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Faded. Shadows.

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Hey 2017. Please remember this.

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The Brandon Woelfel Inspired Shoot.

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Happiness depends upon ourselves. Maybe it's not about the happy ending, maybe it's about the story. The purpose of life is a life of purpose. The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra. Happiness is a direction not a destination. Thank you for existing. Be happy, be free, believe, forever young. You know my name, not my story. You have heard what I've done, but not what I've been through. Love is like glass, looks so lovely but it's easy to shatter. Love is rare, life is strange, nothing lasts and people change. Every day is special, so make the most of it, you could get a life ending illness tomorrow so make the most of every day. Life is only bad if you make it bad. If someone loves you, then they wouldn't let you slip away no matter how hard the situation is. Remember that life is full of ups and downs. Never give up on something you can’t go a day without thinking about. I want to be that girl who makes the bad days better and the one that makes you say my life has changed since I met her! Love is not about how much you say I love you – it’s about how much you can prove it’s true. Love is like the wind, you can feel it but you can't see it. I'm waiting to fall in love with someone I can open my heart to. Love is not about who you can see spending your future with, it's about who you can't see spending your life without... Life is a game for everyone but love is the prize. Only I can judge me. Sometimes love hurts. Now I’m fighting myself.  Baby I can feel your pain. Dreams are my reality. It hurts but it’s okay, I’m used to it. Don't be quick to judge me, you only see what I choose to show you... you don't know the truth. I just want to have fun and be happy without being judged. This is my life, not yours, don't worry about what I do. People gonna hate you, rate you, break you, but how strong you stand, that’s what makes you… you! There's no need to cry because I know you'll be by my side.

Athena Orchard

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“Someone can be madly in love with you and still not be ready. They can love you in a way you have never been loved and still not join you on the bridge. And whatever their reasons you must leave. Because you never ever have to inspire anyone to meet you on the bridge. You never ever have to convince someone to do the work to be ready. There is more extraordinary love, more love that you have never seen, out here in this wide and wild universe. And there is the love that will be ready. ”

Nayyirah Waheed

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360° Epic Selfie Adventure

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Rule # 3: Loving Someone or Being In Love

kala ko dati pareho lang iba pala. (Try to read this thing to know there difference)

It's definitely different when you love someone and when you're inlove with someone explanation:

Alin nga ba ang mas malalim?

Loving someone or Being in love with someone?

Marami sa atin ang na confuse tungkol dito. Ikaw ba ay may girlfriend o boyfriend o ka-something ngayon?

Mahal mo ba siya pero parang may isang tao na parang mahalaga din sayo o may mahal ka na akala mo eh mahal mo nga siya pero meron ka pa rin isang tao na minamahal  ng totoo.

Kapag Love mo ang isang tao masaya ka.. Feeling mo ok na ang lahat pero ang ma-inlove ka, ang siyang pinakamasakit sa lahat! 

Bakit?

Kasi ang mga taong inlove ay ang mga taong nagsasakripisyo at nagpaparaya. Teka bakit ka nga ba nagpaparaya? Dahil ba hindi ka niya mahal o dahil hindi ka siguradong ok lang sa kanya? Kung yan ang dahilan mo, walang duda na inlove ka nga sa kanya.

Kasi iniisip mo kung anong meron kayo sa ngayon ang tanging mahalaga at kontento ka na. Pero isipin mo paano kung mawala ang taong yon at talagang hindi na kayo mag-usap at magkita, kaya mo ba?

Paano naman kung sayo siya inlove at ibinigay niya ang lahat para sayo pero hindi mo napahalagahan ang lahat ng ito kaagad.

Paano kung isang araw naguluhan na siya sayo ng husto at maisipang lumayo na lang? 

Paano kung sa sobrang pagiging iba mo sa kanya di ka na niya kausapin at tuldukan na niya ng tuluyan kung ano na ang meron kayo? Then bigla mong na realize kung gaano kaimportante sayo ang bawat isa kaya lang wala na siya,

Kaya mo ba? Kung hindi ang sagot mo, malinaw na Inlove ka nga.

