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Genshin Lanyan leaks but-

Keqing, Alhaitham, Chiori 🤝 Lanyan

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every night I think “wow this might be the night I go to bed early” and every time without fail I fuck it up

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guys the consequences of inaction are noooootttt enough to motivate meeee

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Chat am I cooking with this Project Sekai Unit swap?

Nightcord at 25: Akito, Touya, Saki, Honami

Vivid BAD SQUAD: Tsukasa, Rui, Ena, Mizuki

Wonderlands x Showtime: Minori, Airi, Ichika, Shiho

Leo/Need: Mafuyu, Kanade, Shizuku, Haruka

More More Jump: Emu, Nene, An, Kohane

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So I was thinking about my Alien Stage Au for Project Sekai, and I was thinking. Imagine An's alien owner was Nagi

Like, could you imagine what og An would think of that?

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Some more doodles from my kanade doodle account (@/kanadoodles) on twt !!! im mentally ill so i chose to draw the same character everyday

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Ok, but consider. An Aishite Aishite Aishite (or Love me Love me Love me ig) cover Nightcord at 25 style, but with Sunday as Mafuyu, Aventurine as Ena, and Pearl as Miku (she fits with the broader Au I'm considering trust)

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Mizuki Akiyama is one of the most realistic portrayals of a trans-feminine person in any media and the event story method Project Sekai has of telling its casts story really benefits Mizuki's arc. Her issues have been subtly shown and implied since the game started 4 years ago.

She doesn't feel comfortable going to school due to the way kids in her class and in the school generally bully her for her gender presentation. Mizuki tries to not let it bother her with her generally friendly personality and acts as if it doesn't bother her.

Outside of An and later Akito she doesn't feel comfortable getting closer to anyone in her real life, out of fear of them finding out who she truly is. It's due to this that her time on Niigo helped her figure herself out over time.

Due to contacting each other through Nightcord, Mizuki doesn't have the same fear initially that they'll find out she's trans and isn't 'like them'. That is until they get closer as a group and start meeting up in person. Ena specifically gets close to Mizuki and starts worrying.

Ena can tell Mizuki has a secret that weighs on her, but she doesn't want to be forceful about getting Mizuki to tell her. Mizuki is grateful for this and spends a lot of time watching Mafuyu, Ena and Kanade grow over their time as a group.

More and more, she feels she has to open up to them about who she is or she'll never progress as a person in the same way they have. She works up the courage to at least tell Ena over time to pay her back for her kindness and friendship.

Unfortunately, she gets outed in the worst way possible by Ena hearing a classmate misgender Mizuki and make fun of her for being friends with Mizuki. This makes Mizuki panic and worry the worst without hearing Ena out.

It's realistic, and the way Mizuki's issues have been portrayed so far are realistic to the fear trans and non binary people struggle with opening up about their identity to others. Out of fear of being treated differently or abused in the same way others did to them in the past.

Anyway, all of this to say Mizuki Akiyama is one of my favorite characters in general and I'm glad Project Sekai treated her character with care and respect the entire time the game has been going on for.

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It will honestly be so poetic if, somehow, Kamala Harris loses the popular vote but wins the electoral college. Trump will lose the same way he won.

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Dan Heng: I wasn't raised to be polite―

Trailblazer: You weren't raised at all.

Dan Heng:

Trailblazer:

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glad to know people will still be experiencing this video for the first time this daylight savings

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alien stage .. AUGHHHHHH

YOU WATCHED ALIEN STAGE???????

AUGHHHH INDEED!!! AAAAAAAAAA

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everyone should go watch alien stage i promise its super good (true) and not emotionally devastating at all (lie) 😁😁

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Is it possible to have a healthy relationship with a FP?

Absolutely, yes! This is a list of how I manage that. Keep in mind that everyone is different and if certain things don't work for you, that's completely valid.

Please see this post if you aren't sure what a FP is.

One of the first things is that even though it may be uncomfortable, diversify your relationships! Have different people that you have different similarities with. For example, maybe you really love a certain show, well making friends in the fandom might be a way to have someone to talk to about that interest.

Focus on your own hobbies. It's important to try and find a way to be happy on your own.

Practice your DBT skills. There are so many different skills useful for different situations. Here is a page I am working on of definitions of different skills. If one skill doesn't work for you, please don't give up on DBT skills. I've tried a lot of different skills, and a lot of them don't work for me but some work really well.

Focus on keeping the relationship mutual. By this I mean make sure that you’re respecting their boundaries, consent and meeting their needs too (as long this doesn’t infringe on your own. If your needs conflict, that’s a bit more complicated and may require compromise.)

Teach yourself not to rely solely on them. It's important to work on things where you don't feel abandoned when they can't give you their attention. (This is where DBT skills are likely to come in handy.)

Work on your self-soothing. If your brain spirals that they don't care, work on curbing impulses associated with that(hint check out my urge surfing post here). Don't send them messages like "clearly you don't care!" Here are some tips for self-soothing that I've written about in the past.

Communicate directly. Don't hint at things. This can be exhausting, and frustrating to the other person. I know we feel awkward asking for things, but trust me that from being on the other end of this as well, I feel so much better if someone asks me directly.

Make sure your expectations are realistic. If you find your expectations are not being met, rather than getting angry at your FP try and step back and see if your expectations are realistic. If you determine they are, try and proceed with communicating with your FP when you're feeling calm.

Be willing to apologize and admit when you're wrong. This goes without saying, but people mess up. People make mistakes. And you aren't bad if that happens. But it's important to be able to acknowledge that and apologize to the other person without excuses.

This is not an exhaustive list by any means, but I hope this helps!