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Cutie patootie 🫶

𝑳𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒎𝒐𝒐𝒏 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌

𝑪𝒉𝒓𝒊𝒔 𝑺𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏𝒊𝒐𝒍𝒐

ⓘ 𝒇𝒍𝒖𝒇𝒇!・bf!chris・cuddling・pet names + more.

The quietness of the night was only ever broken by the sound of Chris’ contentment as your fingers carded through his fluffy brown locks, gently scratching and massaging his scalp in a way that had his eyelids fluttering.

"Feels soo good, baby... mmh–right there." Chris rasped, nuzzling his head further into your hand as his eyes fluttered shut. His arm was draped loosely around your waist and face nuzzled in your tits, inhaling your comforting scent.

"Here?" You massaged a spot on his head that made him let out a soft contented moan.

"Yeah, riight there," he mumbled, voice thick with pleasure.

His eyes slowly fluttered open again and he pulled back slightly so he could look at your face. His eyes searched yours, looking into them with affection and pure adoration.

"I love you." He suddenly said. "Love you so much."

Your eyes softened and the corners of your lips tugged upwards with a small smile.

Chris was never one to be afraid to show his love. He was never afraid to tell you that he loved you, and even with the amount of times he has told you that he loved you—it always felt like the first time.

"Yeah?" You teased, making him chuckle.

"Yeah." Chris’ expression turned grim as he responded with faux seriousness, his brows furrowed subtly.

"I love you too... even more than you love me." His brows immediately relaxed as he chuckled at your words, eyes crinkling at the corners. Warmth spread through his chest, finding you absolutely adorable.

Chris loved hearing you say those three words back to him and he would never get tired of quiet nights like these, cuddling with you in bed and just simply enjoying the intimacy that came so naturally between you.

"Nah, that’s impossible. You’re literally my everything—my world..." He trailed off before continuing in a more playful tone. "And I love you to the moon and back." His words – along with the tone he used – made you giggle, and your giggle made his smile soften.

His arm tightened ever so slightly around your waist, almost unconsciously like he couldn’t get enough of the closeness.

"Cliché," you commented, "but you’re cute so I’ll let it slide."

Chris couldn’t help but chuckle again, pulling you closer until his face was back to being buried in your tits. His voice was soft, almost vulnerable, when he spoke after a while, muffled by your skin.

"I love your everything, even your love for me."

˖ ݁𖥔 ݁˖ 𝒆𝒏𝒈𝒍𝒊𝒔𝒉 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒇𝒊𝒓𝒔𝒕 𝒍𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒖𝒂𝒈𝒆.ᐟ | 𝒘𝒄 – 𝟎.𝟒 𝒌 ˖ ݁𖥔 ݁˖

Isa’s rambling ۶ৎ Something short and fluffy (kinda cheesy and cringe but who cares) since I fucking hate the shit that was said about Chris, and I, myself, needed this.

© 𝒔𝒘𝒆𝒆𝒕𝒔𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒂

[issysh3ll]

i achieve an unbelievable amount of horny when im ovulating..😞🤰🤰🤰😩😩😩

We love it

[issysh3ll]

how do I buy a vibrator discreetly💔

There’s a few ways. I’ve made another post about it -> here

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hi issy! i have a question! it might be tmi, but i think you work with stuff like this sooo! uhm anyways, is it normal to feel disgusted with myself after masturbation? is there anyway i can stop this? thank you!

Sadly a lot of people do experience this. I’ve answered in more detail -> here

You shouldn’t be feeling guilty or ashamed after masturbating. Masturbation is a totally normal and healthy part of life, there is nothing wrong with doing it and it actually provides a lot of health benefits.

Usually if you are feeling bad after sexual pleasure it’s because of past experiences, upbringing, lack of education, or due to social views & pressures. You’ll have to do some self work to decide which of those factors is affecting you.

To address the issue once you identify the cause you can do all sorts of things. Meditating, journaling, self aftercare, sex education, therapy etc.

[issysh3ll]

What is even going on. Why can’t people just be nice anymore.

[issysh3ll]

Trying so hard not to crash out right now

[issysh3ll]

For real. I decided he’s scared of me bc I’m so cool 😎

(But Im going to his game tmr so idk how long the ghosting will last)

I have officially left hockey boy on read bc he just sent me the driest response ever.