Paano naman pag Mahal mo lang?

kapag Mahal mo lang, alam mo na palagi kang may choice, ayaw mo siyang mawala dahil alam mong wala kang ipapalit. Yung masaya ka sa kanya pero sa gabi hindi naman siya ang iniisip mo. 

Mahal mo siya pero aminado ka sa sarili mo na balang araw hindi siya ang pakakasalan mo.

Mahal mo siya pero ang puso mo hindi lang para sa kanya.

Mahal mo siya at masasaktan ka pagnawala siya pero alam mo na kaya mo yon.

   Anong nararamdaman mo ngayon:

DO YOU LOVE SOMEONE or YOU'RE INLOVE WITH SOMEONE?

Isang araw magigising ka na lang na INLOVE ka na nga pero kahit anong gawin mo ay huli na. Dahil maaaring yung taong INLOVE din sayo ay wala na pala.

  Tandaan mo: Masyadong mapaglaro ang puso huwag tayo magpaloko.

We learn to love someone pero minsan lang dumating sa atin ang pagkakataong ma-Inlove. Kaya kapag dumating ito, ano ang gagawin mo? Think!

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Rule # 2: Flirting Game

RULE # 2

So i gathered up some basic statistic based on my friends story , Past Experinced and some other blog information about flirting game. So here it is.

1. Waiting Game

In this situation, Minsan okay lang itext mo yung crush mo but other times kaylangan mo din magpa-miss to know if he or she will put some effort to text you, and this will also show you that your crush feels the same way about you.

2. Don't Act Clingy

Being clingy is obvious. Like Constant message or even phone calls asking about your crush current activity or whereabouts. Minsan you have to control yourself and just accept that you are not in control of another person, only yourself!

3. Embrace the Face

Smiley faces and winks are great to use when texting someone you like, because it shows that you are a friendly and happy person. Always share your Positive Energy to everyone.

4. Avoid Silly Nicknames

Avoid making up nicknames for your crush lalo na't di mo pa naman siya ganon ka kilala - for me its overbearing or creepy sometimes! You know That "Close ba tayo?" feeling like.

5. Keep the Ball Rolling

I mean keep the message rolling! Always try to think of funny things, kung pwede mag joke ka kahit na corny pa para lang mapatawa mo siya or even pick-up lines to make someone kilig. Just a reminder: No Personal Question.

6. Ditch the Acronyms & Abbreviations

Abbreviations and acronyms are appropriate sometimes, however bombarding your crush with constant "lol"s, "lmao"s or "hru" "Hbu" may tire them out. Remember you want to impress them after all!

7. Ex Texting

No matter how lonely or angry you get, never ever initiate a text conversation with your EX - best you leave the past in the past! Plus, It's much better to focus your energies and attention on your new crush or likes or even your friends and family.

8. Post-Date Text

Instead of falling into the trap of playing the awkward post-date 'who's going to text who first' game, why not be polite and send a post-date thank you text instead. Like for some instance na pinakopya ka niya ng notes or sinamahan ka niya somewhere. Remember attitude is the best beauty na pwede natin ipagmalaki kahit ano pa ang itsura natin.

9. Delaying Tactics

Okay, Everyone know this basic tactics, When conversation strikes Delay atleast 2-3mins  when texting to your crush. Don't be too obvious and wag ka naman so-sobra sa pag delay ng text like an hour ago. Wag OA. If you're busy just say it -- Remember: "Disappointment triggers pagkasawa"

10. Return the Call

We know sometimes it's less awkward and more time-efficient to text your crush, however if your crush has called you and you missed it, you must absolutely call back! Cause returning their calls show your equal interest in them.

11. Don't Text Under the Influence

This can result destruction or confusion! What i mean is -- like if you've had a few drinks to your friends or just watched a very loved-up romantic comedy, better put the phone away from you and re-think what you're going to say to someone or better yet, wait until you're in a better frame of mind to avoid risking embarrassment!

