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poem ~the cartographer tries to map a way to zion by kei miller 📜🗝️🪑💫

this took me so frkn long!!!!! i love nami yeah

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I can see our lives together will not be easy. True. But they'll be fun.

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People who don’t do or create shit are always the most critical because they have no frame of reference. They severely underestimate how much energy it takes, how much fear and other psychic burdens need to be overcome, the sheer amount of relentless persistence, faith and self-belief it takes to put something, no matter how feeble and shitty, out in to the world.

It seems so easy just looking. “I could do that”. “I could’ve made that”. Well then do it. Look at the most feeble and easy looking creative work and then replicate it in your own way. And with no irony or hiding or joking- in all sincerity put your name on it - and show it to others. People you know in real life. As a representation of yourself. See how it feels. You’ll have a new appreciation and softness towards creative friends and strangers.

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If someone is doing something that is thoughtless and not so considerate, but not malicious or in any way intentional, be patient when you address it to them especially if it's the first time you're bringing it to their attention.

If, for example, your neighbor has their T.V. turned up too loud, or if a stranger has a bag hanging on the back of their chair that is in your way and/or in your personal space, you are certainly allowed to address this, but be polite and patient if this is the first time you're bringing it to this person's attention.

While something like a loud T.V. or someone's bag in your way and/or in your personal space are annoying and something you're certainly allowed to politely address if it's bothering you, it's more likely than not that the other person had no idea this was bothering you and would be happy to turn down the T.V. or move their bag if you politely bring it to their attention. Human beings aren't infallible machines, as such we're all prone to accidentally doing something that is bothersome to another person, so it certainly doesn't call for a hostile or aggressive response to what is likely an honest mistake.

If it becomes a repeat issue from the same person even after it's been politely addressed, or seems like it could be malicious or intentional, such as your neighbor actually turns up the T.V. even louder after you politely ask them to turn it down, then you can dial up the assertiveness within reason and/or get help from someone who can back you up (such as other neighbors who are also bothered by the sound).

But first, always give people the benefit of the doubt that they're making an honest mistake and had no idea they were bothering you.

Besides, people are more likely to respond positively to someone who addresses something patiently and politely. If a neighbor comes pounding on your door and screams and cusses at you for watching T.V. loudly when this is the first time it was brought to your attention and you didn't even know they could hear it, or if someone takes your bag off the back of your chair and dumps it on the floor because it was in their way when you couldn't even tell it was in anyone's way, a lot of people might get spiteful or aggressive themselves as a defensive response to feeling attacked. If, however, it is addressed politely they're more likely to respond politely in return.

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Arcanine and Scorbunny ko-fi doodle for @goldoans & @lunahearts!

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why do people always only expect you to have one thing. one disorder one pet one gender one pronouns one name one favorite movie one crush one best friend. like why do I have an inventory limit

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i was trying to make a meme but i fucked up the audio layering and

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Does anyone happen to have My injuries were so jolly I was Christmas for a month on hand

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If you had to pick, what's the ONE trait in a fictional character that makes you immediately go "oh this one's mine"

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It's Autumn, which means if I make a Big Pot of Soup it will Fix Everything. No one fact check me on this. We need to let the soup speak for itself.

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Just a little reminder for anyone who could use it. ଘ(੭ˊᵕˋ)੭♡ It feels validating to have your efforts acknowledged.

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