harmful-satou

[harmful-satou]

^^

While I have wifi, I'll let you all know that the storm knocked out our power and it wont be fixed for a week, so we'll all respond when we can!! We are safe though!

[harmful-satou]

That's honestly very, very fair. I'm truly sorry that you had to deal with people who wouldn't respect your boundaries. No one deserves to have their own boundaries used against them in a consensual relationship, friendship or otherwise. Boundaries should be a number one thing, but I guess some people will attempt to break them no matter what. It's sickening.

Hello, this is Satou, and I will be making this crystal clear. We are chronologically an adult. If you'd like to be our friend and you are chronologically a minor, that is perfectly fine.

What is not okay is assuming that we will be romantic or in a conabuse or harmful with anyone who is chronologically underage. Even if you are just a year or two younger than us, we are not comfortable with that. At all. Do not scare away potential friends of ours. Especially when it was made very clear that a friendship was going to stay perfectly platonic.

Also. Also. Very big fucking thing here! If a chrono adult is asking you to keep things platonic, just to stay friends, don't fucking try to make shit romantic. Don't say "you'll catch them lacking." Don't fucking try to scare away their friends. Don't try to fucking break an adults boundaries that they are putting in place for both you and their safety holy fucking shit. This will be reblogged on mine's and tommy's blogs.

If you are pulling that shit to try to get into a conabuse relationship, guess what? You are taking the consent out of consensual abxse. (u)

[harmful-satou]

Followed because that same person made a small advance at me and now I just feel bad for you and am pissed off as well. Sorry you're being treated like such shit and having your boundaries ignored. 💖 Stay safe.

-You'll be able to tell who from notifs, for my sanity I'm sending on anon.

Thank you, I'm just recuperating at the moment. Might honestly take a break from fronting for a bit, because I'm just out of it right now.

[harmful-satou]

Ill properly fucking tag it later, im just. Out of it.

Hello, this is Satou, and I will be making this crystal clear. We are chronologically an adult. If you'd like to be our friend and you are chronologically a minor, that is perfectly fine.

What is not okay is assuming that we will be romantic or in a conabuse or harmful with anyone who is chronologically underage. Even if you are just a year or two younger than us, we are not comfortable with that. At all. Do not scare away potential friends of ours. Especially when it was made very clear that a friendship was going to stay perfectly platonic.

Also. Also. Very big fucking thing here! If a chrono adult is asking you to keep things platonic, just to stay friends, don't fucking try to make shit romantic. Don't say "you'll catch them lacking." Don't fucking try to scare away their friends. Don't try to fucking break an adults boundaries that they are putting in place for both you and their safety holy fucking shit. This will be reblogged on mine's and tommy's blogs.

If you are pulling that shit to try to get into a conabuse relationship, guess what? You are taking the consent out of consensual abxse. (u)

[harmful-satou]

peeks @ u, hello ! wld u like 2 talk? :33

Ooh? Sure, I wouldn't mind that at all! Please do note that I am sharing front with a pesky bird at the moment, so apologies for any slow responses. :)

[harmful-satou]

yeah there’s not a lot of hsg introjects out there unfortunately :( and even if they exist i would see why they wouldn’t put out their source lol

i hope you do find some sourcemates! (if you desire to)

Very very true! I do like to make my source known so that other fictives know that just because you have a 'problematic' source doesn't make you a bad person! And I do hope to find some souremates one day!

(That sentiment is not held by mean I want to be fucking 'problematic' in the eyes of so called normal beings.)

[harmful-satou]

OMG a wild satou blog, satou is like my idol! i look up to her so much!!

Oh, you look up to me? That's wonderful to hear! Before I split, my system also looked up to me! If you ever would like to chat with me, I will happily oblige! <3

[harmful-satou]

omg no way we also have a satou in our sys ???? she’s not rlly rq but rq adjacent :3

ur cool, we’re glad to meet you !!

It's pleasant to hear that there are other Satou's out there! I do wonder if there are any sourcemates or kins from my source out there, as I've never seen any! It's nice to meet you as well!

[harmful-satou]

I'm a stalker in the way that I want to see what makes you tick, my dear. I want to see what makes you frustrated, what causes you to isolate from your friends. I want to find every fault in you and use it to bring you closer to me. Were you hurt by someone you once called friend? I'll be your friend. I'll be better than they ever were to you. You don't need people like that around you. You can always put your faith in my guidance, my sweet. I'll steer you the right way, even if I have to puppeteer you the entire way. You'll eventually get it right.

[harmful-satou]

cisharmful.

a term for those who identify themselves as cisharmful for any reason.

no dni. just be good.

[harmful-satou]

cisstalker.

a term for those who identify themselves as cisstalker for any reason.

no dni. just be good.

[harmful-satou]

may i ask that you coin perma-manipulator and perma-manipulated?

