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This is how the inside of my pussy looks like

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I believe you

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My only wish in life right now, is to:

Know who I am

Be confident in that

And

Mind my own fucking business.

Maybe I’m the miracle??

Type shit.

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{ 4 } 🦢FINDING YOUR SIREN SONG🤍

Remember, you must pull from your natural qualities to make music and become magnetic. If you force it, you will make noise and become repellent. (An example of this in pop culture is Chloe Bailey. She’s a naturally seductive and sweet artist but her image is forced and imbalanced. Rihanna for instance, is also naturally seductive and sweet but instead of forcing her sexuality, she blends it well with her light playfulness, making her appeal exude naturally).

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Obedience 2 God

Faith I’m his plan

Gratitude for the present moment and what he has given me

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Acknowledge limerence/ intrusive + persistent thoughts

Building self esteem

- Exploring my shadow self.

Limerence = Lust/Envy

How I see myself. Separate myself from you.

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Focusing on my basic needs and responsibilities

Anxiety due to lack of feeling safe

I need more serotonin so I don’t feel like not having a companion or partner results in a loss of self

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Dopamine doesn’t care about your happiness

Dopamine is called the reward chemical but it doesn't actually provide a lasting sense of reward. It peaks while you're chasing your goals but fades once you reach them. This means if you're counting on feeling happy after achieving something, you'll find yourself constantly searching for the next source of happiness

Serotonin is more linked to contentment and long term well being. It’s connected to feelings of happiness, calmness & emotional stability and gives you a deeper sense of satisfaction & peace

Use positive sources of dopamine to move you forward with your personal goals, but never fall into the habit of depending on it for momentary moments of happiness. You deserve more than that and should give yourself the opportunity to create long term fulfillment through better self awareness, purposeful actions & a healthy balanced life

At the end of the day, motivation, often tied to dopamine, is as fleeting as happiness. Discipline, however brings consistency, progress, and peace regardless of how you feel in the moment

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You are your home. Take care of yourself.

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Be with someone who makes you happy.

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“…the older I get, the more I see how women are described as having gone mad, when what they’ve actually become is knowledgeable and powerful and fucking furious.”

— Sophie Heawood  (via modelcityzen)

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Everyone likes to hear advice that reassures their way of thinking. But good advice challenges you. If you are not where you want to be, you should be more accepting of the latter. Triggers are for growth. If you didn’t need to hear it, it would not trigger you.