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(◕‿◕✿) — My top 5 favorite bands

(｡♥‿♥｡) — If I have a crush

ლ(́◉◞౪◟◉‵ლ) — Something I’ve wanted for a long time

(ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ — What makes me happy 

(✖╭╮✖) — What makes me sad 

(。・_・。) — Something that is so horrible I wonder why it exists

(⊙_◎) — Something that drives me crazy

(ノಠ益ಠ)ノ彡┻━┻  —  What angers me the most

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Lady Gaga: *exists*

Me: You fucking perfect human being you. Why are you doing this to me? How can you look perfect every single fucking time? Why do you look like a fucking angel in every photo? Why? Please explain your existence to me because I can't understand. How can your smile be like a gift from the gods themselves? Are you even from this world? Are you actually human? Do you breathe air like the rest of us? Are you even possible? Are you real? Is the universe playing tricks with my head right now. Am I actually here at all. What am I even. What am I. What is going on. I can't.

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Will someone explain to me how "friendzone" is vilifying??? Pretty sure its a genderless term to be used when someone likes you who you don't like and you then proceeded to "friendzone" them as in a platonic relationship of just being friends. Rejecting some thirsty random who doesn't know you and who you have no intentions of even talking to again isn't "friendzoning". It isn't "friendzoning" unless there is an actual intention to be friends (or you have mutual friends who it would just be to awkward to be around if you just straight up rejected)

Also since when was "friendzoning" someone considered worse than being "friendzoned"? The person with the unrequited feelings is the one who feels the embarassment/shame, not the person who says no.

CONFUSED!

LOL, WUT?

““Slut” is how we vilify a woman for exercising her right to say “yes”. “Friendzone” is how we vilify a woman for exercising her right to say “no”.”

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angels-and-angles (via wewantrevolutiongirlstylenow)

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That was SO fucking gangsta. He didn't even break a fucking sweat!

I'm Rick Grimes, bitch.

Hell. Yes. Rick is finally acting like comic Rick. 

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1. Thou Shalt Not Wear Pants that Stretch

Your clothing is an early-warning system for weight gain. When it’s getting hard to snap your jeans, you know it’s time to be vigilant. Wearing stretchy clothes allows you to live in ignorance of how your body is growing, making it easier to pack on pounds without knowing it.

2. Thou Shalt Not Keep Fat Clothes in Your Closet

When you keep the clothes you wore at an unhealthy weight, it gives you a back-up plan if the pounds don’t come off. Instead, force yourself to stay on track by 86ing your “fat pants.”

3. Thou Shalt Not Eat Meat That Walks on Four Legs More Than Once a Week

Meat that comes from an animal with 4 legs is higher in saturated fat (the unhealthy kind) than that which comes from 2-legged animals such as chickens, or animals with no legs, like fish. Plus: women who eat large amounts of red meat more than once a week have a 50% higher chance of dying from heart disease and have higher cancer rates.

4. Thou Shalt Not Graze

Plan your meal before you open the refrigerator, get what you need, and close the door. Opening it throughout the day leads to impulsive choices and overeating.

5. Thou Shalt Not Eat After 7:30pm

When you eat late at night you are more likely to be eating in front of the TV (when you won’t pay attention to how much you’re putting in your mouth) and you’re more likely to pick high-calorie snacks.

6. Thou Shalt Not Pile Food More than 1 Inch High or Within 2 Inches of the Plate Edge

Larger portions equal more calories. ‘Nuff said.

7. Thou Shalt Not Chew Food Less than 20 Times Per Bite

Chewing allows your body to realize that you are eating food, prompting it to create a sensation of fullness at the appropriate time. When you don’t chew enough, you get ahead of that process, eating well past when you are actually satisfied.

8. Thou Shalt Not Covet Thy Neighbor’s Plate

Spend your day nibbling bites on someone else’s sandwich or afternoon snack, and you will add on 1,000 calories easy.

9. Thou Shalt Not Carry Small Bills

Nothing loves a small bill better than a vending machine. When you have them at the ready, you are one step closer to an impulsive, calorie-loaded afternoon slip up.

10. Thou Shalt Not Eat While Standing Up

Eating sitting down enables you to be aware of what you’re eating and eat it slowly so that your body can tell you your full before it’s too late.

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Lol funny, right.... 

logical invalidation

basic bitches stay basic….

I hear you loud and clear:  you can do no wrong!  Cause you’re mixed race, and mixed race people are gods.

My satisfaction purely comes from the fact that you can no longer logically invalidate my “essay”, lol like you ever were logical and now have to resort to mere sarcasm. I win :) 

P.S. Also thanks for recognizing my godly status.

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I hear you loud and clear:  you can do no wrong!  Cause you’re mixed race, and mixed race people are gods.

My satisfaction purely comes from the fact that you can no longer logically invalidate my "essay", lol like you ever were logical and now have to resort to mere sarcasm. I win :) 

P.S. Also thanks for recognizing my godly status.

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CANT. FUCKING. WAIT.

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I -CANNOT- FUCKING WAIT!!!!!

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Wrong.  You are simplifying your own nature to appear as if your offensive words are nothing but a reaction to injustices served against you.  This is classic self-justification, something I consider myself an expert at.  

