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first time tips? can we do it with just a condom or do i also have to take contraceptives?

You dont have to take contraceptives as well. If you use condoms correctly they are about 98% effective at preventing pregnancy, they’re fine to use by themselves.

It might be a good idea to look into some contraception for yourself for the future though. Things go wrong, condoms break or fail, it can be helpful to have a second layer of protection and things like the pill or iud is a safer option long term than relying on plan b in case of emergency. It’s worth considering even if you decide it’s not for you.

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why do i have SO much discharge like ik its normal but it feels like i get my period its so bad

That happens.

You might notice that the big discharge days are happening at certain points in your cycle. Discharge changes consistency and amount through the different phases of your cycle.

If there’s a lot in your undies and it’s feeling too wet to be comfortable you can wipe it up with toilet paper or just change your undies

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how do you squirt if you don’t have a vibrator or a dildo… and i have acrylics so i can’t really finger myself..

You can squirt just from rubbing your clit yourself but it will just be a lot more work and your hand will be sore. But definitely possible

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hi! i know this might be a weird question, but how can you tell if you're about to squirt, or just pee? i've been with a guy a couple of times, and every time he fingers me, i swear i feel like my "bladder" is going to explode, but i've heard people say that's how squirting feels. i've even gone into the hangout without drinking water that day, but i was still too afraid to do it so i stopped him before i could.

Yep it feels the same but squirting happens during sexual pleasure.

What you’ve described sounds like squirting. If you’re nervous I’d say try it out by yourself first.

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So I never payed attention to sex ed in class like never I would always sleep theoguth that so like I’m embarrassed ask how do you know which whole is the right one if you wanna finger?

So there’s 3 holes down there. The urethra, the vagina, and the anus.

The urethra is where urine comes from and it’s tiny so you’re not going to accidentally put your finger in that one.

The vagina is the hole you want to be fingering. That’s the hole where your wetness will be coming from when you’re horny.

The anus is the asshole.

Have a look in a mirror if you want and see if you can identify all the openings.

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heyyy!!

help a girl out pls,

is it bad that i stopped talking to this guy yesterday and am now being set up with my friends boyfriends friend?

No. Do whatever you want. I would say that just ‘talking’ to someone doesn’t really need any down time after it ends. As long as you feel comfortable with it all is well

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is it normal to be masturbating at 15? me and my bsf do but our other mates give us shit for it?

Yes totally normal

Everyone is at different points in their journey at that age so it’s possible your other friends aren’t there yet. But it is very common to be masturbating at that age and most people start even younger.

Conversations about these topics often are a bit awkward and taboo when you’re young. It gets easier and more open to talk about with time. And you can always correct those friends. Masturbation is totally normal and healthy.

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So me and my boyfriend have done some stuff like oral and stuff like that and I wanna do stuff more frequently, but I always get really nervous when it comes down to it and with giving him head I really wanna do it but I just get really nervous and psych myself out. I wanna be able to do sexual stuff more but I don't know how to give indications that I want to in the moment.

The best way to give an indication that you want something is to just say it. No one can read minds and if it’s new for you then you’re both probably being extra cautious not to push too far.

“Can I touch ___?”

“I want to ____, is that ok?”

“Please do ___”

Those are the easiest ways to say something. Or just say it however feels best for you.

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Js leaving it here 🤗

I love it thank u

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I just bought a dildo and I'm scared 💔 what if my stepdad picks up the package tmrw and knows what it is

Oops I’m late answering this one. Usually the packages don’t say what it is. Was it ok?

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chat im SOOO horny on my period and i feel like i just need to buss a nut so bad like i crave it but im on day 2 and the flow is very heavy help

Do it

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Heyy Issy i wanted to say how much i love your blog i hope one day i can be as good as writing fics lyy

-Love Sarah :)

Aw thank you! Ily

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hii issy um i know u do sex ed questions and i don’t know if this counts as one but how do you ride a pillow and actually get pleasure out of it?? i feel so awkward asking but um yeah🙃🙃

It’s not something that everyone enjoys but if you want to try I’ve made a post about it before with some tips -> here

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hii issy, i’ve seen that your an aussie same as me, i just wanted your opinion on this.

me and my friend group which is a mix of boys and girls are planning a schoolies trip, but making it our own trip without schoolies, and all the girls are bringing their boyfriends.

i’m talking to this guy and i don’t know if it’s going to go any further than what it is now. he’s asked me to go out on a date but i was unable to go bc of home life. but he doesn’t talk to me at school or in person at all, it’s always just over snapchat.

my one friend wants me to invite him so it makes our airbnb cheaper, but all the other girls laughed and kinda gave judgy looks when i told them i might invite the guy i’m talking to.

i didn’t want to invite this guy until i knew we were going to go further, but i asked him to come anyways and he said yes.

my only problem is that we don’t talk at all in person, but he wants to hang out outside of school and come schoolies, but not talk to me at school at all.

what should i do about this? any help is great. 😊🫠

Me personally I would not be inviting this guy to schoolies. If he refuses to speak to you at school that’s a red flag.

I think that’s probably why the other girls laughed at the suggestion. It sounds like this guy is mostly a stranger. And schoolies is still months away so you don’t know if you’ll still be talking to him by the time you go.

If you start hanging out with him in person and he starts actually talking to you in public/at school then yeah invite him if you want to. But until then I think it’s probably not the best idea for him to stay with you.

I’d suggest letting him know that he needs to start acknowledging you in public and hanging out with you if he wants to come to schoolies with you. Let him know he might be uninvited if he doesn’t as it would be awkward.

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Lmao I love adding people on quick add and then telling them off for not using manners when they send wyll

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thank you!🩷

No worries! Happy to help 💕

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hi! so this might be a little tmi, but i honestly feel like i have a uti. (i’m not sexually active but i do use like toys on myself A LOT if that helps anything) i woke up abt 15-20 min ago w a very strong urge to pee, then i went, and it like burned a little bit at the beginning but not too much to where it hurt. then i went back to my bed, and still had to go pee, even tho i literally emptied out EVERYTHING. like it almost felt like i was horny but i’m not?? then, i went back to the bathroom and peed a very tiny amount and went back to bed. still felt the same way. searched up what it could be and google said it could be a uti. now back in the bathroom for the 3rd time, and just typing this and trying to pee again.

Yes frequent urination can be a symptom of a UTI usually it is also accompanied with pain when urinating

If you think you have a UTI you should go to the doctor and get a test and antibiotics to treat it. You can also get some home remedies like Ural tablets or cranberry juice but those are not as effective. If you can go to the doctor you definitely should.

Also you don’t have to be sexually active to get a UTI. People get them all the time from things not related to sex. It could be from irritation from clothing, hygiene stuff, sickness in the rest of your body, etc