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I am so sorry, the people have spoken. (Space Ex Boyfriend kidnaps Hero at his wedding with Sweetheart. It's his revenge! But also he might be trying to seduce Hero with his gay antics. Mmh.) im so sorry omori community

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this post is for the people with memory issues

people who's memories are getting worse every day, who's memories are stable but poor, people who can't remember what they did today or yesterday or this week, people who's childhoods are a faded blur. people who have slow greying-out amnesia that seems to just fade in and out of existence, and people who have complete blackouts, and people who have both. people who mourn the happy memories they know they've lost, who fear the bad memories they've lost that still affect them.

people who have "emotional amnesia" that makes it feel like none of their memories are their own, because there's few or no feelings attached. people who can ONLY remember the feelings from certain or even most memories, not actual events. people who's memory issues scare them or make them angry or make them miserable. people who's memory issues get them called childish or difficult or rude. who can't remember the names or faces of those they love. who are constantly forgetting the things that "you'd remember if you really cared". who misplace everything. who remember so little of their lives that they barely know who they are. people who's memory issues come from trauma/dissociation, ADHD, traumatic brain injury, brain fog/chronic fatigue, drug use, alcoholism. people who have no idea what causes their memory issues. people who's memory issues come from something else entirely.

i love you, you're strong, and you deserve support and care for what you're going through. memory issues can be frustrating and upsetting and disabling, and your suffering deserves to be recognized. whether you're soaring through recovery or are only ever going to get worse, you deserve good things in life and to live the fullest you can, regardless of how much you remember.

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Not everyone is doing better than me now, need to go comfort IRL. I still hope everyone will be doing better than me though.

Are you okay?

I'm doing as best I can, anon, hope everyone else is doing better than me.

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Im exhausted

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Are you okay?

I'm doing as best I can, anon, hope everyone else is doing better than me.

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love y'all, goodbye!

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I really dislike when people harass and yell at each other.

i've had so many conversations with people in fandom/creators' circles who are genuinely afraid to make the stories or art they want because they fear (often with good reason!) that their friends might kick them out of their circles, or worse, launch a public harassment campaign against them.

as someone recovering from this fear-based mindset, i want to affirm:

- friends who use implicit or explicit threats to maintain social control are not your friends

- communities that monitor your social media and ao3 to surveil you for perceived transgressive content are not safe communities

- the vast majority of people are NOT going to hate you if you make the art you want

- if you find yourself in a friend group that makes you feel afraid to speak your mind, it's in your interest to disentangle yourself from that group as quickly as possible

- real, honest disagreements between friends can be solved respectfully without the use of public shaming

- if you're feeling afraid in a community, it's likely that others are feeling afraid too. support your friends who may be struggling to leave an abusive fan or creative community, and let them know you're a safe person to voice doubts and disagreement to.

- if you're feeling like you'll never find a safer community of people, i promise there are others who feel that way too. it may take some time, but you'll find people who treat you and your ideas with respect. a good place to start is the people who make the type of art that you admire but that you're too afraid to make yourself.

ok that's all, take care of each other and be nice 💜

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here’s a fun new way of responding to anon hate, just post this pic

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i saw the shirts and liek…. it’s so them

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i saw it like a month ago and finally drew it 😑 here

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are y'all hearing about this? apparently ZA/UM split up into three studios and they're all looking to make a disco elysium successor which they all announced on the same day

they're also all calling the others fake cashgrabs so who's to say which one is for real

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STOP! before you make an extreme decision or take drastic action of some kind, think about SIFFRIN

are you:

S - sick?

I - indignant?

F - fatigued?

F - famished?

R - resentful of anyone trying to help you, even loved ones?

I - in a state of distress?

N - needing a hug?

if you answered yes to one or more of the above, fix that and then get back to your big decision!

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”KEEEL, GIVE ME BACK MY CANDY!!”🎀

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i'm beginning to think that the problem with a lot of the internet isn't just the perpetual low reading comprehension. there is that, but i think there's also something else that gets confused for it very often:

it's the fact that people will wilfully misinterpret literally anything you say, no matter how clear and reasonable, if you say it in a way that isn't socially acceptable- i.e. "too aggressive," "offensive" (not in the genuine way, but in the "they said a word twitter says is mean" way), or "made me uncomfortable" (usually meaning: "you brought up a topic that makes me sad/angry, i don't want to think about it, therefore you're at fault". an easy way to get this response is to bring up your own trauma in any amount to the other person, regardless of how contextually important it may be.)

with all the reactionary nonsense going around lately, i think i deserve the right to make an obnoxious reactionary take of my own, as a treat: i think this shit is ableist as fuck! i'm autistic, also known as "unable-to-instinctively-understand-social-rules disease." this way of thinking? being forced to dodge and weave through invisible tripwires around everyone, lest they invalidate everything i say- no matter how carefully constructed- for being "too mean?" it's a very effective system for excluding neurodivergent people's input from online spaces, and serves no other purpose. whether it's done intentionally or not, i don't really care. i'm so damn tired. thanks