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there’s people that hate spam liking and i respect that but i simply love to see it. i see 99+ notes and it’s one single person and i’m like go! go! go! go! godspeed!

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adulthood is just telling yourself “and after i’ve done THAT i can finally relax” with increasing desperation

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actually genuinely if you are going to talk about serious topics you need to say the words for the thing you're talking about

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La Push, Washington

La Push is a beautiful village located at the mouth of the Quillayute River on the west coast of the Olympic Peninsula. It's 151-miles from Seattle which is a nearly 4-hour drive. On the southern side of the Quillayute river (where the village itself is located) is First Beach while Rialto Beach is located on the northern side of the river.

With a population of 371 people as of 2000, La Push is the largest community within the Quileute Indian Reservation and home to the Quileute Tribe. Due to the effects of climate change, the community has been forced to move from the coast to higher ground in order to reduce potential damage brought on by tsunamis and flooding. More information can be found here.

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Woah, that's rough haha... BUT TRUE

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Filming people without their consent is a massive issue of not only privacy but ableism that's been going on for many years.

It started out with filming more visibly disabled people, like high support needs autistic people having meltdowns in public and (especially fat) disabled people literally just using mobility aids, but once that was deemed less acceptable it moved to other things. Filming people acting "weird" in public. Eating weird foods. Falling asleep in weird places. Wearing weird things. Stimming. You get the idea. It's no longer safe to be visibly weird in public and that's an issue for a lot of disabled people. I recently had to lay down on the floor of a department store because I had an ME crash while out shopping. Not only did I have to worry about the normal things like people coming up to ask me if I'm ok, I also had to worry about some video of me at my lowest point, when I'm suffering immensely, being shared around as "haha look at this weird bitch on the floor". It's upsetting. It's scary.

And then there's fakeclaiming. A fun trend where people will film us in public to "prove" there's some kind of huge epidemic of people faking disability. Spoiler alert: there is not. Most of the time the people they film are real disabled people who don't fit into the expected mold for disability, usually service dog teams or people who use mobility aids who don't "look sick". And you would think this trend would be some kind of abled nonsense, but it's not. It's often other disabled people doing the fakeclaiming. Yes, there are some times when it's obvious a service dog isn't trained properly, but other than that, it's damn near impossible to tell if someone is faking a disability, and you're much more likely to target a disabled person than a faker. I'd love to say this trend was new, but it's been going on since the days of "the people of walmart" where many of the people posted were fat mobility aid users, always with the assumption that they used it because they were too fat or lazy to move on their own. In fact, the image of a fat person in a mobility cart has become almost synonymous with "lazy". It's one of the things that drove me to get my own expensive power wheelchair, to avoid the judgmental stares in the grocery store when I was just trying to exist, to avoid the fear of public shame. Even now when I stand up from my chair to walk to the bathroom stall or reach something on a high shelf, I watch the corners of my vision for that telltale phone in the air. I feel like I'm never safe from the judgemental eye of the internet, even when I'm logged off, and I'm sure I'm not the only person who feels that way.

Tik Tok, YouTube, Instagram, these places are all great for disabled people, especially those of us without access to the outside world. But it's also become a source of great anxiety for anyone who's uncontrollably "weird", mostly disabled people. Leave us alone, I'm begging you, we just want to go to the fucking grocery store in peace and safety.

Tl;dr

Stop filming people for "acting weird" or "faking a disability" in public. It's ableist, it's invasive, it's creepy, and it's humiliating. People don't exist in public for your amusement and especially not disabled people. You don't know who is disabled and who isn't no matter how many disabled people you've known or how sure you are that the person is faking.

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After the new update I couldn't help but draw this fanart of Ratan. This look is different from the novel's one. I'm a bit disappointed with artists' poor job of looking for references for Shiva!Ratan. Although he is no more than an avatar of a god, at least give the man a few details associated with Shiva (snakes, for example, or tiger/elephant fur)

Nonetheless, I'm happy to finally see his divine form!

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looking for sugar baby to spoil. bachelor’s degree (at least) and excel skills required, 5+ years experience, knowledge of SQL, Python or COBOL highly desired

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…     [   *  lockscreens   ]     :     Twilight film   ,

—  please like and/or reblog if you plan to save.

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Sharing fluff DamiAnya to go through this heat! Fight y'all!! 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

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HBO: Mad Queen Dany hur hur, the signs were all there and you were a dummy for not seeing them sooner sorry sweaty :b

Also HBO: our new show is about the Targs, don’t y’all like them? They’re Princess Daenerys Targaryen™ ancestors, isn’t she super popular and iconic? pls watch our show <3 give us your money <33

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grown man who says yucky and tummyache

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grown man who says yucky and tummyache

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“We are never finished with grief. It is part of the fabric of living. It is always waiting to happen. Love makes memories and life precious; the grief that comes to us is proportionate to that love and is inescapable.”

— V.S Naipaul (via lustingupon)

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He must be protected at all costs 😤