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to add on. i feel like i will be back sooner rather than later bc my butch and i are dressing up as mulder and scully for a halloween party this weekend and i will not be normal about it

please come back 😭 the butches need you

omg i feel important… things have been really stressful irl so i have not been able to put much into this blog, but i will probably be back ☝️ just have to be struggling a little less first lol

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please come back 😭 the butches need you

omg i feel important… things have been really stressful irl so i have not been able to put much into this blog, but i will probably be back ☝️ just have to be struggling a little less first lol

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u guys have GOT to stop using br*d p*tt in forcemasc posts, i do not give a fuck that he was in fight club or seven or interview with the vampire or whatever fucking movie, HE IS AN ABUSER

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"Femmes, through a reshaped femininity, exhibit an assertive sexuality that does not conflate desire with political practice. This very assertiveness can be politically empowering for femmes who like to play with the idea of power but are not disempowered by this play. For example, femmes with a bottom identification can renegotiate the dynamics of passivity/activity such that their feminine position is one of receiving pleasure rather than of being receptive solely for someone else's pleasure. What seems to be passivity is actually activity: she allows the butch to control her pleasure, but this control and the pleasure are exactly what the femme has demanded. For the bottom femme as for other varieties of femme sexuality--top, s/m, bisexual, or others--her own female sexual agency is paramount. The femme who plays with power provides a model that negotiates rather than ignores power differentials in relationships. [...] In many ways, femmes' chosen pleasures rather than politically prescribed pleasures are radically feminist."

-- "An Introduction to Sustaining Femme Gender," written by Laura Harris & Liz Crocker. (Emphasis in bold mine.)

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do u guys also have kinks/fetishes u know u would be into but u just havent fully addressed it yet . mine are latex and medfet . very intrigued but i havent done my homework

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something abt my butch picking the color for my nails makes them more fun to do<3

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just finished reading the rose of versailles and started watching the anime so. sorry if that makes its way into my posts 💔

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femmes who are overdramatic about their horniness are the backbone of society

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autistic but i got the sex autism so while im tying you up and leashing you like a good boy i infodump about how this releases endorphins that get you in that fuzzy elated mood and i tell all about how sex is so important for building intimate bonds between people. then i pull the rope tighter and hear you squeal

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dont tell my butch but sometimes ill scroll on pinterest and daydream about having unlimited money to dress him up in outfits coordinated with my own

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Photos from The second coming : A Leatherdyke Reader (1996)

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they have shipped ☝️ ill post pics when i have them hehe

buying my butch and i matching knives to threaten each other with<3

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FEMME NAILS ON BUTCH BULGE SEND TWEET

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i need to ride my butch i need to ride my butch i need to ride my butch i need to ride my butch i need to ride my butch i need to ride my butch i need to ride my butch i need to ride my butch I NEED TO RIDE MY BUTCH