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Women have another option. They can aspire to be wise, not merely nice; to be competent, not merely helpful; to be strong, not merely graceful; to be ambitious for themselves, not merely for themselves in relation to men and children. They can let themselves age naturally and without embarrassment, actively protesting and disobeying the conventions that stem from this society’s double standard about aging. Instead of being girls, girls as long as possible, who then age humiliatingly into middle-aged women, they can become women much earlier — and remain active adults, enjoying the long, erotic career of which women are capable, far longer. Women should allow their faces to show the lives they have lived. Women should tell the truth.

—Susan Sontag, "The Double Standard of Aging," The Saturday Review, Sept 23, 1972

(Philo Thoughts)

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May the love you attract in 2025 feel soft, nourishing, reciprocal, and easy. Not traumatizing, ill-timed, or emotionally immature.

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Angelo Morbelli (1853 - 1919, Italian) ~ Il Risveglio / The Awakening, 1878-80

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Crazy to think about how big the world and how small the bugs are yet they still manage to find one another to have bug sex

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Auguste Rodin: Two Hands (1909)

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maggie nelson, bluets // carly rae jepsen, too much // susan sontag, notes on camp // carly rae jepsen, gimme love // bell hooks, all about love // sufjan stevens, too much 

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Le Bonheur (1965) dir. Agnès Varda.

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Armando Morales (Nicaraguan, 1927-2011), Femme qui rêve [Dreaming Woman], 1994. Oil and beeswax on canvas, 89 x 130 cm.

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We Know The Devil (2015) / The Children's Hour (1961) / Triple Dog Dare (2021)

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August 4, 1979

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i cant believe people are shipping characters from the bear. this show is about how being a chef ruins your life forever and all you people care about is fucking

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posting this verbatim everytime i log on here

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We will forever be in the pits