inkstainedwanderer

[inkstainedwanderer]

I was on NuP and Ver too!

petsites i've played: neopets (duh), subeta, aywas, chickensmoothie, lioden, leporidae, meowr, goatlings, teripets + verpets + nutrinopets (dead, rest in peace)

petsites that held my attention for longer than a week: neopets, subeta, aywas, lioden, chickensmoothie, teripets (RIP)

petsites i haven't lost a login for at least once: lioden, chickensmoothie (although i refuse to sign into lioden bc it's filled with the most frustrating kind of preteen & KF-er adjacent adults)

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pssssst...

guess what.

you deserve to be happy.

pass it on.

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Well then I guess dough made with bug water tastes good.

I've worked in plenty of kitchens and I'm always asked if I cant eat there because I know how the food is made. The answer is always no. Life is too shitty for me to ruin the things I like that easy.

ill start beef with you, the only thing better in US style pizza than chicago deep dish is detroit deep dish, like Jets.

Chicago Style Deep Dish Pizza is the worst variety of pizza known to man. It's truly fit for consumption only by rats and tourists. If you want good chicago pizza you need to get thin crust square cut Tavern Style Pizza.

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Been to Chicago, Detroit, and NYC. NYC had pizza so good I dreamt about it once I got back to michigan and got sad I couldnt get more. Thin crust isnt usually for me but it just tasted so good.

ill start beef with you, the only thing better in US style pizza than chicago deep dish is detroit deep dish, like Jets.

Chicago Style Deep Dish Pizza is the worst variety of pizza known to man. It's truly fit for consumption only by rats and tourists. If you want good chicago pizza you need to get thin crust square cut Tavern Style Pizza.

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I’m paying to force seven thousand strangers to see a photo of my late husband having fun with his dog. Tumblr Blaze is totally worth it. XD

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dunno who needs to hear this but making fun of intersex and nonbinary identities for not fitting into your close minded views is not punk and is not "helping" the trans community. pussy.

EDIT: oml their blog has a whole rant about how punk isn't political its about the art and being angry and how facism isn't that bad.. fuckin poser over here oml

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Reblog this to ease the back pain of the person you reblogged it from

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I got The Void.

I picked villain, but more like I would absolutely become some creepy horror character who protagonists constantly invite themselves into my home and when scaring them doesnt work out, I let the void eat them.

And before anyone says I can "talk" to them, I'm severely socially anxious, depressed, and pretty much agoraphobic. There is no talking to home intrudors or getting to know my neighbors. The Void would stop me because it can sense I would rather throw myself into it than talk to strangers. This would be the case of mentally ill conflated with evil becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

You discover that you have control over a certain thing, as determined by spinning this wheel. We're talking full-on magical girl/superhero/supervillain/your label of choice control.

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I've said it before but the mile long bios where people list every single slogan for any activist movement they possibly can, the vast majority being things they will NEVER actually talk about in any meaningful way, is both performative and deeply annoying but I also just saw someone put "etc" in one of those lists and I don't know how people don't realize how fake and ridiculous they sound.

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@imthemuthafuckingcricket

HoLy FuCk

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also I am sick TO DEATH of the nonsense argument people use to justify their extremely broad, sweeping plans with no safety protocols by saying "Well I didn't LITERALLY mean total prison abolition for every incarcerated person on the planet, I didn't LITERALLY mean we should get rid of the police completely and use mob justice, ~I'm being hyperbolic to adjust the overton window~"

Yeah and you also screamed and swore and threw giant tantrums any time anyone said to "hey, love what you're doing here mostly, just a quick question: how do we keep people safe from abuse and violence?"

This is a method that does not work. "Putting unreasonable demands on the table to negotiate down" is not how you win over hearts and minds to your cause. Also, if you don't actually mean what you're saying, stop fucking yelling at people who ask you to clarify what you actually do mean because they sincerely want to know!

Aggressively campaigning for extremist positions you don't actually hold because you just want to "spark conversation" or "shift the overton window" is still aggressively campaigning for extremist positions. It drives me bonkers that people will do this and then sit there all smug as though they didn't just shoot themselves in the foot by making themselves indistinguishable from aggressive extremists.

If it quacks like a duck, it might just be a duck.

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Hot take but I really do think that some of y’all need to consider how/why/when/how often you’re making fun of straight people for being straight

I do it too, I’m not going to pretend I don’t make jokes about the hets, or the down with cis bus, or whatever

But I recently befriended a cis, straight dude and I have watched him be dismissed, degraded, and unambiguously insulted for the perceived “crime” of being straight — all in queer environments where he is allegedly “completely welcome” and surrounded by “friends”

This guy is not a toxic person! But I have seen him be made to feel so small and like his comfort and safety in those spaces are conditional on his silence and acceptance of being treated like a human dunk zone, and I think that some of y’all have had so much shit from straight/cis people that the second you feel like you’ve got an inch, you want to luxuriate in the perceived catharsis of bullying someone who— actually —doesn’t deserve it

And until he very, very carefully mentioned to me in private that it makes him feel bad, I didn’t even clock that I was involved in doing that, that it had become so instinctive for me to make casual jokes like that, and that— well meaning or otherwise —I had been contributing to an environment that made someone I really really like feel like shit

So, I dunno, I think maybe some of y’all should think about that too

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TFW people plan a mental health intervention for you and then dont show up.

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idk seems like the experience of every "gifted kid" to me.

its funny how stolas is SAID to be like a nerdy bookworm (all the bookshelves in his room, the big library room, yapping to blitzo about his books in the circus episode, getting all excited to read the contract in oops, etc etc) and yet every time it cuts to him hes just watching tv . and in apology tour he references some romcom movie.

like they never show him reading a book in his downtime??? or reference some poems he likes???? not even a hint of distress about losing all his access to his books in sinsmas??? (yeah theres bigger issues to worry about but still)

#makestolasnerdyagain

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If my friends get upset for being the butt of the joke all the time, then I would be a shitty friend to ignore that and they deserve better. Friends are not punching bags, and even if we normally do edgy jokes, the moment they say something is going too far or is too uncomfortable that is all that's needed to be a good friend and stop. If you keep going that is bullying and you are a bully. Them being straight, white, or cis doesnt mean their feelings arent valid or shouldnt be listened to.

i think theres a lot to be said about the queer community online and the echo chambers that are created within it, and i think the fact that "bullying straight people for being straight is in fact a dick move" is a hot take really says more than anything else

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If you want everyone to have a fair trial with the presumption of innocence, you might need to get less hyped about vigilante justice.