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It appalls me that these things can still operate. Spreading misinformation, especially misinformation about health, should be extremely illegal! I don't care where you stand on abortion. You should stand on the side that says no to the spreading of misinformation.

Fake women’s health centers deliberately try to delay people who are trying to access abortion by telling them lies and giving them misinformation about reproductive health. It’s time to end the lies: ENDTHELIES.com

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It's a short read that popped up when I was on reddit and it's a super worthwhile read. It's also nice to sigh and say "yup, I get that."

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Had a rough day today, and I am off to go climbing so I decided to put on some makeup to see if it could lift me up a bit 😊 I actually screwed it up a bit and had to retouch, I am pretty proud of what I accomplished.

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This topic hits close to home in a multitude of ways for me. During my years of pretending to be cishet male I had been in a relationship that involved emotional abuse, a part of the problem was that I wasn’t 100% innocent of it either. It took me years to realize that it was toxic, I didn’t realize how toxic until more recently since I have been working through tons of things.  In more recent time I have been reflecting upon my most recent relationship as I work towards becoming the best me that I can be and suddenly it’s jumping out at me that I presented manipulative behaviour without even knowing it.  So this hashtag hits me on both sides of it. And I want to spread awareness because emotional abuse is just as devastating as physical abuse in its own ways. Please continue to share this and let’s all aim to better ourselves and to recognize abuse.

Men are using a powerful hashtag to fight back against emotional abuse

According to NCADV, 4 in 10 people have experienced some kind of coercive control from an intimate partner. Sadly, #MaybeSheDoesntHitYou is raising much-needed awareness for a widespread problem.

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TO HIMSELF EVERYONE IS IMMORTAL; HE MAY KNOW THAT HE IS GOING TO DIE, BUT HE CAN NEVER KNOW THAT HE IS DEAD.

Samuel Butler

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I decided to experiment with a touch of eyeshadow and foundation to wear to Bullet For My Valentine concert tonight. Well they were the opening act. It was headlined by Avenged Sevenfold. They are ok, but I definitely went for BM4V and stayed for Breaking Benjamin and Avenged. Breaking Benjamin was really good and has definitely made it to the list of bands that I want to see live again, this time maybe I will make it a point to memorize their songs. My problem with Avenged is that I don't know their music well, and I find that they rely too heavily on good hooks, their music follows very traditional structure, which is great if you love that type of stuff, but sometimes it feels like a boring song goes on too long. 😝 But I am a harsh critic because I only really like ballady stuff when I feel like crying or when I am going to sleep. At a concert give me nonstop fast paced in your face music! When I say a song feels like it goes on too long please realize this is coming from a girl who's favourite band (*cough* *cough* Opeth *cough*) has a 20 minute long song. But the difference is that it's barely the same song from start to finish. But please, Avenged fans, don't take this as an attack. I do appreciate their music and I did take my time to turn an ex onto them while we were together. They are a really good bridge for traditional music fans to get into metal and they have some phenomenal songs that I just *love*!

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Currently I am in the process of "fertility preservation", which is really just a fun way to say banking sperm. This entails, ahem, holding off on certain recreational activities for 72 hours at a time.

This has almost been the hardest part of transitioning so far. 😝

does this make me sound gross?

Honestly the hardest part so far is in the waiting, it's hard not to get impatient, especially after waiting for as many years as I did. I just want everything last year.

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Bundled up before heading out into the balmy -30 the other night.

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Today marks 3 months of hormones. My breasts are starting to come in. They were first noticeable yesterday when I took that picture. For the first time in my life I am starting to feel just happy. I felt pretty in this picture and decided to post it as a celebration. I am not normally a public person, but I thought that I would break out of my shell for a minute and put myself out here. Looking forward to feeling a woman's touch on my boobs for the first time. 🏳️‍🌈 haha