12. 24-Hour Rule

When your crush texts you, always reply back within 24 hours. Syempre Leaving a reply over a day will make it seems na you're not interested to them. Atleast magsabi ka man lang. Be thankful enough na nage-effort siya na itext ka.

13. Don't Leave Them at Hello

It seems a good idea to text your crush with a simple "Hey" , "Hi"  or "Hello" in other to start a conversation but this kind of flirting will soon become boring, so better to try something that will engage your crush in more of a conversation, don't  forget to end with a question, such as "Kamusta?" or "kumain kana?" etc. tactics in order to make them want to always text back.

14. Thinking of You

Send your crush a simple, yet effective, "I'm thinking about you :)" message. Trust me kahit sinong tao matutuwa sa ganitong text from someone  they like. I call it banat 101 :) remember the more mo siyang napapasaya -- the more siyang mahuhulog. :)

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Rule # 1: Never ever

RULE # 1

Never ever date a STUDENT most likely dean lister or a top student of their batch lalo na kung nasa collar world kana.

Top Reasons why:

1. Hindi ikaw ang priority niya. Remember “Study & Family First”

2. Baka ikaw pa maging dahilan ng pagka bagsak niya. (Destruction - baka ikaw pa masisi)

3. Marami pa siyang gusto marating.

4. Magkaiba na kayo ng mundong ginagawalan. Priorities Vs Obligations.

5. Second Priority ka lang sa buhay niya. (Maybe Third or Fourth pa nga but never First)

6. Hindi ka pa niya kayang panindigan.

7. Time will always be an issues. 

PS: So lately i’ve been thinkin’ what are the perks of dating a undergraduate most likely a dean lister or a top student of their batch. So i came-up with my first ever rule of dating.

"Never ever date a Student, Marry them instead or wait til they graduate" :”>

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If ever happen you’re dating a STUDENT —- a Top student of their batch.

Top Perks of Dating them:

1. Accepts the fact na hindi lang ikaw ang mundo niya. Remember “Priority First”

2. You just have to accept na minsan “second choice" or "Second Priority" ka lang niya.

3. Ikaw dapat ang mag adjust — remember magkaiba kayo ng mundong ginagalawan.

4. Don’t disturb ang peg niya pag nag-aaral. So better get lost for a while.

5. Kaylangan mo siyang intindihin all the time.

6. Don’t Demand. Just Understand. Nasa pangangalaga parin siya ng magulang niya.

7. Accept the fact na hindi mo siya makakasama sa mga out of town/country mo. (Remember # 6)

8. Vampire siya. Beauty rest ka. means magkaiba na kayo ng sleeping habits. kaylangan mong mag-adjust but not too much.

9. May sembreak and month long vacay sila and you? Holidays lang ang oras mo para makasama siya ng matagal.

Conclusion: Wala naman maganda perks ang pakikipag-date sa mga Studyante “pa”. For short “Wag ka ng magtangkang pa” Mahirap! all you have to do is wait, until they finish their studies - wait ‘til they get-in to your world - wait ‘til kaya ka na niyang panindigan. Its all about waiting game.

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"A hug is a handshake from the heart" So can i have the handshake? :"> I guess your handshake is my favorite. 💕 Always.

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Is your cup half full or half empty? ☕

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Thoughts for today: I’m so fvckin’ tired to hold on. I just want to give-up, but this fvckin’ heart still lookin’ for reason to stay.

They say: “Let Go. Let God”

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Just wondering why..

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Cause it’s so fuckin’ hard to let go. Wondering what Adele chose between chasing or giving up? 😧😣

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People don't always need advice. Sometimes all they really need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and a heart to understand them.

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I'm addicted to your Hug, 'cause your hug definitely my Drug. Can i demand a hug? :) 

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I'm still In love.. In love with you.. Always. Remember. That.