kairlynn

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It’s just safer being silent these days

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“Sakura…” “Wait wait Anata.. put it this way! ”

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bruh

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“you’re so polite!” thank you i have anxiety

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Things terfs say that really piss me the fuck off:

1. You’re not a real girl. Yes I am, I was just born with a birth defect that involuntarily scarred me and left me permanently unhappy with how my body looks. I didn’t point out your facial birthmark because I didn’t want to be rude, why did you have to point out mine?

2. Girls don’t do that, honey. I’m a girl, and I’m doing it. So yes they do.

3. You have no idea how hard it is for me. I really don’t give a fuck, because I can tell you never stopped to consider how hard it is for me. Imagine if you woke up the next morning as the wrong gender, trapped in a body that wasn’t yours, and everyone is calling you by the wrong name and pronouns for the rest of your life, wouldn’t you want to change that? Do you have any idea how much I don’t want to look like a drag queen but I’m forced to anyway?

4. I don’t know why you didn’t just accept yourself and love yourself the way you were born, you’re taking very drastic measures. There are easier ways. If there were easier ways, don’t you think I would be going that direction instead of this one? Or is it that you don’t trust me enough with my own life to make my own decisions? I wish there were easier ways to be happy with myself, and living as a male was not it for me. Believe me I tried. I got a male prominent job, I got a girlfriend, had sex, learned to fix my own car when it broke down, thought about fathering kids, etc. The more I lived this lie, the worse I got, the more suicidal I got.

5. Are you going to expect me to change my life around to call you by your “preferred name and pronouns”? Maybe not immediately, I mean I understand that 21 years of calling me one thing is a lot of time to undo that and start calling me by a new thing. But yes I do expect you to try, I expect you to catch yourself when you slip, and I expect your love and support the same way as if I wasn’t going through this. If you can immediately call a Pokémon by a new name when they evolve, why can’t you do the same for me?

6. But you still have a penis, don’t you? Why the fuck does it matter what I have in my pants? It’s not like I can use any public restrooms anyway, I’ll get beat up in the boys’ room and accused of rape in the girls’ room. Most likely from people like you. For all I know you could be hiding something in your pants too, but I’m not going to ask you to show me, that’s a huge violation of privacy. Fuck off.

7. The children shouldn’t be exposed to people like you. So basically, passing a transphobic law to prevent children from being exposed to me would be an easy feat, to keep them safe. How are we faring on keeping guns away from schools, “to keep them safe”? Or is that not a bigger issue than letting me live my life in peace where I won’t disturb anyone? Also, if we wipe transgenderism from society and keep it quiet and hush hush, what happens when your child (who has been growing up and acting quite weird according to their birth gender norms) feels like they are oppressed by you and your opinions, and they keep it quiet and try to live their lives normally to make you happy (like I did with my parents and family)? Are you okay with them living with that kind of trauma? Are you okay with the risk of them committing suicide because they weren’t as strong or stubbornly clinging to life as I was? I’ve attempted suicide multiple times, I’ll admit it. Transgender kids with unsupportive parents have a 58% statistical chance of committing suicide, do you really want to be the cause of another unnecessary death? Alternatively, suicide rates of supportive parents are all the way down to 2%. Go figure, being nice for once actually saves lives!

8. Being trans is a sexual kink, a fetish, you’re ruining your entire body for sex. As I said before in point 3, imagine for a little bit what it’s like to be me. I’m unhappy with myself, I’m unhappy being called “sir”, I’m unhappy with having sex at all. I’m depressed, suicidal, and dysphoric all the time.You step into my shoes for a moment, and see if you can handle it. It’s not a sexual kink, it’s my life. And quit kinkshaming, it’s unbecoming.

9. You’re not trans, you’re just faking it to get attention. You’re not actually that pretty, you’re just putting on 4 layers of makeup and being someone you’re not because it makes you feel comfortable leaving your front door instead of staying inside and not taking the risk of getting stared at in public. Oh wait...

10. You didn’t need to listen to the media, just find a doctor who knows how to fix you. You don’t follow medical research, do you? It’s come to the conclusion over multiple years of testing that gender identity cannot be changed with a pill, and the best course of action for transgender patients is to let them transition. What I’m doing is fixing me. A reddit AMA in /r/Science by Dr. Joshua Safer reveals some articles for you to go read, I’ll give them to you. https://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/840538_1 http://www.jctejournal.com/article/S2214-62371500049-6/fulltext https://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/6p7uhb/transgender_health_ama_series_im_joshua_safer/

All in all people just stop being mean to each other. Yes trans people look weird, but we’re not going to eat your babies. We’re terrified of going outside because of situations like this (https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/man-stab-woman-119-times-transgender-told-date-mississippi-hotel-room-dwayne-hickerson-dee-whigham-a7860591.html), we’re terrified of being happy, and too many people have committed suicide already because of society’s norms on whether or not our existence should be valid and accepted. I never asked to be trans, I never asked for any of this.

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2018/1/13