hopepilledstrugglemaxxer

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

the nitro cold brew is an evil drink

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

been listening to this band miranda sex garden a lot recently.. if any of u like goth music or want to incorporate more woman artists into ur playlist they are an amazing woman fronted band...

this album especially goes crazy

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

i am so tired of moids with "anger issues." i had "anger issues" as a kid because of my autism and familial issues but you know what i did? i realized i was hurting others without wanting to so learned how to deal with it and got help so i would stop. YOU CAN DO THAT TOO! i am so tired of dealing with moids and their anger issues. disclaimer i realize there are legitimate issues people can have when it comes to regulating anger but the majority of moids who claim this to use as a carte blanche for never learning to control their anger/short fuse do not have those.

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

i was in a seminar the other week and we were discussing the us election results and this one white woman (relevant fact for later) was talking about why kamala lost and she said "kamala's campaign focused too much on abortion and abortion is a white woman's issue." i pushed back but she was like "well other reproductive issues matter more to nonwhite women." 1 - Kamala's campaign focused a lot on abortion because the republican campaign has a MASSIVE focus on destroying what remains of american women's abortion rights 2 - literally no??? abortion is not a white woman's issue it's an ALL woman issue??? i think her point was that medical reproductive discrimination disproportionately affects women of colour especially black women so therefore they would care more about the ability to safely reproduce rather than end an unwanted pregnancy. which doesn't make sense because abortion rights have an insane impact on how ALL of women's reproductive health is handled - not just abortion. 3 - the majority of women of colour voted for kamala so her focus on abortion clearly did not turn them away?? this comment has bothered me for like three weeks now. i feel like more broadly people are diminishing the importance of all women's issues by calling them white woman problems. disclaimer there are somethings that ARE white woman problems, but the majority of what people say are "white woman problems" to diminish their concerns are extremely valid things that hurt all women. lord save us

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

girls doing better than boys in school and the rise of anti-intellectualism is not a coincidence, I fear

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

a homage to Sappho - Norman Lindsay c.1928

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

Icon.

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

men are like “I can kill you with my bare hands so you kinda owe me sexual favors for not doing it”

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

me 5 years from now hacking into the sex robot software and programming them to decapitate the men who purchased them

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

The psychic violence in pornography is unbearable in and of itself. It acts on one like a bludgeon until one's sensibility is pummelled flat and one's heart goes dead. One becomes numb. Everything stops, and one looks at the pages or pictures and knows: this is what men want, and this is what men have had, and this is what men will not give up. As lesbian-feminist Karla Jay pointed out in an article called "Pot, Porn, and the Politics of Pleasure," men will give up grapes and lettuce and orange juice and Portuguese wine and tuna fish, but men will not give up pornography.

-Andrea Dworkin, Letters From a War Zone

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

my I Love Abortion and Hate Porn t shirt is raising many questions already answered by my shirt

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

I can’t believe some people really think that if you’re against porn and prostitution, then you’re also against sex. Painting us as conservative puritan bitches is just a lazy way of ignoring what we’re saying. 

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

Being a feminist is having a million different groups of women shouting “I HATE YOUUUU DUMB UGLY BITCH” at you and having to be like love you too honey

[hopepilledstrugglemaxxer]

do you analyze your shame and try to free yourself from it or do you treat it as an instinct that you follow?

discuss..