He definitely deserves that like c'mon now

(I hate dry texters like bro stop being nonchalant or js say you don't wanna talk to me you're making me overthink)

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Issy help

I have like 0 pleasure from penetration (I have a cooch btw) but I’ve never had sex and I only use like a 3 inch dildo so like is it that? Idk bruh I’m stressed

It might be that

I’d usually suggest starting with your fingers before trying a dildo. You can get a bit more control and it’s easier to get the right angle that way.

I’ve also made a post with some tips about making fingering enjoyable -> here

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I really appreciate all your sex ed posts, I've mostly had what I consider to be success with my partner so far but getting a refresher on everything I've learned and hearing some new things is very nice!

My question is in regards to some advice I probably need. While as I said I am pretty content with everything my partner and I have done, he is very anxious about making sure I am having a good time, and although I have done my best to reassure him that it isn't something I see as a necessity, he is very fixated on getting me to cum.

Because of this, I have begun lying to him occasionally. Any time I thought was especially good, I've exaggerated and told him I climaxed, coming up with a moment to reference that sounds plausible. I am aware this is sadly common for people with vaginas such as myself, to feel pressured into lying for their partner's sake, but I really do not want to remain in this category.

This is a pretty significant lie, as I have actually not been able to finish at all in a few months. I've been doing stuff with my own body basically since as early as I can remember, and definitely often experienced things that I would assume were reaching climax. But in the past few years it has become more difficult to get myself to that point, especially recently. In all of my experiences with him, I have never reached that same level of pleasure I was able to get on my own when I was very young. (Perhaps my memories are rose-tinted due to time though). I've had some very good moments with him that then faded, but they were vague enough and not intense enough for me to feel like I can definitely call them "cumming" but they're as much as I've ever been able to achieve with him.

How common is it to not be able to tell whether one has reached climax or not, purely by sensation?

How should I explain to my partner that I've been lying about this? He has significant trust issues and my goal is to be as honest as I can, but I'm also a people pleaser and want him to feel comfortable and happy about how he is treating me, it stresses him out a great deal. I genuinely feel satisfied without reaching climax most of the time, my favorite aspects of sex with another person are all mental and power-dynamic related, or sensations elsewhere in my body. Sure it would be a benefit if it could happen more easily, with higher quality, but I have a few ideas on how to solve that and I do not feel we've hit a dead end. I want to stop lying into the future, but I don't think I can do both that and keep my past lies a secret. It would be a huge blow to his self-esteem and really ramp up his fears and worries if it just seemed like he wasn't able to get me to cum anymore. But also of course it would be very painful for him to realize that he's probably never actually been able to get me to climax at all. So as much as I hate it, the lie seems like it must be drawn out infinitely into the future (unless somehow we magically start having incredible sex that always makes me cum)

I figure I should talk to a sex therapist or my current regular therapist, but it's a very awkward topic and I don't know where to start looking for someone specifically trained to discuss sexual troubles.

(Long post)

Hmmmm ok so

I think it definitely sounds like the pressure he’s putting on you is making it harder to cum. Stress and anxiety effect sexual pleasure a lot so if there’s been pressure on you for a while it can prevent orgasms and effect you in solo play too.

Unfortunately that’s really common from men. They make a big fuss about wanting you to cum and saying they’re trying so hard but he’s not actually doing anything different or anything for you. That might be something to think about. When he’s putting all this pressure on you, is he actually doing anything to try to help you, is he actually focusing on your pleasure, or is he just saying that and then doing his own thing.

It’s definitely something to talk to him about. I understand not wanting to upset him or stress him out but realistically you’re just causing yourself more harm by avoiding the conversation. And he’s been causing you stress and upset by doing all this. If bringing the topic up with him seems like it would cause a meltdown from him that might be separate issue.

Definitely I agree you should stop faking it. That won’t be helping your body get back to achieving the pleasure you want and it won’t help him learn. Being honest during sex about what is working for you and what isn’t will help as well. So after you’ve spoken to him, let him know you are going to be working on speaking up during intimacy as well. That way you both are trying to improve and it’s not just all on him.

