havinganfois

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Imagine chasing your kid around the house, them laughing so hard because they think they're so much faster than you!

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Imagine your magical f/o reaching through you and removing that sad part of your heart - the uncomfortable part, the one that isn't doing okay. Imagine being able to entrust that with your f/o in a physical form, to be able to physically see it, and hold it.

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Imagine your f/o making you something healthy to eat!

- Maybe you have eaten nothing but chips and corn syrup for the past few days, or maybe you're just craving leaves

- your f/o knows exactly what you like, what spices, what sweets, what seasonings to add.

- Your f/o knows more-or-less how to make a balanced meal, they know the color-trick, all of that

- They know just how to serve it, and plate it with all the love in the world

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Imagine your f/o playing with your hair. Braiding it, brushing it, conditioning it, possibly chiding you for it being so tangled, possibly complementing you on it, how pretty it is, how well you've taken care of it, etc etc etc etc

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Imagine what your f/o does during a selfie with the both of you. Do they take it, or do you? Or does somebody ask a third party? Are they camera shy? Do they try and not smile, then smile a little bit on accident? Why are you guys taking the picture in the first place?

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God, imagine riding the bus with your f/o. Getting off at the same stop every day, even though your lives are so different. Imagine making light conversation with them, which turns into regularly telling each other about your day, which turns into getting each other's contact information and becoming great friends!

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What strategies does your f/o do to calm you down? What are ways you could replicate this in your own life?

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Imagine your f/o who LOVES this one Thing, letting you have part of their Thing. A dragon f/o who gives you a part of their hoard. An f/o who loves to eat food, giving you a bite of something they find delicious. Your f/o who loves to read but never lets you see what their reading, moving to let you look over their shoulder.

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Imagine your f/o holding you after a dream. It could have been a great dream, and you're tiredly explaining it as you wake up. Or out could've been terrible, and your f/o is keeping you safe, allowing you to relax enough to drift back to sleep.

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Imagine being lost in a maze, imagine not being able to find your way out. Your f/o finds you, protects you. They have a map, and even though the landscape is ever-changing, they know how to get you free.

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Imagine you had a magic wand that could turn your f/o into a cuddly creature whenever you wanted huh. What then

Imagine your f/o becoming a cuddly creature, like a dog or a cat or a capybara or a furby. Imagine... oh no, oh dear.,,, they won't turn back unless you cuddle with them like that's the cure like ohh noooo......

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Okay this is the wildest freaking pull but imagine conducting a trust fall with your f/o but you wanted to catch them at the last second but instead their ass like kind of hit the ground but NOT REALLY and it's fine. Imagine that.

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Imagine conducting a trust fall with your f/o. Feeling their weight in your arms. Feeling the weightlessness of being caught. Trusting each other completely.

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Imagine your f/o becoming a cuddly creature, like a dog or a cat or a capybara or a furby. Imagine... oh no, oh dear.,,, they won't turn back unless you cuddle with them like that's the cure like ohh noooo......

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Imagine waking up next to your f/o.. not in a "slept in the same bed" way, but in a "crawled into your bed because they had a nightmare" way, or maybe in a "you asked them to be your alarm and wake you up" way. Or maybe it's a: "in a sitcom-style series of events, you ended up passing out in the same bed without the other noticing. It's not what it looks like, you swear!" kind of situation.

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Imagine your f/o standing up for you. Advocating for you. Protecting you. Getting in front of someone's way, physically, to keep them from hurting you.

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Imagine your f/o drawing a redesign of YOU. Writing slightly out of character fanfiction about YOU