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depression tips™

shower. not a bath, a shower. use water as hot or cold as u like. u dont even need to wash. just get in under the water and let it run over you for a while. sit on the floor if you gotta.

moisturize everything. use whatever lotion u like. unscented? dollar store lotion? fancy ass 48 hour lotion that makes u smell like a field of wildflowers? use whatever you want, and use it all over. 

put on clean, comfortable clothes. 

put on ur favorite underwear. cute black lacy panties? those ridiculous boxers u bought last christmas with candy cane hearts on the butt? put em on.

drink cold water. use ice. if u want, add some mint or lemon for an extra boost.

clean something. doesn’t have to be anything big. organize one drawer of ur desk. wash five dirty dishes. do a load of laundry. scrub the bathroom sink. 

blast music. listen to something upbeat and dancey and loud, something that’s got lots of energy. sing to it, dance to it, even if you suck at both.

make food. don’t just grab a granola bar to munch. take the time and make food. even if it’s ramen. add something special to it, like a hard boiled egg or some veggies. prepare food, it tastes way better, and you’ll feel like you accomplished something. 

make something. write a short story or a poem, draw a picture, color a picture, fold origami, crochet or knit, sculpt something out of clay, anything artistic. even if you don’t think you’re good at it.

go outside. take a walk. sit in the grass. look at the clouds. smell flowers. put your hands in the dirt and feel the soil against your skin.

call someone. call a loved one, a friend, a family member, call a chat service if you have no one else to call. talk to a stranger on the street. have a conversation and listen to someone’s voice. if you can’t, text or email or whatever, just have some social interaction with another person. even if you don’t say much, listen to them.

cuddle your pets if you have them/can cuddle them. take pictures of them. talk to them. tell them how u feel, about your favorite movie, a new game coming out.

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The fact that the next time we hear from them could be an album or big announcement makes me sickkkkkk omg

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something about crowds singing in unison at concerts that leaves my entire existence awestruck. its the the most human thing ever.

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Witchcraft, Wisdom, Death...

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when band members smile at each other while playing man that’s when my life is just rainbows 

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I’m actually going to blast myself into orbit I cannot handle this.

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patti smith throwing sandwiches at a journalist after he criticized her lengthy songs

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Sam and Danny should kiss. Just for the hell of it

hell yeah, dude. hell yeah

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11/12/24

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I have this reoccurring daydream (maladaptive fantasy) where I meet Danny at a music fest and we hit it off but can’t talk long cause I’m rushing to watch Chappell Roans set. Anyways he comes with me and when he meets all my friends and realizes he’s surrounded by queer people he thinks he doesn’t have a chance anymore. Eventually, while we’re laughing and singing and dancing all up close and personal, he realizes he definitely does have a chance and 👀

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You need to draw and make art or else all the images will stay in your head and you'll get sick

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“I’m a top” “I’m a bottom” okay? I’ve loved, I’ve lost, I’m the archer

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i hurt my own feelings so it’s only fair that i hurt yours too

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A study in twink death

Got very soft about this post by @blacksmokebarbarians and had to draw

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awesome. we have a beetle problem

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10/31/24