When you talk to him about it I think it will probably be easier to address one thing at a time. So just focus on the pressure making it more difficult for you. See how the conversation goes and you can bring up the faking it if it seems like a good time. If you’re nervous maybe you can practice what you want to say before you talk to him. I’ll put a few good openers below for you.

I think it might be helpful to come in with a few suggestions that you think will be helpful for you. To try to make it seem more constructive rather than just telling him off.

And always pay attention to how he responds to what you’re telling him. Is he actually listening and wanting to improve or is he just throwing a tantrum bc you can’t cum on command. Or somewhere in between that etc. His response is important and might change how you should approach this issue, or it might reveal that this is actually stemming from another issue.

Ideas for what to say:

“Hey, I know you want me to enjoy myself when we are intimate but I’ve noticed that the insistence for me to cum is actually making it harder for me to get there. Can we try just aiming for feeling good and enjoying the moment instead of trying to create some end goal? It makes it easier for me to enjoy the feeling when I’m not worried about reaching some kind of finish line.”

“I’ve noticed that I’m feeling a lot of pressure from you to orgasm when we’re intimate. I understand that you want me to enjoy myself but that pressure is actually making it harder for me. Can we maybe try taking the pressure off a bit and just try to have fun and relax?”

“I’m feeling a little pressured to perform in the bedroom lately. I know you want me to enjoy myself but sometimes when you ask me repeatedly if I’ve finished I find that stressful. It might be easier for me to enjoy and reach that point if we take the pressure off a little. Maybe instead of asking if I’m cumming you can ask me what I need or what I want you to do to make me feel good.”

These are just some suggestions for how to start the conversation. Adjust them however you need. Make sure you are honest about how the pressure is affecting you and ask him to stop. Try suggesting something else he can do that you will find less stressful. If he responds well to the first thing, i think you should try suggesting some more things he can do for you during sex or before/after that would make you enjoy it more. Eg rubbing your clit while he’s inside, oral before/after, talking you through it, after care things etc.

Maybe keep it to three suggestions so you don’t overwhelm him. You can always add more later once he’s tried the first few and ready for more.

I know it’s scary to bring these things up but it will make things better for you in the long run

The sex therapy thing I’m all for. I love sex therapy. But this doesn’t sound to me like it’s a problem within you. It sounds like it’s a relationship struggle. If your partner makes the changes you ask for and still nothing helps, and you are still struggling during masturbating too, that would be when sex therapy is a good idea.

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how do you know your vagina is ready for penetrative sex? i remember you saying if takes 25 minutes for the vagina to prepare for penetration - so what are the signs that you’re ready? i don’t want my first time having sex to hurt, i find it hard to even put a tampon in 😢

Basically it’s just when you feel like you’re wet enough and horny enough. There’s no definite sign or a green light or anything so it’s all just up to how you feel and when you think your body is ready.

That’s why I say it’s so important to have explored your body yourself before partner sex. It’s a lot easier to recognise when your vagina is ready if you have already got some experience with how it should feel. (Fingering, toys etc)

But if you’re having pain with putting in a tampon or fingering or it feels like you’re hitting a wall, that might be vaginismus.

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so i used to breastfeed my baby like 2 years ago and when i did my boobs hurt and they still hurt the same way that they used to and they still feel dry and like cracked up

The pain might be an issue for the doctor. There’s a few things it could be

The dry and cracked thing is very common for people who are breastfeeding. There’s some great creams you can get from the pharmacy or you can just use normal moisturiser

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issy i wanna send this freaky text to this guy and im LITERALLY freaking out over it but im literally the dominant one in the relationship, ive just never said anything this bold to a guy before and i dunno what to do i feel so sick SAVE ME

What’s the text?? I love sending freaky texts

[issysh3ll]

My nursing teacher complaned about a work she didnt ask for, or told us about the material we would need to do the work

Can I use her as a test drive of murder?

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─────── ⵌ FRATBOY!CHRIS x SHY!READER [ texts ] shy!reader asks fratboy!chris to rate juno positions.

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[issysh3ll]

happy early anzac day chat 😛

Happy ANZAC day!! 🌺 (there’s no poppy emoji)

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Facts. I’m begging

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Everywhere. Immediately

Well, yes please. where- when?