If it’s alr coined, then could I also ask for names and prns that’s inspired by paras (zoo and pedo…) if ur comfy with that ofc :3

PERMAMANIPULATOR

perma manipulator

a transharmful identity for one identifies as, or wishes to be, permanently a manipulator for any reason

PERMAMANIPULATED

perma manipulated

a transharmed identity for one identifies as, or wishes to be, permanently manipulated for any reason

anyone can use these, however, we are radqueer and anti xenosatanist, respect your own dni

coined already? consider these recoins/alt flags!

coined by del3tingalltracez

🐾 prns below cut! (no ideas for names or 🍸s, srry!)

🐾: zoo/zoos, paw/paws, meow/meows, mew/mews, purr/purrs, whisker/whiskers, claw/claws, fluff/fluffs, fur/furs, grr/grrs, pup/pups, roar/roars, scale/scales, woof/woofs, bark/barks, chom/chomp, kit/kits, bite/bites, wag/wags, wing/wings, bun/buns, rat/rats, bug/bugs, growl/growls, swim/swims, 🐾/🐾s, 🍋/🍋s, ξ/ξs, ζ/ζs, 🐝/🐝s, 🐲/🐲s, Ω/Ωs

hope u like them!! had no ideas for 🍸s or for names at all, sorry! all emojipronouns are based off of the emoji codes for different types of 🐾 attractions!!

[harmful-satou]

Predatory Savior Syndrome

A condition in which the subject will find and isolate those they find vulnerable and lesser so as to gain control over them. The subject will present themselves as a savior, slowly isolating their target(s) and manipulating boundaries until they are willing to do things that they never would've imagined doing without the subject's influence.

Symptoms include:

Manipulative Behavior

The subject frequently manipulates others, especially those who are vulnerable, in order to gain control over them.

Grandiosity

A belief that they are superior to their target(s) due to their ability to easily manipulate them into doing as they desire.

Isolation Tactics

The subject deliberately isolates their target(s) from friends, family, and other support systems to prevent possible lucidity to their actions and true motivations.

Boundary Pushing

The subject gradually pushes the boundaries of their target(s), encouraging them to engage in behaviors they would normally find immoral or unacceptable for their own gain.

Emotional Manipulation

The subject uses guilt, shame, or praise to control and influence their target(s) actions and decisions.

Deceptive Kindness

The subject appears extremely kind and benevolent on the surface to mask their true intentions until they are certain the target(s) is fully in their grasp.

Dependancy Creation

The subject is able to easily make their target(s) dependant on them. Be it for emotional, financial, or social needs.

Paranoia

Some subjects may become overly paranoid about their target(s) potentially becoming lucid to the manipulation and breaking free from their control.

Lack of Empathy

The subject shows little to no genuine empathy for the suffering of their target(s), focusing instead on their own perceived superiority.

[harmful-satou]

PermaBlush

an ID for someone who identifies as permanently blushing, or thinks they should be permanently blushing.

if this has already been coined, consider it an alt flag! <3

[harmful-satou]

-ˋˏ✄┈┈┈┈ TRANSLANDMINE

a transpersonality term for those who identify with the "Land Mine Woman/地雷女" personality. A personality type described as someone appearing to have a sweet/pleasant appearance, but secretly has severe personality issues.

[harmful-satou]

✽　　　.　　 ⁺　　　⊹ 　　Satou's blog

" See, the more twisted, the more vivid this love becomes. "

　　TrisHarmful　❀　System Alter　❀　Chrono Adult

　　　　　　more info and tag guides under the cut!

✽　　　.　　 ⁺　　　⊹ 　　IDS

key ; cis, trans, perma, transitioning

permastalker, trisabuser, transprogammer, cishated, transadored, questioning transharmed, translandmine, permateen, trismanipulator

✽　　　.　　 ⁺　　　⊹　　Extra Info

part of @trans-painter 's system, specifically in a subsystem with someone who is working on making a blog in the future.

I am a Satou Matsuzaka & Nana Hiragi fictive, who uses She/Sweet pronouns. I am a frequent fronter and was one of the first alters in the system to find out about paras & radqueer spaces.

I do have some paras that I will not be disclosing unless I am close to someone, as most of our paras are system wide, in most cases. Perhaps get to know me first!

I do put on quite the sweet exterior, but I am extremely interested in having someone to toy with, be they transharmful or transharmed. I suppose I wouldn't be fully against being harmed.. I will clarify this, our system is a chrono adult who is very dysphoric when perceived with a cut and dry age!

✽　　　.　　 ⁺　　　⊹　　Tag Guide

#🍬　　（⭒ ˘ ˘） ⠀ the sweetest lies

anon interactions!

#🍭　　（⭒ ˘ ˘） ⠀ the bitter truths

rambling, especially regarding source!

#🍥　　（⭒ ˘ ˘） ⠀ the cute exterior

reblogs, mainly hoarding as I am an identity hoarder!

#🔪　　（⭒ ˘ ˘） ⠀ the bloody secrets

harmful tag, please filter this if you do not wish to see this side of me.