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Elf, Christmas Story, and Polar Express can all just disappear and I would be happy!

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Will be looking at making a donation in honor of my wife who I just lost 2 months ago after a nearly 10 year fight with cancer.... and who had treatments that cost 15K per month for oral chemo and who was getting immuno therapy right before she died that costs around 24K per treatment and she got them every three weeks! Medical expenses KILL PEOPLE!

btw while people continue to fight the system don't forget about Undue Medical Debt (formerly RIP Medical Debt), a charity that buys and forgives medical debt. on average a donation of $10 will forgive $1,000 of medical debt.

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Facing the loss of my spouse of 12 years and the soul mate I took care of as their sole caretaker for 10 years.... I am struggling through this right now. 2 months out it is so fresh it feels like I will never change from the crushing weight I is now. i know it will but - fuck is it hard right now

"Growing Around Grief"

Lois Tonkin, 1996

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hehehehe 3 decades and some change for me- life went down hill when I was 10 and been some peaks but largely a downhill slide

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Please, spread this for those who might need it right now

U.S. suicide hotline: call or text 988 (available 24 hours)

U.S. trans lifeline: (877) 565-8860 (when you call, you’ll speak to a trans/nonbinary peer operator. full anonymity and confidentiality)

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) – provides 24/7 confidential support and referrals for individuals and families facing mental health and substance use disorders, including panic attacks and anxiety.

LGBT National Help Center: (888) 843-4564

Trevor Project: Call (866) 488-7386, text START to 678-678, or chat online.

Take care of yourself and each other. Please stay safe ♡

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Dog is a irrigation specialist

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The sad side is that there are many of us who can't afford the 15-20 bucks a meal price at all regardless of what we are getting, so we are running out of options for food more than most others!

I dunno man. I found out today that a subway sandwich is $14 now. A shitty subway footlong sandwich that isn't actually 12 inches long and is occasionally made with expired ingredients and was never a great option to start with. I ate those in high school because I was broke and at the mall a lot.

There are poke bowls in my city from a local place for $16. Super fresh fish and veg, warm rice, more than I can eat in one sitting, for the price of a sandwich and a drink at america's most mid-tier sandwich shop.

Someone in another post said (paraphrased) you used to be able to get something mediocre for cheap, but now the mediocre things cost as much as the nice things so why would you?

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My Master <3

JOHN SIMM as THE MASTER in BBC'S DOCTOR WHO

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perfect boy .

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Hes literally me hes literally me hes literally me

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Big Sur, California by Kristin Castenschiold

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I threw a dog on the ground today 😭😭😭

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Happy Labor Day. Today I learned about probably the first strike to happen IN SPACE.

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*sigh* guess we have to do this then