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Kale Detox Salad w/ Pesto

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I don’t understand why men still don’t realize that the master key to a woman’s heart is safety. Make her feel SAFE in every way & you’ll have the woman of your dreams.

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‪I can’t be around ugly people. I don’t mean appearance wise either. I mean attitude. Your soul. The way you think. The way you speak. The way you act. I don’t vibe with unattractive spirits.‬

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All that overthinking and I was right

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🫶🏽💕 ^^^ ME!

Something I’ve learned about myself: I CANNOT love properly without romance. I’m a whole lover & I need that in return. Anything less to me is settling & I ain’t wit it.

& no…it’s not about the extravagant gifts… which I do love but it’s the little things. Romancing is in correlation with sacrifices. To love is to sacrifice & to choose. Your time, your love, your energy. Little moments of thinking about me. Small gestures of love everyday. Tiny reminders of loving me in my love language. Genuine consideration & gratitude of me being in your life! & those grand gestures & gifts can be saved for special occasions 😂🤞🏽💕

But to love me is to romance me.

Period.

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Present yourself how you wanna be treated.

You set the tone.

You set the vibe.

You make the rules.

You teach people how to treat you.

Save the “casual-ness” for those worthy of it.

Don’t just “let things slide” because you’re “doing someone a favor”

No. There are NO FAVORS when it comes to your worth.

If they’re late- they don’t get another chance unless they make it up.

If they’re making excuses- excuse yourself out of the equation.

If you have a certain love language that they are not willing to love you in - why compromise?

If you are being “bread crumbed” follow that trail back HOME.

You literally hold your standard in your hands.

Do not allow or let someone change or shift what you already know to be TRUE, PRESENT and VALUABLE in your life.

Even the small things. The little things.

You deserve all of that and you need to make sure that someone who is pursuing you understands that boundaries and standards are not just ways to protect yourself but a FINE LINE and the ONLY way to your heart, your space, your mind, your time and your life.

Stop settling for mediocre. Stop giving away free passes. Stop allowing yourself to be taken for granted.

People know exactly how to treat you bc YOU TEACH THEM.

How?

BY LOVING YOURSELF FIRST and allowing someone to see how you do and then proceed to follow.

So love yourself OUT LOUD, how you want to be loved and then love others the same way.

Don’t let some manipulative or narcissistic person come into your life changing things around.

This is YOUR LIFE. You hold the standards. You are the prize.