To imply that any repeated behaviour is always motivated by a consistent, simple thing is ridiculous.   Even for that reason alone, your entire essay is false.  Which isn’t to say that you aren’t, at times, “beating people to the joke”, but you’re false to say that THAT is your entire reason for making racial comments. 

To say that the universal human love of pushing people’s buttons doesn’t exist in your mind would be ridiculous.  If you could actually resist the sensation of offensive pleasure while making those comments, then I would consider you a human miracle (but i don’t).

Maybe you should own up to it, instead of trying to pull the wool over everyone’s eyes. 

The only thing you are an expert at is coming across as a complete asshat.

You are wrong about my "essay" trying to justify. Justification would infer that it is acceptable. A person of mixed ethincity saying those things isn't acceptable as I have stated previously. 

The only thing I attempted to do was to give you a BRIEF inside look  at what it is like to be biracial as you clearly have no idea. Furthermore, just because you've "known a few" does not make your opinion relevant to anything nor you an expert on those few you have encountered. 

But humor me, these "few biracials" that you have known... have you taken the time to confront them about their statements? Maybe try to understand them? Or have you only made overly generalizing and degrading comments about them due to your own ignorance?  Never mind, don't answer, I already know.  

Your error is also in assuming anything I am saying applies to ALL people of mixed ethnicity in every situation and in every occurrance. "Beating someone to the joke" is just one motive of many. Nothing applies to ALL. However it is easy to see why you assumed I ment this since you obviously made generalizing assumptions about ALL the "few biracials" you've known.

In addition, you are trying to make the case that biracial people may say comments just to be offensive. I'm not going to say that there aren't some out their like that. However, arguing this point so vigourously without recognizing that there is an actual issue here beyond everyone just trying to piss everyone off, which you have failed to do, is what's truly ridiculous. It is also good to point out that although it may be their motive to piss people off, if they are doing it at the expensive of degrading themselves then there is a deeper issue there. 

Hopefully this has englightened you on the subject... but probably not. We "biracials" are all still probably racist assholes to you who just LOVE pissing everyone off for no reason, other than the fact we are racists assholes who love pissing everyone off of course. No injustices at all... I'm just super glad a non-biracial privileged individual can tell me about mine and other "biracials" lives so well. 

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Best part of Super Bowl HS? NICKI!! and her ass <3

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I just can't deal with how perfect this bitch is <3

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Right?? 

“It irritates me when people say they’d never let their daughters watch Disney because it’s “full of bad messages.” If your kid can’t tell the difference between fiction and reality, maybe you need to check your parenting skills.”

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Your whole essay here is basically saying “I have to put up with some stuff, so whatever comes out of my mouth is A-OK”.   

Apparently you didn't read my "essay" or you would have seen :"That doesn’t make saying it okay, not at all, but if you understood anything about what “biracials” go through you wouldn’t make such ignorant comments about them."

Your comment saying we think we have "a get out of jail free card to offend" is what my issue is with because CLEARLY you have no idea what the hell you are actually speaking about and should probably get an idea next time before you decide to press "reblog" and shame tumblr with your ignorance. Thanks.

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Let me just stop you right there. 

As a person of mixed ethnicity (side note: we do NOT like to be referred to as "biracials") I can speak a bit on this. I'm not going to say "all" but a great deal of us go through life never feeling like we belong anywhere. We are not "enough" of anything to feel truly accepted by either side.

I'll share a bit of myself as an example, I am mixed with mostly Black and Polish. My Black relatives refer to me in jest as "their little white girl" and while my white realitives are accepting sometimes comments are said where they forget I'm actually part Black too.

Most of my friends are white as well, and when I do something either side deems either not ethnic or too ethnic of me, whether its positive or negative to them, their response is "Look your Black/White is coming out!" or I get statements like "Minus 3 Black points", "Your practically white anyway", "Stop acting Black", and a personal favorite: "Don't worry, no one would think you were Black once you opened your mouth". 

This is what ALOT of people of mixed ethnicity deal with. Another example, my half French and Chinese friend Chinese side of the family wont even deal with her properly because she is half white. Also in high school she was told in lesser words she wasn't "Asian" enough by the other Asians to join the Asian culture club.   

So I really don't appreciate ignorant statements such as "It’s like they feel like their biracialness is a get out of jail free card for being offensive" and we are SOOOOO "comfortable" that we feel like we can disrespect our heritage. Not at all. Society, our friends and our own families even set up this construct. It's hard, hurtful and really just plain exhausting fighting it constantly so this is why a lot just end up accepting it and playing into it even. It doesn't hurt as bad if you call it out before someone else does.

That doesn't make saying it okay, not at all, but if you understood anything about what "biracials" go through you wouldn't make such ignorant comments about them.

biracial aggression

“Sorry , that must be my Black coming out.”

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My biracial friend (African American and Mexican). Whenever she does or says something negative she blames it on the “Black” side of her.  Makes me feel angry, belittled, resentful.

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PREACH!

“Hey! White girl! I love you! You are beautiful!”

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Shouted to me on the street 15+ times a day during my study abroad experience in Nicaragua. I never truly understood what...