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“Sometimes you have to lose your mind before you come to your senses.”

— Socrates

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“There are two reasons why people don’t talk about things; either it doesn’t mean anything to them, or it means everything.”

— Unknown

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“Youre not in love with me, not really, you just love the way I always made you feel. Like you were the center of my world. Because you were. I would have done anything for you.”

— Abby McDonald

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Slowly accepting the fact that no matter how deep the bond is, no matter how happy those memories are, the day will come you'll end up taking different paths and move on.

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i’m a very observant person, so if you think i didn’t notice, i did. i just decided to keep quiet.

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Blog Post: Reflections on “Marry My Husband” and the Dynamics of Friendships in Relationships

Recently, I’ve been watching the K-drama “Marry My Husband,” and it has brought to light some thought-provoking dynamics about friendships and relationships. In the show, Ji Won’s best friend, Su Min, and her boyfriend, Min Hwan, cheat on her. This storyline made me realize the importance of setting boundaries when it comes to having friends tag along on dates.

It’s natural to want to include friends in our lives and experiences, but we must remember that boundaries are essential. Unconsciously, people can become too comfortable with each other, potentially neglecting their partner as they focus more on the friend. This can lead to misunderstandings and feelings of being sidelined, which can strain the relationship.

Another aspect the show highlights is the subtle interactions on social media. Liking photos of your partner’s friends is generally okay, but comparisons should be avoided. The line between friendly appreciation and uncomfortable comparisons can often blur, causing unnecessary tension.

“Marry My Husband” has definitely pushed some of my trigger buttons. It reminded me of a personal experience where I felt overshadowed. We took a picture together, and when I looked through the photos later, I noticed that in most of our photos together, my face was blurry while hers was perfectly focused. I tried to hide my upset feelings and pretended it was okay. To make matters worse, he even compared us indirectly, saying my friend was easier to take photos of because I’m shy and “maarte.” Like, okay, you don’t have to be mean. Ultimately, I only kept the decent photos and deleted the rest, not wanting to dwell on it or create drama, but it stung that time, nonetheless.

From this, and inspired by the show, I’ve concluded that inviting friends along on dates should be done sparingly and with clear boundaries. Ensuring that your partner feels valued and prioritized is crucial to maintaining a healthy relationship.

“Marry My Husband” is a compelling drama that touches on real-life issues, and while it may push your buttons, it also offers valuable lessons. So, if you’re in the mood for a show that challenges your perspectives on relationships, give it a watch. Just remember, boundaries are key, both in the real world and the world of K-dramas.

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“It was that kind of mindfuck: to be too visible and invisible at the same time, in the ways it mattered the most.”

— Lisa Ko, The Leavers

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it’s exhausting to get mad. I might just disappear.

Stop chasing people who are fine with losing you.

-@lipikkawrites

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A little more and I’m out. I need to stop torturing myself.

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tapos na ulit ang free trial. Back to normal na ulit.

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“Maturity begins when we’re content to feel we’re right about something, without feeling the necessity to prove someone else is wrong.”

— Sydney J. Harris

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“The broken ones will always be able to love harder than most. Once you’ve been in the dark, you learn to appreciate everything that shines.”

— Unknown