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Repeat after me:

I am the woman of my own dreams. I require no validation. My wish is my command. My life is my own, I build it. My voice is my own, I let it be heard. I am relentless in my dedication to trusting myself. I am insatiable in my thirst for the extraordinary, and I do not settle for the mediocre.

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Bucket List

- [ ] Complete all travel plans

- [ ] Learn to play tennis

- [ ] Learn to pole

- [ ] Speak A1 Korean

- [ ] Visit 1 international country

- [ ] Learn to budget

- [ ] Read 24 books in a year

- [ ] Fill 1 journal

- [ ] Visit yoga retreat

- [ ] Write a book

- [ ] Visit K-Con

- [ ] Learn archery

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Always reblog Elle Woods in her “fuck men I’m gonna get a law degree” phase

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This Is How We Will Own 2023:

We're less than a month away from the New Year, and as such, it is important that we begin to set the foundations and plans we have to not only succeed, but make 2023 a memorable year.

Regardless of how 2022 went for you, regardless of how many goals you were able to achieve, a new year marks a new beginning. Do not beat yourself over how things went, focus on how you can improve them moving forward.

In 2023 we're:

Spending less time being passive scrollers online. The pandemic is over, the world is back in action and so must we. It's time to stop letting our minds be consumed by the opinions of thousands of people on the internet. More often than not, the things we read online come from the psyche of mentally unwell individuals, and given social media's tendency to prompt out the voices of the most unhinged, it gives people that shouldn't have a platform a false sense of authority. In 2023 we're getting off the grid as much as we can and reconnecting with the real world. We will not allow this online façade to swallow us into its void any longer.

Spending more time learning and engaging in high-end activities and hobbies that can elevate our social circle and our taste. Things like polo matches, pilates, ballet, opera, piano classes, poetry, political forums, martial arts, and high-intensity sports, among other things. It is crucial to cultivate a persona that engages in a variety of fulfilling activities that can bring us joy but also help us grow as individuals.

Prioritizing our health and fitness. No more excuses, it's time to cut down on added sugar and refined carbs, time to eat more nutrient-dense whole foods, drink plenty of water daily, invest in vitamin injections every other month, take supplements to improve our body's collagen production, and overcome feelings of laziness by pushing ourselves through fitness goals. 2023 we will make of the gym our sanctuary.

Living below our budget and investing as much as we can. If you haven't already, get a financial advisor, develop long and short-term financial goals and get organized with your income. It doesn't matter if in the past you've felt like your financial habits have not been the most adequate, it's never too late to take control of them and be responsible. We owe to ourselves to spend wisely to have the peace of mind financial security brings. Never go broke trying to impress others.

We're no longer entertaining inadequate men. I must admit I'm guilty of this myself. After years of not dating, getting back into the dating scene has felt extremely disappointing and tiring. Most prospects are simply not up to par with the standards I have and what I want out of my life partner. Sometimes we allow ourselves to become desperate to build these types of romantic relationships that we begin to overlook the things that we really want deep down. In 2023, we're refocusing our attention on living our best lives and being as active as possible in real-life events as touched upon previously, and trust that the right dating prospects will present themselves when we least expect. We attract, we don't chase.

Finally, we're overcoming negative self-talk patterns that hinder our growth. We're investing in therapy, we're unlearning the limiting beliefs that keep us in bondage to people, routines, and views of the world that are not good for us. We have to put an end to the insidious lie of the scarcity mindset, overcome past traumas, and look forward to the good things that are yet to come.

There are many more things I could add to this list, but for now, these are the things I and I know many of you will find helpful on improving on for the year to come. These lists can come out as intimidating to some people, but we have to remember that we are not expected to become the ideal version of ourselves overnight. Growth is a marathon, not a sprint, and it requires consistency. Each day that you wake up and choose to do one or two things differently you're making stride towards that better you. No improvement is ever too little.

Let's make 2023 a memorable year, and every year afterwards.

Daphne.

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i expect alot from me in 2023.

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2023 Plans

In 2023 I want to become more disciplined with using my time wisely and focusing on the things I value.

So next year I am dedicating 365 days to my personal and self preservation; I will work on improving different areas of my life.

Health

[ ] Reach goal measurements

[ ] Defined abs

[ ] Workout 3-4x a week

[ ] Drink 64oz of water everyday

[ ] Eat 3 meals a day

[ ] Intake 3 servings of fruits and vegetables

[ ] Keep doctors appointments up to date (general, gynecologist, optician)

[ ] Take vitamins

Wealth

[ ] Have $5,000 in savings account

[ ] Invest in 2 companies

[ ] Start earning passive income

[ ] Write and sell 3 ebooks

[ ] Purchase a new laptop

Personal

- [ ] Read 24 books

- [ ] Learn 12 K-pop dances

- [ ] Sign up for pole classes

- [ ] Revamp wardrobe

- [ ] Practice doing makeup

- [ ] 2x a month get a massage/lash extensions/ mani+pedi

[ ] Attend 2 or more K-pop concerts

[ ] Learn Korean

Professional

Work

- [ ] Help plan 2 events

- [ ] Set up 3 food truck events

School

- [ ] 155 LSAT Score (Scored 143)

- [ ] 3.0 GPA for Paralegal certificate

- [ ] Apply to 5 law schools

1. University of Illinois- Chicago

2. University of North Texas- Dallas

3. Texas A&M

4. Loyola University- Chicago

5. DuPaul University

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how to become your dream girl before the year is out

it is never too late to start, you have been putting it off for a long time, you have a lot of information but you don't know how to apply it to your life.

ask yourself how would the best version of yourself act? what would the best version of yourself look like? what are the habits that your best version would have? what are the goals of your best version? what would you like to change to get closer to your best version?

