, no slapping you so hard you’ll see a galaxy far far away uh uh. None of that. Imma simply beat ya ass.”

“I got thick thighs and I tell no lies”

“Actually I just lied, I got thick thighs and I still lie.”

“I won’t know what to name my first child though. I have to think about all that in advance because if not I’m gonna look around the room and pick an object. My baby’s name is gonna turn out something like Pissbowl or Papertowel because I can’t with all that pressure.”

“That cat popped out the bush and stared at me like he was the baddest bitch. He was. And he knew it.”

“I don’t fuck with arachnids.”

“Why you gotta throw that ass in a circle? Don’t discriminate the shapes. WHY DON’T YOU THROW THAT ASS IN A SQUARE HUH??”

“Do mosquitoes have thanksgiving in August because I feel like a goddamn feast rn”

*looks in mirror* “Stfu no nobody asked you so fight me bitch” *stares at mirror in shock*

“If men ain’t shit and girls ain’t loyal where the hell do I go?”

“Really? Right in front of my salad??” (You’re damn right I use memes in my everyday conversations)

“Gasp part 2”

{that’s all I think. I’m pretty dumb but that makes for a good story so feel free to use these for prompts. Just tag me in it cuz I feel the need. The need for read. Ok I’m sorry I got like 3 hours of sleep okay.}

EDIT!!!! if you use these in a story and feel okay with tagging me you totally should i wanna read them🥺🥺

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This was in a book I got today and it’s honestly how I feel

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gtkm; [2/?] actors/actresses → kiki layne

Is it pushing the boundaries? Is it out of that box of the assumption of what a Black actress believes in and even a dark-skinned Black actress, what we are capable of and what roles make sense for us? I think Hollywood for a long time has made it clear that this is where darker-skin actresses belong, and the type of roles that we are expected [to play] or roles that Hollywood just believes oh that’s what this type of actress is capable of doing. I’m very much still committed to breaking out of that and not being limited in the ways that I express my artistry and my gift, because to me, that defeats the purpose of being an actor. 

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GUARDIANS OF THE GALAXY VOL. 2 2017 | dir. James Gunn

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my weekend trip to cologne was totally worth it. visited the best bookshop ever today

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Conservatives really be like “THOSE DAMN BLM PROTESTERS ARE SETTING FIRES EVERYWHERE” and then burn down the entire western seaboard to show people what kind of genitals their baby has