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I've noticed that people love to hurry. Meals are always quick, coffees are never savoured, glances are fleeting, conversations brief and it feels like this is becoming normal, that people only expect surface level and they only strive for surface level in all aspects of life. Mediocre coffee. Luke-warm love. Convenience. Because life is scary and when you sit with it long enough, and really listen to the silence, you notice what you're missing, and some of what we miss, we know we will never be able to find again.

Seyda Noir

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interrupting your day to tell you to take a stretch break. big stretch. the peaceful kind you see cats do.

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fall in love with small, beautiful things– with sunrises on foggy mornings, warm drinks on cold days, hot soup for a sore throat, cat and dog sightings, long hugs, your favorite songs playing over public speakers, days marked as special on the calendar, compliments from strangers, getting a new shirt you look good in, with your own laughter

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treat yourself with gentle understanding, with patience, with care. acknowledge that you are human, flawed, deserving of your own love.

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Randomly feeling a wave of “I’m so in love with you” when someone does like the silliest shit is the best feeling

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one of my friend said I look a little like Vaani Kapoor in these pictures.. now all I need is a trip to Paris and a french boyfriend to tell me what that song really meant. (at Morjim Beach, Goa) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkxYRwpoYk0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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“Allow me to be messy for a while. You can be with me if you want as I’m unraveling, descending into a jumbled madness. I promise I will sort myself out. I will get back to you. I always do.”

— “Messy”, anastasiasyah

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don’t forget success can have endless different meanings depending on the person and situation. it doesn’t all have to look the same since you can’t compare everyone fairly. your success is your success.

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forgive the past versions of yourself for not knowing then what you learned from them now

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there’s so much time for some of the best days of your life to happen

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think first “will this help me heal?” before reopening old wounds

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progress can come in so many forms.

forming a routine. getting more sleep. showering more often. eating more than one meal a day. finishing an assignment on time. allowing yourself to take breaks when you need them. drinking more water. going outside more. spending more time socializing. not going to events that are draining. cleaning the dishes before they pile up.

some things seem like little steps that we barely acknowledge, but every one of them is a part of progress.

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my favorite childhood memory is having energy

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you know what’s really fun and in style right now? being kind and making others feel loved and valued

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Send me an ask and tell me: what is something people misunderstand most about you?

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wanderlust ➵

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Good relationships don’t just happen. They take time, patience, and two people who truly want to be together.