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Anyone who tries to compare pixels to a real life child with real emotions is objectifying children. Sorry antis :(

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If I call a para a harmful para I mean harmful if acted on. An attraction does not harm anyone; physically acting on one that could harm and/or endanger others is harmful.

Things involving children, no consent, animals, etc is abuse. It is not harmful to be attracted to these things; it is harmful to physically participate in said para. No this does not include rp or fiction. This is about actual harm.

On another but not completely different note.

If I say I'm anti-contact I mean anti-contact for paras that are harmful when acted on. Not all paras. Paras are attractions deemed as abnormal. Just because it's said to be abnormal doesn't mean it can actually hurt anyone. Ex: Objectophilia

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Your moral ocd is lying to you and tumblr is lying to you. you do NOT have to reblog any post you dont want to and you dont need to justify it and youre not prejudiced against a certain marginalized group if you dont reblog an Upsetting Post about a Current Issue said group is facing

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i wuv u ex abusers! i wuv u ex offenders! i wuv u folkel who did something bad that u now deeply regret! i wuv u folkel who are trying to change! i wuv u folkel who dont know how to change but rlly want to!

u are not forever unloveable nor are u forever a danger! u are still able to change + grow! im proud of u!!

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also worth noting that "abusive" doesn't actually mean "irredeemable" either.

there's a lot of people that have done things in the past that were bad, because they weren't taught any better, or they were in an overall toxic situation where EVERYONE was shitty (like a cult), or they were just at an especially low point and hurt others for it.

you don't have to forgive them. you don't have to ever speak to them again. you can be angry with them until you die if you want.

but society cannot function if we don't allow them to move on. to change their behavior and fuck off somewhere else and build meaningful relationships without bothering you again. we need a path for people to change, or nothing ever will.

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Things I'd love for the Internet to leave in 2023:

• misusing the word "delusional" or saying "delulu"

• public freakout videos that are just someone displaying psychotic symptoms

• "I'm in your walls" and other paranoia triggering "jokes"

• schizoposting

• misusing the word "psychotic"

• baiting and triggering people online who are openly psychotic or displaying psychotic symptoms

• excluding schizo-spec and psychotic people from any neurodiversity/mental illness awareness

Let's just all try to be better to schizo-spec and psychotic people. And hold others accountable as well.

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Kawaii Escapism Syndrome (KES)

Kawaii Escapism Syndrome involves individuals who engage in a pattern of hoarding cute items or adopting a deliberately cute demeanor as a means of escaping or masking underlying emotional distress. This disorder is when the pursuit of cuteness serves as a coping mechanism to temporarily distance individuals from their deeper feelings and challenges.

Symptoms:

People with KES may hoard cute objects, such as plush toys, stationery, or accessories, creating an environment filled with cuteness to distract from emotional difficulties.

To cope with emotional struggles, people with KES may adopt an exaggeratedly cute persona in their appearance, speech, or behavior, aiming to have an image of innocence and playfulness to themselves and others.

KES is where the focus on cuteness serves to create a barrier between you and your deeper emotions. The cute aesthetics act as a shield, preventing a direct confrontation with their emotional.

Engaging in cute activities or surrounding oneself with cute items may provide temporary relief from your emotional distress, allowing you to escape into a world of simplicity and positivity, albeit momentarily.