2. take action

after knowing what you can do to improve, put it into practice now. some ideas.

start with new habits

be more organized and disciplined

be aware of your value

have a more positive mindset open to change

change your perspective on things

let go of what doesn't serve or benefit you

more self-love

surround yourself only with things that are good for you (also people)

change your internal dialogue to a more positive one.

start acting the way you would like to be, without fear.

3. feel, act and live like your best self

changing old patterns is not easy, but start doing it by replacing those old habits with ones that add to your life.don't live in the past anymore, start living your present, start acting and being the person you have always dreamed of being that doesn't mean you have to completely change your personality, it means you are improving your lifestyle and the way you perceive yourself and the world, you are changing your perspective to a much more positive one, you don't deserve to keep on living feeling bad about yourself and wishing you were someone else. you have the power to change.

4. create your personal signature

reconnect with the things that you love, inspire and make you feel you. create your personal signature, with your favorite scent (perfume and cream), makeup, clothing and accessories, likes and hobbies, your favorite places, everything that inspires you to be your best version.

but in the end, the first step begins when you start to become aware of your value and that you deserve everything you want.

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Too Pretty to Pay Bills: Keys to Gold Digging Success: Tips on How to have the life you deserve as a woman! by She Ra Seven

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What are some sites or stores you shop at to find clothes/ accessories/shoes etc?

Hi love!

I shop mostly at Saksfithavenue, Amazon, Skims, Lululemon & Shein. I wear a lot of dresses and I find these stores to have exactly what I need.

*All prices listed are in (CAD) Canadian dollars*

Saksfithavenue

Saks is a bit on the pricier side, but you can get a lot of cute authentic luxury pieces from different fashion houses for less. I normally get my dinner/ date night dresses from here.

Most items cost anywhere from CAD 400$ upwards. Some items I’m thinking about getting

Amazon

Amazon has a lot of affordable items which I love. And a lot of great dupes of pricer items. For example I bought a skims dupe dress and cartier love ring just to compare it to the one I already had. To my surprise they were almost identical!

Amazon is a great way to shop for clothes, and accessories if your on a budget. I paid about CAD 35$ for each dress & 9.99$ for the ring *Please note I also had Amazon prime.*

Skims

I had my doubts about skims until A few months ago. My friend put me on, and I recommended I buy the infamous skins dress, and some Shapewear. Ever since then I’ve never looked back.

If you’re looking for lounge& shapewear, skims should be your go to there’s so many amazing pieces on there that suits every skin tone and everybody type!

Skims is a little bit on the priced sider side items starting around CAD 50$ upwards. But definitely worth the hype.

Lululemon

You can’t go wrong with having a pair of align leggings some Air Force once’s and the bbl align jacket. Although pricey it’s worth the price.You cannot compete with the quality.

Not much to say about the brand the quality speaks for itself. Leggings start at CAD 98$ and the align jacket CAD 128$

Shein

Every girl shops here. Not much to be said. A tip for finding good clothes always go the back page and work your way to the front I’ve been able o get some god quality shoes bags and dresses that way

The items listed below cost CAD 38$ & CAD 50$

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EXO Seasons’ Greetings 2023 | KYUNGSOO

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Black women who have been listed as the top 100 influential people by TIME Magazine

from left to right: Quinta Brunson, Jazmine Sullivan, Issa Rae, Faith Ringgold, Mia Mottley & Zendaya

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Shout Out to The Woman I’m Becoming

I love this for me. I can feel myself transforming into the woman of my desired reality. I act how I want, I radiate how I want, and most importantly, I receive what I want with easy ease.

She’s no longer fearful, now fearless.

She no longer moves with caution, now confidence.

The books I read, the environments I place myself in, the people I choose to follow & entertain all shaped me into the legend worthy Goddess I am today.

I do not know what the Universe has planned for me, but I must say I’m very pleased and grateful thus far.

I AM BLACK FEMININITY AT IT’S FINEST

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Sis, NOV & DEC will be FULL of Blessings, positivity & good news CLAIM IT. 💕

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Level Up For 2023: Becoming THAT GIRL

Becoming THAT GIRL takes discipline.If you want to level up in 2023 then you have to rid yourself of people, places, and habits that no longer serve you.

1.Release your ego! I don’t think we ever realize just how much our ego controls us. You have to let go of all that no longer serves you.

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